Is marriage the most difficult stage in our life ?
By dragonangel
@dragonangel (551)
April 4, 2011 3:05pm CST
Hello friends! My question is about marriage but it doesn't mean that I just got married(smiles). I was married almost two years ago but has just been with my husband days ago. They said marriage is the most difficult stage in life.Do you agree with that? I think answers may vary in a case to case basis.But if i think about this realting to my new stage in a marriage life now, I could say I agree that it is difficult or most difficult so far in the stages of life which I'm into now. It is difficult in a way that you have to adjust to living with someone as you have been accustomed to living alone.It is difficult as you move location in a place unfamiliar to you as you live together with your mate.The in laws too that you have to consider.The work you left and the work that you would want to have.Marriage can really be difficult though it is just for the start.In due time, things will be familiar.So even if it is hard, we need to take courage and continue on travelling it's road for you know too well someone you truly love is holding hands with you.
3 responses
@samafayla33 (1856)
• United States
4 Apr 11
I am thinking to myself, why get married? I find that some men are just all talk no action and pick too much. They would rather toy with a woman rather than to be serious
@dragonangel (551)
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4 Apr 11
hello sama,yes you're right.most men nowadays tend to just play and not get serious when it comes to mariage but, hey there are still some men out there who are also true.So be very careful when meeting one for marriage.
@zaga_cleuth (1407)
• Philippines
5 Apr 11
I think it is the toughest decision one can actually made. It is not like any other thing that a couple should think of. It's like eating a bunch of responsibility and and obligations. So, one should really consider everything.
As of now, I should say, marriage is not that important to those couple who experience much drama. Because one day they'll be facing lots of it and the children will suffer if ever.
@GloomCookieLex (6073)
• United States
5 Apr 11
Marriage is only what you make of it, so every person's relationship is going to be different. First and foremost, I absolutely do not agree with jumping into marriage as an unknown. You mentioned adjusting to in-laws, moving to an unfamiliar place, etc. I believe it should all be familiar before you even consider getting married. And I absolutely advocate living together first and getting to know whether or not your daily lives are compatible. I would never get married if I didn't already have the relationship worked out and make sure it even has a chance of lasting.
