why men act the way they do
By lilmama23of4
@lilmama23of4 (5)
United States
April 4, 2011 1:48pm CST
Ok, i will never understand this, been with the man for seven years, have two children together, he asked me to marry him, tells me that I am everything he wants in a woman...you get the point? So why is it that he still continues to talk to exes and new women, look at dirty pictures online all the time, starting to think maybe he is just addicted to it. Im looking at it like if everything you said was true then why keep doing the things you do. I left him but still dont understand it.
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@chickimmy (44)
• Philippines
5 Apr 11
I also don't understand men and I think I never will. But with regards to talking with exes and new women, that would be no problem with me. But if the motive of talking with them is beyond being friends, then that's a different story. If your husband is always flirting with other women, then your decision to leave him is wise and never mind about understanding him, it's just a waste of your time.
@cream97 (29086)
• United States
4 Apr 11
Hi. lilmama23of4. Welcome to myLot!
I don't blame you for leaving him. It is obvious that he does not really love you. If he did, he would be totally committed to you. If he has done these things in the past, then they no longer represent him any longer. He is still talking about his exes and new women and looking at dirty pictures online, then that means that he is not ready to be with you, and only you. What simply amazes me is that for seven years he has been with you and still has not made up in his mind what he really wants right now?
I don't blame you for leaving him. It is obvious that he does not really love you. If he did, he would be totally committed to you. If he has done these things in the past, then they no longer represent him any longer. He is still talking about his exes and new women and looking at dirty pictures online, then that means that he is not ready to be with you, and only you. What simply amazes me is that for seven years he has been with you and still has not made up in his mind what he really wants right now?