Why is it hard to forget a friend?
By bulastika
@bulastika (5966)
Philippines
March 31, 2011 1:51am CST
Its funny that when you have a misunderstanding with your friend its turn out you have a worse enemy. lols. But if you think about it if that some misunderstanding happens to you and a lesser known friend or acquaintance.Its seem you are not even bother why is that? In the end you can loss a friend that is much closer to you than a friend that you just know.
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6 responses
@kheydia (882)
• Philippines
1 Apr 11
friends are like family to me, they're with me through thick and thin, somehow when understanding occurs i dont really wanted to make a long big deal for it will create gaps and worse they will be gone in my life, whatever it is, who ever's mistake it is i will go for the apologies because i dont want to lose them.
@bulastika (5966)
• Philippines
9 Jun 11
In elementary I have lots of friends. In high school same also. In college same also. In my previous works same also. but once I went to high school. The closeness from my elementary friends are not the same anymore. Same when I went to high school and college and find a job.
@bulastika (5966)
• Philippines
14 Aug 11
That's true. Sometime we think more on what is tomorrow than what is today. Before when I was in college. I don't think where I going to get my money as my parents support me. Now that I'm graduate and jobless. I feel helpless. Since I'm not studying anymore and no more allowance. lols.
@abatencila (970)
• Philippines
1 Apr 11
Friends are gifts from God. They are there when we needed someone to talk to, offers a hand when we needed help,makes us smile when we are sad. We can't live without our friends because they make our life meaningful and happy as well...for me I can't lose a friend worth loving..misunderstanding can always be fixed....just open your heart and mind so you can understand each other better.
@Gothicana (458)
• United States
1 Apr 11
You are more then right,My very best friend was my mother.
She recently past away,and I know she never can be replaced.
She took something from me with her i am feeling empty
@bulastika (5966)
• Philippines
9 Jun 11
I totally disagree. Friends are only good for a moment. But angels? Okay. Just answer this question. Give me five best friends you have. Then loan them 10,000 dollars each. After a year try to ask them to pay you. I doubt if one out of your five friends will even pay you back.
@abatencila (970)
• Philippines
7 Apr 11
Friends are angels who will save us from any harm in this world. They cannot replace anybody's position in my heart.
@cudamani (996)
• India
14 Aug 11
It is hard to forget a friend because he or she would have created an impression on your mind which is hard to erase. Hence friendship should be safeguarded by all means. It should be thoroughly protected.
@bulastika (5966)
• Philippines
15 Aug 11
But now I realize that life do chance and nothing is permanent in life. Its hard to forget them at first. Having them as friend since childhood. elementary comes, high schools, then college then work and you still have them. But when you become married. Its like every thing chance. You seldom see them anymore.
@Metatronik (6199)
• Pasay, Philippines
1 Apr 11
It is really hard to forget a friend because of the times that you have been together especially when you are having fun and had help each other. I have a friend before that I even bother to leave her on air just because of her bratty attitude. Even other people are also complaining about that. I can't help but in case that I still want her back then I just hope that she have change to a better person already.
@bulastika (5966)
• Philippines
9 Jun 11
I learn to accept now. Theirs nothing permanent in life. the only permanent is change.Some how they have their own life now and I have my own life now. No matter I want to go out with them every day. Its just not good anymore. Theirs works, theirs family first. No more time for friends.
@astommacrissandra (85)
• Philippines
31 Mar 11
I believe that friend can be our worst enemies. We share almost everything to our closest friends and thinking that they would never betray us. There will be a point at sometime that you and your bestest friend would fight. You tend to think that your deepest secrets are in trouble. She/he might tell those things to another person. It is hard to fight with a friend. I'd better have a fight with anybody rather having a fight with my friend.
@bulastika (5966)
• Philippines
9 Jun 11
In deed. I have a friend that a she. Actually she's my friend for 10 years. And when she got a boy friend she don't talk to me anymore. hello. Having a boyfriend does not mean you will forget your friends right? After her ex-bf split. She become friendly to me again. And again when she has a new bf. She don't talk to me anymore. weird. But I don't have plans to reconcile.
@azskull (90)
• Philippines
31 Mar 11
True friends are hard to find that's for sure is true.We have our own best friends but if we had miss understanding this true friend of ours become our worst enemies.The question is why this had to happen? simply because they think that if you are that closed you can understand and forget them.because a true friend is easily forgiven.on the other way around a friend you just had met is staying because its just new..and you don't have anything against your new found friend to quarrel into something and basically its a normal behavior of a person not to quarrel with his new found friend because your still in the process of knowing that person..that's my point..lol
@bulastika (5966)
• Philippines
9 Jun 11
I totally agree. its hard to find true friends. And sometime even if you found one at the end they will change. theirs nothing permanent in life and not even friends. I think its best if we move one every step of our life.
