Confused..

Philippines
April 6, 2011 3:12pm CST
a guy met a girl. they started out as friends. their friendship grown deeper. until they fell in love with each other. though they had so many trials in their relationship, they kept holding on to each other. then, for some reason, they were constrained to end their relationship. but despite their situation, they tried to keep in touch with each other. suddenly, the girl got mad to the guy. the guy had no idea what went wrong so he kept asking the girl. but the girl refuses to answer. the guy presumed that it was just her way of avoiding him. so he opted to wait for her no matter how long it takes. they still meet but they are avoiding each other. sometimes, he feels that she still love him. will he wait for her..? even if she's ignoring him..?
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5 responses
bhabycatch013
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
7 Apr 11
hello anjiel, WELCOME TO MYLOT if the girl is younger then it's all against odd may i know how old is she?what is the possible reasons why she is starting to avoid this guy if they both love each other? i will wait your answers happy mylotting
anjiel052707
@anjiel052707 (410)
• Philippines
7 Apr 11
hi bhabycatch, thanks for the response. she's a teenager. you ask what is the possible reason..? that's what the guy has been trying to figure out.. as i stated, it was abrupt that the girl got mad and avoided him. he's been wondering what went wrong. should he still wait for her..? he really loves the girl. though sometimes, the girl lets him feel that she doesn't love him anymore, he never loses hope that someday, the girl would come back to him.
bhabycatch013
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
7 Apr 11
Well Love Conquers all but there are lot of fish in the ocean too.......if the relationship is against all odd i suggest move on try to find someone else maybe she fall out of love when i was a teenager i change my mind every minute Now i Love him after a few minutes i HATE HIM
anjiel052707
@anjiel052707 (410)
• Philippines
7 Apr 11
how will he move on when every time he tries to find someone else, his heart still searches her..? guess that's what "TRUE LOVE" is..
JHULY44
@Sydalg242811 (380)
• Baguio, Philippines
8 Apr 11
Halu anjiel, if we are talking about LOVE,it's hard to decide for it.but,we open our mind and heart,we are should accept the reality what may come for it.sometimes we sacrifices for the better and peaceful situations,sometimes we fight for it,and sometimes love "CONFUSING",and it goes that way, the guy should talk with that gurl,but if she will ignore and don't want to talk with,the guy should put his self if he can wait for the gurl for the wright time,and if the guy feel that the gurl still love him and just ignoring him becoz of some reasons like;the gurl is still young for the that relationship nor she should finish her studies.so the guy must wait for the wright time,but if doesn't work at least the guy make all his effort and he showed his LOVE to her,it hurts but the guy must accept the reality,and time will come the guy can move on and look for another love. thanks and GOD BLESS
anjiel052707
@anjiel052707 (410)
• Philippines
11 Apr 11
hi sydalg, thanks for the response. it reminded me of the couple i've seen in a tv gameshow several weeks ago. i was impressed with the guy's determination.. he waited 11 years for the girl. though the girl had other relationship, in the end, the guy won.. =D hope we have same fate..ΓΌ
JHULY44
@Sydalg242811 (380)
• Baguio, Philippines
12 Apr 11
Halu anjiel, yes,it's all about LOVE;GOD created us with all HIS loved:that's why, if we love someone, we should give all what we can,becoz life is too short,if we will be departed at least we impart good things and KIND LOVE to our love ones. thanks also,you're always welcome. have a BLESS day
anjiel052707
@anjiel052707 (410)
• Philippines
13 Apr 11
i agree..but do we really have to everything for loves sake..? i mean, what if we gave it to the wrong person..? how do we know if we're w/ the right one..?
cream97
@cream97 (29087)
• United States
7 Apr 11
Hi. anjiel052707. Welcome to myLot! Yes, she still loves him. Her feelings are just too complicated. I truly believe that this girl should be more direct with this guy. Both of them should be. A man will wait on a woman, but a woman must come through on her end too before it is too late. I would hate to see this man fall into the arms of another woman whom is ready and able to meet his destiny.
anjiel052707
@anjiel052707 (410)
• Philippines
7 Apr 11
hi cream..your username is tempting, makes me wanna eat ice cream! hehe.. well, i hope your right about her feelings being just too complicated.
melvelasco
@melvelasco (356)
• Philippines
7 Apr 11
let her think may he still young if the girl doesn't like her or ignoring him. never mind her maybe she had a reason why she was doing it.
anjiel052707
@anjiel052707 (410)
• Philippines
7 Apr 11
thanks for your response. she's younger than him. should he still wait for her..? 'coz sometimes, he can see & feel that she still love him.
gelayagui98
@gelayagui98 (1336)
• Australia
12 Apr 11
Their relationship is very complicated but as I can see it according to your story, seeing it others is one way that they still have mutual feelings so do you believe if I say the girls is just bored waiting for married proposal that's why she decided to end up their relationship. They should have talk, a heart to heart talk to resolved what really going on with them as early as possible in order to patch whatever problem they have. Ignoring him is one way of playing hard to get. Just an opinion my friend.
anjiel052707
@anjiel052707 (410)
• Philippines
13 Apr 11
well, i'm sorry but i think, it's not that the girl is just bored waiting for a marriage proposal from him..she's just too young for that. =D how will they talk to each other if she keeps avoiding him..? what should he do..?