which would you prefer being the first, second or youngest?
By stanly012992
@stanly012992 (241)
Philippines
April 5, 2011 8:22pm CST
according to the notion of what I've read' they said that being a first born was unique because he or was the only child experienced a rejection when the next child is born. But positively about the first child was a good organizer; maintaining order and authority.On the other hand, second born are highly competitive and ambitious and doing their best to surpass the older siblings,while the last born are no longer experienced dethronement and treat as a baby of the family.
1 response
@xien2xien (1382)
• Philippines
6 Apr 11
i prefer to be the youngest, since i was the youngest, were only just two me and my older brother, my brother gets all the attention since he was born first but when i was born i become the joy of the family being the youngest i admit that i have the least power to talk and command inside the house but it doesn't matter, my brother gave enough attention to me and he takes care of me like a baby and also my mom and dad, i'm their favorite child, since i'm the youngest i usually gets what i want and my brother have a long patient on me and always give up what he wants just to give it for me 
.... but this don't happen to a lot of family circles, my friend is also the youngest and she only gets whats left from her brother and sister
.... but this don't happen to a lot of family circles, my friend is also the youngest and she only gets whats left from her brother and sister1 person likes this
@stanly012992 (241)
• Philippines
6 Apr 11
Yes, that is true, this notion are merely a theory and for me its depend to the parent on how they nurture their children.
@xien2xien (1382)
• Philippines
6 Apr 11
but to be honest i see the way my mom and dad treat me special though my brother didn't have something against with it cause he treated me like a baby too, a parents should always be fair cause not all children could understand the favoritism issue
@stanly012992 (241)
• Philippines
15 Jun 11
Maybe you are only good kind person compare with your brother that is why your mom give you more time to show her love to you. Even the parents said that they love their children equally still if one of their child will make bad things they will limit the good things will share to that person.
