Are we single throught out our life?
By saibal10
@saibal10 (89)
India
April 3, 2011 6:36am CST
We are crazy enough to have sweet and handsome partner. We are aplaud in having it. We often spend our time goossiping with our partner, share our ideas, and often madly attracted for that very person. But a question appears whether we can share our ideas with our parner totally. I think it is not possible because there is some part of our life which is exclusively for ourself. Never it can be shared. In that part we are really single for ever. What do you think?
6 responses
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
3 Apr 11
ohhhhhhhh sir I am answering third time today this type of discussion in various forms. No marriage is safe for life at least women life but I never saying this is necessary it is depend upon the person which they want.
But I can marriage is a good and different experience of life. No not every wife can share her idea with her husband because some husband is very angry by nature and women afraid this type of husband so she thinks if I will say this then my husband annoyed on me. But this is not with me I tell each and everything with my husband.
@saibal10 (89)
• India
5 Apr 11
Well ma'am. I always appreciate your comment as it contains logic and knowledge. Here you are thinking about women's side. But what is about male part? Are all the male person free? Certainly not. Actually this is not a matter of male or female. It is matter of humanity. Please consider this in this way......
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
5 Apr 11
No sir male never share their thoughts with the wife. Because I have seen in most of the cases husband not share their sad activity with his wife. So the men has more heart attacks than women.
But for men also marriage is a good way to improve their life because no life without wife and no wife without husband.
@saibal10 (89)
• India
6 Apr 11
I will be highly oblige if you please make your comment on all of my projection. This is because I think that you try to squeeze out the actual feelings of discussion, really I appreciate it. But madam, please believe me that I have opened the discussion to know others feeling on this subject. I use to discuss all the matter including sad or sweet with her and she immensely helps me too. Still then there is a gap. I am male and she is female. I am hard, she is soft. should I keep that soft rose in a hard ambience to save myself? What should my role?
@asliah (11137)
• Philippines
8 Apr 11
hi,
i think i could share an exclusive thing for my love ones,because i know he could help and understand me,even that is so very confidential thing.sometimes we need to be alone but not all the time.no on can live for there self only but to others too.
@deadfieldy (131)
•
3 Apr 11
We are made to thing and feel that way. Its natural for us cause we are human. We all have things in ourselves that we need to keep in ourselves. There is nothing wrong with that. It is what we are and we will always will be that way.
@rchakrabarty (6)
• India
3 Apr 11
Yes, to some extent we are always single, always lonely. We can't share all our feelings all our ideas all our dreams with a single person in our life. That happens not only in case of life partner, but also for the person whom I consider my best friend, whoever he or she may be. And people use to give this loneliness n a weight by calling it MY SPACE. But can they deny that it will make them happier if he or she get someone to share this so called SPACE?
@sashakiddo (1102)
• United States
4 Apr 11
We come to understand ourselves as individuals only by our understanding of the environment around us. If we couldn't find meaning in our surroundings, we wouldn't be capable of finding meaning within our selves. I think some big psychologist said this once. That doesn't make it true, but it's just one perspective that interests me.
