How do you know if your husband/wiwfe or partner is cheating on you.

Before I learned of his dishonesty I wasnt nosy of some changes I observed on him. He put a password on his laptop, made different facebook accounts, not just one or two but three different accounts with different fake names and information but I didnt mind that time because he added me in all that accounts. But only recently about a week now that I discovered his one year old secret Facebook account. and I discovered it unexpectedly. I just hate myself for being so stupid not been suspicious of him putting a password on his laptop. well maybe because I had a hundred percent trust on him. but now I only have - zero trust left for him.

When you see unusual to his action and movement that's it.

I would imagine that if my husband was doing the wrong thing I would instinctively know because we are very close but I guess if he was really behaving like a dog I would find out if he paid less attention to me, spent a lot of time away from home especially in the evenings, was secretive about phone calls, his laptop etc. And if he was suddenly buying new clothes and aftershave I would be concerned.

Well there are really a lot of signs but the most one I can think off is a sudden change of habit like for example going home late, sudden going somewhere and such.

It happened to me once, after I accidentally read a message in his inbox. I asked him, but he denied. I tried to find out until he broke me up and he is such a coward as he never answered my phone and he only texted me that"I found someone else". THe stupid thing happened a few months later. He asked me"how are you?" I replied " well, i am better off without you..I feel OK after you left me for someone esle", he denied " we broke up not because of another woman". What the hellllllll??????our relationship was a little bit complicated as he is my bro-in-law` s cousin and their relationship between family is not that good. I cried almost all the time during the break-up, but now I thanked GOD for not having him as my spouse. I feel bored now, as I have been single for almost 4 years..

he wont look interested in you!

Hi. sammy14. He will act as if he never has time for you. It can be for a male and a female. The attraction between the two of you have gone away. The person does not want to make love to you anymore. They are staying out longer hours than usual and not calling you. They act strange when you ask them things about them cheating. They look guilty when you mention something around them. They smell differently. They look like they are hiding something from you. Yes, I will confront them. Better yet, I will sneak up on them if I have my suspicions.

As me, girl and man have different sign if they're cheating. Almost actions are special if comparing with normal day. But nothing is whole exactly. We should care our partners/spouse more.