I Just Can't Afford To Let Her Go
By xien2xien
@xien2xien (1382)
Philippines
March 31, 2011 2:05am CST
I upload a photo of me and my bestfriend to share you our photo memories, im hoping to clean the mess between us as soon as possible... we we're bestfriend for 8 years and now we're undergoing some misunderstanding and everything is unclear between the two of us...
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6 responses
@azskull (90)
• Philippines
31 Mar 11
Sad to say sorry for what had happen to you and your best friend.. but this things really happen between friends maybe to give your friendship little test if for how strong your friendship gonna go..you can strive hard to save your friendship because it's not easy to find a true friend right now and its like you gamble to find a true friend.In my life i have those true friends they are my friends since high school,were thirteen years old then up to now were still that best of friend 5 of us..but one of them is the longest friend that i have in my life 22 years of strong friendship and yes we encounter problems like you are experiencing now but we try to work it out because we value most our friendship than the misunderstanding..hopefully you to can do the same...
@xien2xien (1382)
• Philippines
1 Apr 11
yeah we'll probably fix this sooner or later.. it's good that you keep friends since highschool. we knew each other also since we were 13, and became bestfriend when we were 15 and were both 23 now whew, many obstacle to come for us this is not the end
@astommacrissandra (85)
• Philippines
31 Mar 11
Well 8 years of friendship, WOW! its a long time. I think for whatever problems you encounter and having right now, you can fix it yourself. It also depends on how deep is your relationship as a friend. The length of time is not an issue here, its the depth of your friendship. If the both of you would talk and sincerely fix your problem I think you can fix this. Friendship is one of the best thing here on earth.
@xien2xien (1382)
• Philippines
1 Apr 11
friendship is one of the best gift of life and she's the best thing that ever happen in my life
@munchiez117 (539)
• United States
31 Mar 11
8 years is a long time but depending on what the problem is i doubt it can get worst but then again i dont know the person
@xien2xien (1382)
• Philippines
31 Mar 11
in the past eight years we've encounted such problem bigger than this one, its just a misunderstanding but everytime we're in this situation can't help myself but to get stressed and i knew she's also into a lot of stressed
@Metatronik (6199)
• Pasay, Philippines
1 Apr 11
It is really normal to have misunderstandings between friends and it is natural that you are having arguments and fights because even if you are same feathers that always flock together you still have differences in point of views in life. If that is the case then I think you must find the peace of mind first and reflect on the things that the two of you have done.
@penrockerchic (1903)
• Philippines
31 Mar 11
You and your bestfriend had been together for eight years and with that kind of friendship, you should not let anything ruin your relationship. Whatever it is that you both are going through at the moment, take a breather, relax and when both of you are ready to talk to each other then settle your differences as soon as possible. As they say, to have a one true friend is a great treasure. Hope you girls can settle your disputes and conflicts as soon as you can. Communicate well and listen to each other.
@xien2xien (1382)
• Philippines
31 Mar 11
thanks and we will surely do that... thanks for the advise and comment as well... we will work this things up okay
@whengcat (1457)
• Philippines
31 Mar 11
Nice pics...I had some bestfriends before but we kind'a lost in touched...Like my bestfriend in highschool, until now I'm still searching for her on facebook but I always get zero result. My other bf is now working overseas. Our only communication is through ym chatting. Your lucky, I mean both of you are lucky. You have each other to hold on to. Don't waste 8 wonderful years for nothing....
Hope you guys reconcile soon!...Goodluck, Godbless!
@xien2xien (1382)
• Philippines
31 Mar 11
sure madam we will... i know all of you are very much concerned with what were going through even though you don't know us in person, i feel very lucky to have all of you and ofcourse to be a member here at mylot