Fact is, you just can't please everyone!

There are times when we bump into those sort of immature ones ... they are so dumb that they cannot even differentiate flirting and loving!Well if someone prefers to hate you for all the wrong reasons so let it be its their wise decision .. infact its rather stupid.Great day.

i realize this, then i try to stop. there is a time that i really want to make everybody happy, but what happen is i just make them disappointed. so i better make my self happy, maybe it is sound selfish, but it is much easier

I work with someone who is like this. They always seem to be hard to please, and while at the same time never accept even helpful criticism and seem to find fault with almost everything like the world owes them a living. Maybe it is due to the differences in Culture and since I am a Christian, but it can be quite annoying at times for sure.

Yep, that's true

My dear friend I observed when I loved anybody they not loved us. If we like anybody then they not like us the other persons like us but they are not. Why I dont know but this is a fact of life. In rare cases you will find this both are like to each other.

Their pride blocks liking people they jealous of.

I agree with you. If they are not please in what we do. Much be better for us to understand them... That's the reality. We cannot please everybody...even if we do the best things in life...

Well, you are right. You just can't please everyone because everyone is different and has different concepts and opinions and ideas. But I also think that you shouldn't try to please everyone anyway.

I agree that you caan't please everyone that you meet in this world. pleasing yourself is the best that you can do. If people can't accept you for who you are then they never will no matter no what you may say or do. As long as you are happy with yourself that should be all that matters.

Yes, right. WE cannot please everyday. Everyone has it own standard of what is good or bad. Some things are good to others and bad to 1 person....The worst thing is, You made 100 good things will cover by only 1 mistake. That's the fact. I guess, we will just do the thing that we think is right and never mind about what other will say.......Yes, in some point we need to understand and consider the situation..Jealousy is always there..So we can't expect even our best friend is real happy with our accomplishment, unless she / he is sincere....

I think this is why we should be acting ourselves. May you be an angel,a wich a biatch etc. If you are really like that, then go. It wont really matter. People will like you and dislike you even for who you are. If you are very nice, people will say something against you they will say " she is not really nice, what she is doing is just a front." see, so no matter what you do,someone will really say something against you. so what's the use? It will be truly wise to just be yourself.

Oh yes we really can't. Jesus Christ was perfect and yet, He wasn't accepted by all... Not even 2000 years later all of us can follow his teachings about forgiviness, about showing the other side of our face... To love and take care of each other, can't even begin about us, normal beings.

I agree with you totally.it seems that it's instinct of human being to get upset about others' strengths or accomplishments.even though you are a common person,you still cannot please everyone.

You`re right. You cant please everyone. Everyone has some sort of excuse why they dont like a certain person. Best thing to do is feel sad for them... because they werent hugged as a child probably. :/

That is the biggest mistake that I have done in my life is that I am always pleasing other people where in fact it is not worth to please them. I just learned my lesson now and I don't even care of what they think about me. But then I can't help to defend myself to prove my point.

You are right, we can please anyone. But I would not go further as to try to understand the people who cannot find any positive side in me. I would just ignore them. If she/he does not like me, I will not push her/him to like me. But they cannot push me to like them either.

Yes indeed, in addition we are not perfect that's why we cannot please everybody, we cannot be what they want us to be, we can only be us.

I agree with you. I've met a lot of these kinds of people. Some are very transparent to show their dislike towards you and some are back fighters.

People R different. We can't blame anyone who dislike u. And there is no way to let everyone in the community like whatever how popular U r. Just try to be nice to the people that do not like u.

It is way more stressful being a people pleaser than yourself. I used to be one then I became a lot more confident and don't care as much to be one. I think it is a good thing, but you will never please everyone so you might as well be yourself and please the ones who like you for who you are. As I get older, I have less friends but also a lot better ones because of this. I think it is a good thing.