I want to become lazy! Some tips please ?
By besthope44
@besthope44 (12123)
India
March 31, 2011 4:01am CST
I am busy bee of my home. I see my brother always enjoying life, getting up late, enjoying his food , dont like to bath. And when i advised him, he stated me do you know the enjoyment of being lazy. Its hard to get that skill of laziness. I hardly takes rest of myself. So I want to go lazy to smell it essence for a while. Simple ideas will help me to experiment.So mylotters tip me few
4 responses
@himaniforoi (17)
• India
31 Mar 11
This is really intresting! See,one thing is that you will enjoy the laziness only if you are lazy at a given time and your life and routine permits you that laziness...
But still if u want to taste laziness still ,then u have to enforce laziness within u as people enforce busy-ness within them to avoid laziness.
Some tips-1) Don't work
2) Just understand why being a lazy dude is a good thing (available at the following hyperlink www.rebelzen.com/2008/09/10/10-reasons-why-being-a-lazy-dude-is-actually-a-good-thing/)
3)Stop taking responsibilities for things.
4)Worry less.
@besthope44 (12123)
• India
31 Mar 11
I have noted your steps. Welcome to mylot! Well said! I enforce busyness sometimes to avoid keeping me idle. So you say i have to do repeat it for the lazyness act. Good tip formula instead. I would take your last point first, as i always worry of what things i should do, why my home is untidy...So I will go dontcare and worryless..will keep you updated on how my research goes? Do you worry more or you a easy going person? I wish you are not like my brother, a master of laziness.
@himaniforoi (17)
• India
31 Mar 11
Sure,I will like to know ur progress in this enjoy laziness experiment...Good luck!
@humbleme (1004)
• India
31 Mar 11
Hello besthope44, Hahahahahaha, you want to go lazy! hahahaha, I bet you cant, you are a responsible person who loves and care for everybody around you,you are busy bee with your home.Never compare yourself with your brother,you think he is enjoying his life but a time will come when he too have to realise his own responsibilities he is still not mentally matured.As you have asked some tips, here you are, if you enjoy music then listen to music while doing your work,tips number two,when ever you feel over stressed just sit down, take deep breath,tips number three, what ever you do, do with a relaxed mind, do everything with pleasure thinking that you have to do it.Thanks.
@besthope44 (12123)
• India
31 Mar 11
Hi humbleme, I guess you are busybee like me and dont like to be lazy. Your words are true, even i dont like to be lazy, but wanted to experiment so I can find ways to get my brother in right track. So I will experiment it some time. I would take up your tip of relaxing mind thats the toughest one for me. As I never do it. So you do breathing exercises to relax your mind?
@humbleme (1004)
• India
31 Mar 11
Hello again, Yes I practise meditations and breathing exercises since my school days and believe me it really works.If you continously think about stress and pains
of life stress and pain will increase,what ever you do do it with pleasure with a smilling face, I bet stress will be reduced. Thanks again.
@besthope44 (12123)
• India
31 Mar 11
I appreciate about your practise of breathing exercises from young age. I do believe in them and I tried sometimes practising breathing exercises. Thats best way to reduce stress.Thanks for sharing this nice information..keep practising and will follow it soon after my experiments!
@qianlizhifeng (468)
• China
31 Mar 11
The truth may be that you are tired with something when you say you want to be lazy.Hard working is of course necessary for we hope to lead a bette life .However ,if you always work hard with just little rest ,you will certainly become tired .So in general ,laziness sometimes is not bad things.
@besthope44 (12123)
• India
31 Mar 11
Thats the logic! So you say tiredness, resting are form of laziness. My brother doesnot work rather, but still he is lazy all day. Yes true, laziness sometimes is not bad, so I am learning some tips to be lazy for while and then help my brother to balance his life. Thanks
@jennyze (7028)
• Indonesia
31 Mar 11
By being don't care. Put a sign that you are on holiday, pick up several good books or movies to watch, claim your seat, and start. Don;t mind the dirty dishes, don't mind the messy table, don't mind the clothes in the washer, don't mind when people ask you to do something, just day that you are on a lazy holiday.
@besthope44 (12123)
• India
31 Mar 11
I will keep them in my list. Messy table will be the first experiment as I never love to keep a table untidy. By the way, how about you? You are busy bee by nature or loves laziness. Which is your best way of showing out your laziness. Your real time experience can help me in my research