my friend didn't say "thank you"!! :(
By kwylima
@kwylima (451)
United States
April 4, 2011 8:15pm CST
I spent my whole weekend walking like crazy to make somebody happy and all what i heard was that i was too fast..she wants me to walk more and lost my time doing something that i didn't want to.
ok i took a weekend vacation just to enjoy friends that i don't see for a long time, instead i had to walk around with her just to make she happy! she never asked me if i wanted to do something else.
just trying to relax after that. I hate people who don't recognize what we do!
11 responses
@kingparker (9673)
• United States
6 Apr 11
I hate people who just won't appreciate what other people did for them, and they took it like granted. That is sucks for the weekend if I were you. I would never answer her call ever again, that is not worth the try.
@niq993 (50)
• Bulgaria
5 Apr 11
Sometimes, the people who we love doesn't recognize how they hurt our feelings .But,if you are her friend, you'll understand her. Maybe she is going through a hard period and just wanted to be with you. Maybe she needed some time with you,maybe she was lonely. I think you should talk with her - tell her how did you feel, what irritates you. Hope you'll overcome the problem :]
@venmanolov (64)
• Malta
5 Apr 11
I wouldn't say that she is your friend.You don't need friends like that.
@neenie (343)
• United States
5 Apr 11
Aw, maybe she was just overwelmed with stuff going on in her life and just forgot to say thank you. That really sucks for you because next time, I bet you won't be as willing to go hang out with her.. or walk with her! It's not very fun to take a weekend vacation and to spend the time walking. Next time suggest that you guys do something else.. something that you would also enjoy.
@mog7777777 (18)
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5 Apr 11
i will feel the same if i were you.... but... my teacher ( the one i acknowledge most) taught me that... it is not important that we think about other people to care about us, but the important thing is we care to them...
@obe212003 (2299)
• Philippines
5 Apr 11
making somebody happy is quite a feat that is worth more than anything else.. xien is right, you're special since she asked you for a vacation.. did you thank her for that? well, anyways sometimes actions are mere indications of expressing our gratitude, and i guess making her happy is already a sign of being thankful that you helped her cope up with what's bothering her. and by the way, walking is a better form of exercise... lastly thank you!
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
5 Apr 11
Sadly some friends do not recognize/appreciate gratitude from friends. I would say perhaps allow sometime and let her know how this made you feel. Maybe she will at some point understand that you are a true friend.
I say that because despite you taking your time to be with her her you did not not say anything so surely she should recognize all you did.
Get some rest and maybe soon you will get a chance to let her know how this made you feel.
@madp_071983 (228)
• Oman
5 Apr 11
Just continue doing good, my friend. You're not at a loss. May I just share you a promise from the Word. "Do not be weary in doing good for you will reap a success of your own."
Continue letting your light shine. God sees your heart. Men may disappoint you but God will always reward you for a good turn. Regards. =)
@xien2xien (1382)
• Philippines
5 Apr 11
i guess in some ways it's kinda hurtful when a person we help or cheer up doesn't even recognize what we did or what we sacrifice for them, but try to look at the positive side of the story, she ask you to walk with her or do something with her than anybody else, it means your important to her, maybe she can't say it out loud how happy she is when you join her, but deep inside she has this wonderful feeling just being beside you
