heart broken,,,can be a disaster in life......

I think a broken heart changes a person. Even if you've moved on, you'll never really be the same again. You get cautious in fear that you will have your heart broken again. Plus, I think it's different when you love when you've never had your heart broken. You give your all, but when you've had a heart-breaking experience, you learn how to hold back and save some love in case that persons hurts you.

Depending on what kind of partner that you have chosen then that could be really disaster. Just make sure it is about love that will bring to a relationship that the two of you must work for it and not something that is just came from the body. I mean couldn't treat a person as a lover where in fact he/she will just leave his/her partner on air since he/she find the other person more pretty that the recent partner. Sad but truth because it happens for real.

A broken heart is tragic. it is suffering we feel we may never get over. time is the healer that gets us through the stages of a broken heart. the journey can be so long sometimes.

hi, asliah as you said that every one experience a heart borken about love, i agree with you. duiring the time you are very miserable and painful, even you want to kill yourself, which seen like losing the signifiance of life, and don't know what to do etc, in a word disaster as time goes by, you will find that noboday can't survive alone in the world, and believe that time is the best medicine for your heart broken.

yes.It is very painful to have a broken heart.My girl friend recently broke up with me.It is really hard for me to take.It is like a part of my life is been taken away all of a sudden.It pained even more severely when I saw her with her new boyfriend.It is only three months,she fell in love with someone else.I wonder how it is si easy for some people to forget the one they loved truly and go on and love another person.Wont every touch and talks remind her of the time with me.I have such memories haunting me every moment.Guess not everyone are same in love.Yes,it has changed me to be strong and I developed even more patience to wait for her till she truly realizes my love and comes back to me.

Yes friend heart broken can change our whole life. Some days before my husband left me for a small event so I was unhappy in my mothers house and crying again and again why do this my husband only on mothers telling he leave me. My mind was not working and crying regularly but some days after my father-in-law call me and say why you are gone I am coming for you and you should come back. I say if my husband is not want I cant come then my husband call me and say come here so I came in mother-in-law house again.

Hello asliah, The scars remain, but it only makes you look stronger at heart. It's really hard when it happens but you get to learn a lot from it. You get to learn more about yourself too. I can i have become a much stronger and wiser after my girl left me. I am not going to fooled again, and i am no longer to get into any relationship. I have my good friends, and i cherish them all. They helped me through in my break up. There is so much to life even after break up. It's so sad that some people just shut their hearts after a break up when actually, they need to raise their heads high and be proud for having kept their promise with their partners. They have golden hearts, which only our true love deserves. The girl who is going to come to my life, i can going to love her so much....

Well, I am sorry to hear that you are having a broken heart, but you will be stronger like what you said above. You already learn a valuable lesson, and you should know what to do next. Don't linger on this hard feeling, learn to move on, and make yourself happier.

Yeah, that's one feeling we don't want to experience as it affects the normal flow of our life. But being in a relationship, it is a stage we have to pass, to be heart broken will teach us how to be strong and stand up again and move on. We should let these sufferings envelope us and lose hope in life. Remember the phrase "after the rains, the sun still shines".

Being broken hearted can be devastating. The after effects vary from person to person. There is no way around it outside of allowing time to heal and mend the heart. One must try and keep as busy as they can in order not to sit and dwell/think so much. The thinking is what can depress a person and that in itself is very difficult along with hurtful broken heart feelings.

I really is a disaster in life. My cousin recently broke up with his girlfriend and now he starts mutilating his arms and uploads pictures of it in facebook. I hope he finally will move on quickly to know that what he's doing is just plain stupidity.

If we don't try to understand, forgive this and that person and get over, by comprehending: the only way to get over something, not only time, but understanding how better we've become with the experience, how we learned, how we helped someone else... If we don't get over the scar keeps bleeding.

This remind me of what was tweeted to me today. A broken heart can heal but it will always leave a scar. I couldn't agree more with this. Yes we will become stronger but the scar will always remind us of what we have been through. I have experienced it when i was young and i have even experienced it when i was getting older. It's something that i don't want to go through again in my life and i'm confident that my husband wouldn't do that to me.

i will agree that being broken hearted could make your life miserable for an instance, but definitely it isn't the end of the world and once you stand up from falling apart you will recognize how fool are you to make your life miserable with someone who just left you and hurt you, it's normal to feel depressed at the first days or weeks after being broken hearted but don't make you're life a disaster with someone who doesn't even care for you and doesn't deserve you at all