break-ups because of computer games
By alina
@swissheart (6482)
Romania
April 5, 2011 12:06pm CST
is there anyone else in my situation. was I really exagerating? my ex used to spend more time in front of the computer than he did with me...I used to see him once a week aldo we lived in the same city..we wouldn';t go out, wouldn';t do anything because of a stupid computer game.plus he also became agresive. so was I exagerating?
4 responses
@aerous (13434)
• Philippines
7 Apr 11
Well, I think your boy friend really addicted to games. He is not capable enough to understand you because he is addicted to games...he loves his computer than you. It's up to you now to decide...because if you continue that relationship and get married to him. It's your burden everyday...this is the right time
@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
8 Apr 11
we ended the relationship already. and you're right he loved his computer much more than he loved me. and things could only go worse so it's better like this.
@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
7 Apr 11
I tried to talk to him but he wasn't capable of understanding my point of view in this problem...he would act fine for 2, 3 days than he would get back together to his stupid game...and this showed how much he really cared for me........zero
@p3ks626 (6538)
• Philippines
6 Apr 11
If its not working out for you then you'd better look for someone else. You should look for a man not a boy. The thing about him now is that he is becoming aggressive and we all know that that is one of the negative effects about playing too much computer games.
@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
6 Apr 11
that is what i did...we eventually broke up. as you said I wanted a man and not a boy... I was ok with it at the begining but than he started exagerating. he used to refuse going out with me because he had to play this stupid game. you can imagine how bad I felt
@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
5 Apr 11
i didn';t forbid him to do that...but you can imagine I felt bad when he refused going out with me because he had to play a stupid game
@paris12 (22)
• Germany
5 Apr 11
it sounds like things changed for him allowed his friends action to influence who he has become. if he dont treat you badly he would not have anything to talk about with his friends. you have to confront him but over food that he likes to eat or things that he likes to do to get him back into you because he lost focus it sounds like you are not more interesting than acomputer game eventhough you want to do interesting things you have to make him feel likestanding up to his friendsto say he is the opposite of them and that he has plans with you
