I am not serious my student life....

Yes this is your beggest mistake of life. Because own study is at least give you to satisfaction even the marks is less but mostly depend upon is not a good way for study. At least take care in next course or in degree you should do self study.

Well, we learn from our mistakes every people have something that regrets in life. But sometimes most of those mistakes we learn to be strong and not to do the same way. What you can do for now is be happy and thankful for those people who helped you to get your diploma.

Hi cutiechay, probably that's the mistake you have done, in life when you are taking any big step then you've to think a lot before that, or else the pain given by that is more than anything else.

Hi cutiechay... There are many students nowadays with much the same story as your. But what is commendable is that you come to realize the disadvantage of dependency. Actual experience is truly our best teacher. You could still make knowledge your own. There are many ways of learning. I hope other students would not wait for something real to realize a weakness and correct them. Perhaps you could infuence others who are still in school. Have a nice day.

hi there welcome to myLot i also wasn't serious about my studies before that is why it took me 6 years to finish my 4-year course but i never cheated, i did my school work and papers. i was only too lazy to go to school before but i always try to complete all my requirements and assignments. It's okay. it's all over with. let's just learn from our mistakes.

Dear cutiechay_143, Making mistakes is a part of life. When you make a mistake, it shouldn't stop you from achieving your goals. You can't undo it, but you can still take it as an inspiration to correct mistakes and move on with life. If you feel sorry towards the people who helped you, show to them that you value what they did for you. Good luck. :)

Interesting. It seems your experience could have a very good use ... You could be best qualified to speak to students now, about taking studies seriously... What do you think?

I bet it is such a mistake. But since its already done and over, there's nothing you can do about it. HOwever your life does not end here. YOu still have more thing s to do to make yourself worthy of what you have. Maybe first things first, you should thank those people! then, start living in your own hardships. Goodluck

It is indeed your mistake. You should have studied very well and did not depend on your siblings. The knowledge that should have learned from school are your arms for facing the corporate world. You can't bring your sibling to the office and do the work for you and in the first place how can you pass the qualifying exams if you are not qualified enough. You should have thought of that before or your siblings should have not let you to keep on depending on them, it is not always that they are available for you. So what now?

diploma is just another milestone in your career pathway , even if u get help you now can persur degree or master yourself without help this timee beside that being sucessful does not depend on paper qualification but also other aspects like money family and others.

Life is school, you learn something each and everyday. I understand that you feel just getting through, to high school is you biggest mistake. In fact, i say this because I wish I took high school more seriously. I did make decent grades, but it could have been better, because I know I could have done better. Now that i'm in college i'm a B student. So I'm taking school life more seriously because this is more serious. I wish I studied enough to be an "A" student, but i'm doing better now than before. So maybe when you get to college you can pick up where you left off and work harder to do things on your own and make better grades.

While there are irreversible errors in life. There are also things of making up and catching up. Your past will not define your future. Past is past, part of history and shouldn't hinder you to try and make good of what you have and from where you are now. Things are pretty much different every once in a while every thing changes so cope up with changes. Don't dwell on your mistakes, learn from them and move on. Learning and education is not limited and monopolized in the four walls of your classroom. You can acquire skills and knowledge through personal and other people's shared experiences. So get up, make the most out of life. The world is a vast arena of potentialities. Discover your potential! God bless you!

yes, what you did in your life is a mistake. Relying on others is not a mortal sin but more of being irresponsible into not taking and acting your duties. However, you are now facing a new phase in your life where you can start again and try to be responsible. Though you depended on your whole student life to your brother and your classmates, you have to rely on yourself if you are pursuing a job. Your new environment, the workplace, now difficult and new. You are by yourself with no one to help you. Try to be be prepared and confident in your pursuit.

If you really try hard I'm sure you could make a bigger mistake if you wanted to. I'm kidding. Perhaps there is something that you can do to make yourself feel better about the situation or to make amends. I'm not sure how the school system in Germany works, but can you go on to university or do another course or something, work hard and achieve a new diploma in something that interests you. It might ease your guilt.

forget what you've done, and face the present. If you think you've done wrong did then move on and start to have new achievements for your own...