How old do you think you will get married?
@castlehillpeter (52)
China
April 5, 2011 8:02am CST
Recently,two of my best decided to get married at May.So i have been thinking about when i will be married.I think it's necessary to introduce myself firstly. I am 26 years old.I've always thought that it's too young to get married.Because i just graduated from university two years ago, i have no money to support a family,and what's more,i have no a stabe job.
So what's your opinion on marriage.
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12 responses
@Jennlk84 (4205)
• United States
5 Apr 11
When I was a child I always thought I'd get married in my early to mid 20s. That's actually when I did get married! I married my best friend when I was 25 years old. So marriage for me was right on time! As for having children, we've bumped that idea back a little farther than I always thought it would be. But once you become a grown up, life changes. You can't control everything and things don't always happen as you may have expected them to. Just gotta go with the flow!
@castlehillpeter (52)
• China
6 Apr 11
I had the same idea about marriage when i was a child.I thought i would be married at 24 years old when i was a child,actually,when i was 7 years old. In addition, i like this sentence:just gotta go with the flow! Thank you
@cx258641 (109)
• China
5 Apr 11
well this is a question of pretty uncertainty i would say , i guess and i hope could get married before 30 at present time i don't have any plan,i don't have girlfriend past and now ,it is the same in the coming days i think,
my princess didn't come yet as we have never got the chance bump into each others.
its boring mostly doing everything alone, i hope it gonna end in a short time. i had bear enough , i need someone not for marriage instead of girlfriend only .
@castlehillpeter (52)
• China
6 Apr 11
It is also a uncertain problem to me.But i decided to commit myself to a girl i falled in love. Have a good luck.
@Angelgirl16 (2171)
• United States
6 Apr 11
Congratulation on your college graduation. You were very smart to get that college degree before you got into the family situation, now you have to find that steady income. Whether you will be ready for marriage at that time is really your call; if you are truly in love and you want to find a life-long partner and get married, then go for it. One of the reason marriage fail is the fight over money, so if that is not a problem, at least the marriage would have a chance. As for as your age, 26, you have waited longer than most young people, so I think the maturity should be there as well, but in the end it is your choice to say whether your are ready to commit to a marriage.
Good luck
@cloud31 (5809)
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6 Apr 11
Well, In my own opinion as long as you know you are ready to tackle the responsibility in marriage will be fine..At 26 woman age is just fine I guess but for man I think it has to be more mature to get married.
Having a good job and be ready to have a family is a must for man in my opinion.We accept it or not man are merely to be more stable than woman in term of financial stability before marriage.
Happy myLotting!
@axlrate7 (1398)
• Philippines
6 Apr 11
Well I don't know, but it will not over 30. I am working hard right now to fulfill my dream not only for me but also for my future family. It is not important to me right now thinking this thing. I rather thinking how I will help my parent in our financial problem. I am pray to GOD that HE will take care of my future.
@paulineperez (5)
• Philippines
6 Apr 11
Around 27 years old, maybe. So long as I'm ready, have a stable job, and with a suitable partner, I'd go for it. I don't wanna be too old by the time I start having babies. :D
@piya84 (2580)
• India
6 Apr 11
Marriage requires money even having a girlfriend.She is going to expect you take her on some good places on weekend.Very few girls will be agreed to be with you when you dont have stable job.But if you get the one in such a condition then hold on her.Less materialistic people are less in this world.
@mermaidivy (15394)
• United States
5 Apr 11
I got married at 21 years old, it is little bit earlier that I thought I would get married. My husband is 8 years older than me, he supports the family and I stay hom to take care of our baby, I think it is good.
@gelayagui98 (1336)
• Australia
6 Apr 11
When I was in my college days, I and my friends have an agreement that at the age of 25 it should be necessary for us to get married then or else anyone who remain single will be penalized wherein our groups imposed an amount to be paid by the latter. And, I was one who penalized then, because I got married at the age of twenty eight, even though how much I am willing to married at the set age but how can I do it if at that time I am busy molding my career and have no boyfriend although I and my husband acquainted with each other then. We made our vows after eight years of courtship. To set goals in life is right but we are not so sure it that goals achieved on a target time. Only God knows everything.
@FQMENG (31)
• China
6 Apr 11
I want to get married at 28-30 years old. At that time, I will getting my PhD, and I am sure that I will get a stabe job after the graduation.
Although I am sure I will get a stabe job and get married, I not sure that I will have a child, also, I cannot afford a house.
@dinosonte (1)
• Mexico
5 Apr 11
mm ii thinkk that you should wait a little more findingthe perfect couple to spend the rest of your life so you have to take a wise desition