Some people just can't mind their own business!
By whengcat
@whengcat (1457)
Philippines
April 3, 2011 9:33pm CST
Good morning dear mylotters!
Actually its not a so good morning for me...Anyway, I'm a little bit sad today because of a respond I received from one of my discussions here. I mean, hey I know everyone is entitled with their own opinion but do you have to comment "WHY POST A BORING QUESTION?" on someone else discussion?. I just don't understand why some people really can't mind their own business....They could have just gave a little respect by not replying if they found it boring right?
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17 responses
@stanley777 (9402)
• Philippines
4 Apr 11
Sorry, to hear about what you have experienced.I know there are other members who have been in the same situation like yours.Some people are really mean sometimes.Just ignore that member or better report that member to admin.Cheer up and happy myloting.
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
4 Apr 11
hi whengcat,
sorry to know this just ignore that person he/she is not worth it Mylot is a place where you can find fun and sometimes some people who doesn't have a life the longer you stay here the more you meet good and bad one. Maybe his/her life so boring thats why he/she view other discussion as a boring one.
If i don't like the discussion or doesn't feel to answer i better not to comment
Just keep on posting
happy mylotting
@mdaazam (826)
• Indore, India
5 Apr 11
Hi wheng cat
Feel bad for you, this surely was done by some immature member of the community or else he would have realised by now how much the goodwill counts on this community, well atleast dont get bothere mate.
dont let him or her get to you, just dont respond to any of such stupid and idiotic behaviour and discuss with us instead so that we all can curse him together lol.
Cheers mate and have a lovely day
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@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
4 Apr 11
Oh, how could someone do that, for everybody to view it. I bet, she/he won't get the positive reaction from all responders.
If the question is so boring, then why does she have to join in the discussion by just saying that. She/he could have just chosen other topics to comment.
Anyway, just don't mind it friend.
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@gelayagui98 (1336)
• Australia
4 Apr 11
Hi whengcat do not take it seriously, anyway, there are lot of mylotters will appreciate your post and I am sure for that. Just don't mind that member, she's one of a kind. God bless!
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@faith_523 (2)
• Philippines
4 Apr 11
Just ignore them. No need to waste your time. Go on what you are doing. It's hard to please sometimes but you have the rights of what you wanna posts. If they felt it's bored it's their problems and not yours.
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
4 Apr 11
You're right. If they thought the discussion was boring, they could have just bypassed it and found another discussion. If they were trying to tell you the discussion was against guidelines or something, that sure wasn't the way to do it. What is boring to them may not be boring to other people.
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@cream97 (29086)
• United States
5 Apr 11
Hi. whengcat. That is just how some people are. They will stay all in your business but they won't let anyone in theirs. If I find someone else discussion, a discussion, that I don't want to respond to, I will not put that comment on their discussion for them to see. I would just move onto another discussion that I feel like responding to instead. That is just plain old rude and mean!
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@keshia2007r (2880)
• United States
5 Apr 11
That was really rude and uncalled for. If that person thought the discussion was "boring" why respond, is something I don't understand. I'm actually not surprised at this behavior. I've started a discussion before and one mylotter posted "its none of your business" as if I asked that specific person a question lol I can only laugh now, but at the moment I was upset. I've learned that you can't let things like this ruin your day and the best thing to do is just ignore ignorance is what I would suggest. People are here just to post a few words and expect to earn money and thats not how it works. Good Luck to you, and i'm sure by now...well hopefully you are having a better day!
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@changjiangzhibin89 (16785)
• China
4 Apr 11
It is a breach of etiquette,what I say.Here on mylot, it can be likened to a great family,we all ought to respect each other.As long as we abide by the rules,we may say our say.It is normal that there is some different point of view.What is there to be surprised at?At sight of a discussion that you don't like ,you at once make unwarranted charges.That is far from what We should do.We must learn " live and let live".
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@polaris77 (2039)
• Bacau, Romania
4 Apr 11
It is indeed a rude thing from anyone to post such a response,but I don't think it should bother you.Since there are people who responded to that discussion and were intersted in it,it's obvious that they didn't find the question boring,so I think you should simply ignore that person.I thik some people say such mean things because they have some frustrations in their lives which make them behave like this.
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@abatencila (970)
• Philippines
4 Apr 11
I'm so sad to hear that there are some misunderstanding that is happening inside mylot. This is supposed to be a way to unwind, make friends, and earn some. Wish some people can at least have some respect to others in order for us to live a peaceful life.God bless!!
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@sashakiddo (1102)
• United States
4 Apr 11
Don't take offense, that person was probably just trying to release his/her own frustrations. They are the problem, not you, and you should keep doing as you like.
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@maunesrockford92078 (305)
• Philippines
4 Apr 11
That is annoying,I guess. well that's how it is we'd better understand them anyway your opinion is as good as there opinion, so FREEDOM!
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@umabharti (3972)
• India
4 Apr 11
hi, why u left the discussion u started., why didnt u reply to the discussion and ask the person what it meant in ur discussion ., its better ask frankly so that u might sort the problem face to face , and u could had conclluded it ove ther itself., Its no use of u again starting and saying just cant mid their own business., Think i f ur discussion or question was boring why another person would respond to it.,
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@gelayagui98 (1336)
• Australia
4 Apr 11
Hi whengcat do not take it seriously, anyway, there are lot of mylotters will appreciate your post and I am sure for that. Just don't mind that member, she's one of a kind. God bless!
@neenie (343)
• United States
4 Apr 11
Aw, even though it's just the internet, I bet that still hurt. People can be so cruel. Some things that are important in our lives just don't matter to other people, but that's no reason to be rude. Report them and continue to report them if they leave any more rude comments.
I'm sure your discussion wasn't boring :)