Why people become so careless regarding their life?
By smilywomen
@surekharathi (14146)
India
April 4, 2011 5:20am CST
I was very much shocked when I heard the news that a college student committed suicide yesterday. It was really a very much horrible incident. Later I came to know that the boys was in depression due to his academic result. That’s why he did so…….. Though he was a good student of the college but due to some reason he could not scored more. So one day he sent the message to his room mates that he want to quit his life but room mates took this lightly because he used to say such rubbish things often.
Hence no one paid attention to this serious matter. But this time he was firm on his decision. I was really very much disturbed due to this incident and various thoughts started crowding in my mind that why the person take his life so much lightly? Why people are unable to understand that there are so many caring hearts for them in the World whose life get really very much disturbed due to such incidence of their dear ones. Even their family members get so much shocked that they can not come out of that
for many days. So each and every person should be aware of this thing that their one such decision can disturb so many lives and their happiness gets ruined.
I think nothing is more important than life because if life once gone never comes back and also nothing can be more important than life whether it may be success or failure because there is famour proverb in Hindi that “Sir Salamat to Pgadi Pachas” it means that we can get so many opportunities to prove ourselves but if the life itself does not exist then we can’t do anything. So friends be aware of this thing and care yourself because someone cares for you a lot. Don’t think about yourselves but think about them who care for you.
Put your valuable thoughts or opinion regarding this . I am eagerly waiting for your valuable response
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8 responses
@sashakiddo (1102)
• United States
4 Apr 11
Sometimes people care too much. The guy cared too much about his test scores that nothing else was important to him. The test scores were more important than his own life. This is likely a consequence of society or some person making him feel like he has to do well in school or else he will never be successful in life. This happens a lot in Japan, and other places where academics are considered very crucial for a person's future.
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@umabharti (3972)
• India
4 Apr 11
hi,people in such situations should get lot lot lot of caring and consulting.When they are alone they start thinking of the negative result and its future things on them.Some cant take it as normal.They dont think positively as the problem seems to be more ., as time passes we get used to the problems and the past problem seems to be little.So success or failure depends on our doings.Working hard sometimes may not give the result which we need.We go into depression ., however life goes on we will never get the days back its a loss any profit further cannot be balanced with the loss .Some adjust with the things and start a new living some cannt.We cant help anyone change their fate unless and until they workout to deal their problems from their own power of self.God should be on their side.
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@surekharathi (14146)
• India
7 Apr 11
Yes friend you are right we cant help anyone change their life unless and until they not wants by will power but people should understand the life is most important not only for themselves but also for those people who loves you nice response thanks for responding.
@ifa225 (14460)
• Indonesia
5 Apr 11
many people tend to have a mind self centrist genre.
they tend to care about their self and never realize that actually there is so many people around him/her more likely to care than her/himself.
this is such a narrow mind that need to enlighten. communication can help to solve this problem
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
9 Apr 11
Yes friend you are saying true communication is a best way to solve any type of problem and end life is not a solution thanks for response.
@ebuscat (5935)
• Philippines
5 Apr 11
For me they don't think the result of there doing and they use to be get involved as long as they are still alive.
@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
5 Apr 11
I believe all it takes is one big realization. Yeah, easier said than done but once that realization occurs, a train-wreck life can turn into a beautiful and healthy one. I'm not saying I've had mine and I'm hoping it occurs soon because my life isn't that successful to say the least.
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
6 Apr 11
Ohhhhhhhhhh your profile picture are so nice. Why your profile picture is not constant only rounded ha ha ha. Thanks to your response.
@RobH90 (22)
• Spain
4 Apr 11
Unfortunately some people somehow get trapped between certain events, taking there only hope of happiness, I remember a boy in my class that was so scared of disappointing his parents he had a nervous breakdown. So yeah, there are many events that trigger said mentality.
That´s the trouble nowadays, there´s so much bad news and sadly it´s becoming part of everyday life. Which I personally hate.
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
6 Apr 11
Yes friend I also hate it but if we thought in other way then I think if God call us then no one can helped us. So our mind is fully changed and takes this type of action.
