Is Being Jealous A Part of the Relationship?

Yes, it is. Peoples said that a jealousity happen cause we are loving our couple so much. But, don't be too jealous, cause it also can make the relathionship get broke.

Trust. It is the essential ingredient in a relationship. We can be compatible in bed, we have the same goals, dreams and desires. But without trust, all this means nothing. For some, trust others is not a hard thing to accomplish. This assume that your partner is faithful until he proves otherwise. If you belong to this category you can believe in luck. Of course, you have occasionally unpleasant surprises, but at least you give the relationship a chance to emotional needs. It effectively means you trust someone to give him heart in my hands to take care of it. It is a precious gift and requires more courage to do so. Unfortunately, too few people who chose the first option. If you've ever been hurt, if you grew up in an environment where everyone deceive everyone, trust in your partner will feel a dangerous adventure. As if you were sitting in the middle of the highway, hoping that you will not be hit by a car. Each gets jealous at some point. If you love your partner and feel like someone is trying to attract attention by flirting and get him next to you, jealousy is normal to grind. But this type of jealousy is forgotten in a few seconds if her boyfriend or the feelings you reassure him / her for you. Instead, there are situations that simply choosing the wrong person. Apparently everything is normal and natural, but the first situation is all normality disappears when the person becomes ultra-jealous, irrational jealous. Sometimes jealousy is one thing guaranteed, especially if the guy next to you has a reputation for adventure or ever cheated on your trust. The difference between normal and jealousy in excessive jealousy is: people really live this feeling jealous of each person who accepts an appointment with them. It could come with a nun, all will be convinced that her way to the monastery will stop talking to a `glass` with some Prince Charming. In any case, most people I know have a problem jealous. Once they realize that their reaction has quietly been absurd. Unfortunately, when the storm starts, most of them lose contact with reality and become uncontrollable and illogical. Jealousy is an incredibly powerful emotion, being constantly fed by a single thought: `My partner is cheating on me?"People get jealous look at the world through a pair of glasses that distort. They see danger where none exists, and the cause of this behavior is often self-confidence. More correctly lack thereof.

It depends on the degree of jealousy. Mild jealousy can be sweet and healthy in a relationship. It is like just a warning bell to a couple that someone is doing something that the other is not comfortable with. But extreme irrational jealousy is not helpful... this jealousy to the point that may lead to fighs and break-up. A big no-no.

Yes, and it depends on what you are jealous of. If your boyfriend/girlfriend is spending more time with friends than you, that can cause one to become jealous. Or I your bf/gf spends more time with their parents/family, one can become jealous as well. So either way you look at it, jealously does play a role in relationships in my opinion.

Being jealous sometimes is okay, it will spice up any relationship but jealousy that will cause a frequent fight, is not advisable also. Trust your partner always. Jealousy will destroy your relationship if you will not handle it properly.

Since we are not perfect, we have weaknesses, there are times that we feel jealous. But remember that a person who always feel this way has a lot of insecurities in life. You have to look back where this feeling of jealousy comes from. Maybe during your childhood days... If you really love the person, you have to trust him. If there is a relationship, there must be love. And the real meaning of love is that: LOVE IS NOT JEALOUS. If you always got jealous then it is already selfishness, self-centeredness. Then it is not true love at all. Just surrender everything to God and ask His grace that this feeling of jealousy will be transformed into SELFLESS LOVE.

It depends on the degree of jealousy involved. If too much jealousy is involved, then that is not healthy in the relationship. Slight jealousy is good and sweet as long as it will not lead to fights.

if the relationship is a weak one, with no trust, then jealousy can arise. so really, if there is jealousy in a relationship then that shows that it's not a very strong relationship, or a healthy one. my husband can talk to any woman he wants because I know he loves me and would not cheat on me. because I trust him. I wouldn't have married him if I didn't.