Do u trust your friends?

United States
March 31, 2011 6:21pm CST
The reason i'm Asking this is because well i don't consider him a friend since a while ago for many reasons but he's a friend to my family almost every1 knows him since we were kids we're the same age but he began to hang out with my older brother like 2 years ago since he began drinking smoking etc... Like my bro. Reasons i began to dislike him was bcus he would always get on my nerves not by words but by action like smacking u on ur head while EATING! I have fought with him several times in my own house when things got out of line but yeah he is funny at times but alot of the times he does things dat r really not funny. Hes way more immature than me n he runs his mouth all day trying to annoy me when he used to come over almost every day of the week but i ignore him n he wont stop until he gets my attention like until i tell him to stfu or something. Like wtf is wrong with him?!?!? Well this has nothing to do with my question but ok the reason i ask this is because i barely got an ipod touch with built in camera 32g n only had it 4 2 months and it is GONE! The night b4 i let my bro use it as usual at night n that foo slept over that day. The next morning i woke up n asked my bro to give me my itouch he said its next to the computer where he usually left it sometimes it would be next to him since he would fall asleep listening to it. I couldn't find it anywhere but i didn't suspect anything so i waited 4 him to get ou the bed so i could check under it or the sheets but i couldn't find anything. Then i did begin to suspect something since he left early in the morning i saw him leave but he didn't close the door well as usual (idiot) since the day my ipod touch went missing he never called my house came by nothing of contact which is why i think it was him. He's not in school since we go to the same 1 n haven't seen him go months b4 my itouch went missing. On weekdays he would already be knocking on the front door around 7 a.m i preferred going to school than dealing with him. I have insurance on my itouch but does losing it or having it stolen cover it to get a new 1? I know it didn't get stolen by force but idk what to do! But its just that alot of things point at him that he took it but i'm still not sure! What should i do?
7 responses
• Philippines
1 Apr 11
It seems to me that you have to stop hanging out with this particular friend. You really have to choose your friends even if others say you don't.
• Philippines
1 Apr 11
Just take that as a lesson.
• Philippines
1 Apr 11
Just take that as a lesson.
• United States
1 Apr 11
I agree n stopped hanging out with him maybe about 2 months b4 this occurred but i miss my ipod $450 taken from my house (sigh) : (
@Metatronik (6199)
• Pasay, Philippines
1 Apr 11
Sorry but I can't really help with your problem regarding the itouch. But in referring to your question I only have 2 friends that I could really trust since it was already tested during our college days. I have my friends before that I can't consider as my true friend because of what they did to me. It is very long story to tell but the point is I don't like people who will be against me just because they glorify other people.
• United States
2 Apr 11
I didn't understand your point sorry can u explain it a little? Sorry. Plz.
@Gothicana (458)
• United States
1 Apr 11
I guess when you cant trust a friend it is no friend.What are friends there for?
• United States
1 Apr 11
Yeah i know that but it's my bro who would invite him over i hardly said a word to him alot of times he just came unexpectedly like on weekday mornings n my bro would have no problem with it he would welcome him in n start playing the game at early hours which is why i partly blame him n i never thought that he would steal from us i dont believe its lost in my house since we have limited furniture
• United States
1 Apr 11
i really dont trust anyone that much i trust certain people with certain things but never had someone steal from me and not give it back. anything personal i keep to myslef
@kingparker (9673)
• United States
1 Apr 11
So, you suspect him be a thief and steal your ipod? You should have substantial proof before you can prosecute him though. He might be innocent, do you ever think of it. You should tell your brother to ask him in person directly. By the way, I don't trust any of my friend anymore, I just couldn't trust anyone this point, since my business partner scam me on this credit card debt. No one left to trust in this world.
• United States
1 Apr 11
I completely agree with you i'm not saying he's to blame but alot of things point to him like he was the only one who left early in the morning me n my bro were the only ones in the house n him plus i looked everywhere we have limited furniture n still found jothing its frustrating $450 ipod with insurance included missing!
@DanaS2011 (351)
• United States
1 Apr 11
I agree with Gothicana. I trust my friends to the point where I would put them in the bed with my boyfriend naked and trust them to do the right thing and turn him down if he came on to her.
@iklananda (1202)
1 Apr 11
bad friend better to avoid it