I am dying ...

i believe the best way for this situation is that you tell the girl about what you truly felt for her. if you keep your feelings within yourself, you will regret it in the end, you are untrue to yourself and you make yourself suffer. also, it would be unfair for the girl because you are not being honest with her. just tell her what you felt. and be ready for whatever she will reply to you. be ready with how she will react and what she will say whether approval, or disapproval. if she says she wants your friendship to continue, then respect that. if she says she also likes you, or love you, then what you have done (the revealing of the truth) will be the best and the most courageous thing you have done in your whole life. c:

you should tell her!!....take a risk man!how she know if u don't tell her..perhaps she also love u...come on man, fight for your love and for yourself especially...good luck!!!!

If you never tell her, she will move on, and you will never know. So you might as well tell her, yes?

Hey,guy!You love the girl so,but she loves you truely?if not,you don't have to propose to her,and you had better stop loving her,or you'll really die some day!think twice before proposing,and don't be foolish!

You have to take that risk, if you really love her, you have to express it, you have to express what your feelings for her, you didn't you she might as well have the same feelings for you and she is just waiting for you to tell her about it. Just try it, although you have to be ready also for her reactions, and you have to accept it. If you will not going to tell her about your feelings then you will not get free from that and you will always bring that to you and you will be in bondage of your feelings for her.

Not to put a Damper on Things but You got a Steady Job and Earn enough to Support Her. You need to Think as that Girl will Cost You much more than You can Imagine. You need to Think as to Your Financial Status and Think Real Hard to. You may Think You are Ready to get Serious. Also talk about What She wants to. Two have to Tango to make the Dance Work. Are You in Love or is Puppy Love. Give This some Serious Thought then Decide on What You really want.

srinivas2036, If you are still hesitant, then you shall suffer from silence expression until the day you have no chance to speak. Quite obvious isn't it? There's so much 'logical' deduction revolving around one attempt at confessing. The way I see it there's just too much mental calculation will eventually burn away your courage to even do anything because you are seeking for a risk-free path that opens the door of happiness on your behalf, money back guarantee, with no chance of failure. Oh yes, including the fact that there must be 10% compounding growth too. I hope you can see how idealistic this is. So, don't hesitate, don't hint when you know you really need to speak up. You could learn to face your REAL fear and confess, because these are times when people should learn to think less and feel more. How many 'long while' are you going to take before you make any decision that would free you from this emotional bondage? You decide.

Nothing ventured nothing gained. You won't know how she feels unless you lay it all on the line and tell her. Is there a way you can find out say ask a friend to ask her about how she feels about you then you can see if it's going to be worth telling her.

Wait... Are you dying because not being able to tell her of your feelings is eating you up or are you really dying from some disease or something? In any case, the best thing for you to do is to be upfront about it. Tell her what you feel and see how it goes from there. Three years is no joke. Who knows, she might be secretly in love with you as well.

Better tell her that you loved her 3 years ago,before you die (hahaha..just kidding) The only solution is to tell her that you loved her. Who knows,she loves you too and just waiting for you to propose okay. Go and tell her before it's too late happy weekend

Being that it has been three years I would say it is time to say something. Pick the right time and place, make sure you are not in front of other mutual friends, more like in private. Anyways start out by saying that you value your friendship and because of your friendship you feel you need to let her. Go right ahead and tell her. Either way because of the love you say you have do not be mad if she rejects you, that will hurt the friendship. You just never know, she just might be in love also. Best of luck!

Why don't you tell her that you love her. Who knows she is also in love with you. she's just waiting for you. You better give it a try. don't just sit there and wait. just be yourself. tell her how you really feels about her. if she got angry at least you have said your piece. there's no harm in trying and try to woe her friendship again. Goodluck

.. Well pray for it to GOD first, then believe in yourself and say the truth, tell her about your love for her. If the things don't go the way you want it to be, and she only want to be friends with you, just accept it. If things go smoothly, then congratulation. You made it! =D

You have to be honest with yourself and with her. Go on and tell her how you feel about her before it's too late. Try doing some fun activities with her to "sort of" build a better relationship as a friend before telling her how you feel. Tell her what she says won't matter since you'll still be friends with her for whatever she says. At that moment, if she does say no, you may feel a but crushed on the inside...but this is part of life. You two can continue to become good friends and you will have to accept her answer. Best of luck to you.

Is what you're feeling worth the risk of losing your friendship? It's really up to you to decide whether you want to go a level higher beyond friendship. Or are you satisfied with jusy loving her from afar without her knowing. If you are dying to tell her, why not do so and open up to her. You will never know your chances unless you risk telling her. Start with the little suttle ways of letting her know. :)