Whatever i say, that only translates to NO

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Guys are said to be lucky because they get to choose who to court and to pursue unlike girls (traditionally speaking). Girls' choices are somehow limited to those who show interest in them. There are times when the guy who shows interest in them seems to be interesting too, so there won't be a problem with that. But what if it's the other way around? What if you don't find the guy interesting and the last thing you would want in the world is to be with him? How would you show your disinterest in the guy and how would you tell him that he is not just your type? Did you use the lines - 'i'm too young', 'i promised my parents i'm going to finish studying first', 'i'm already in a relationship', 'we're better off as friends', 'i'm going to enter the monastery' among others? To the guys, have you ever been turned down and how did the apple of your eye do that? Would you rather have her done it in a different way?