You married?? What you want to do on your weding ?
@shaoweina_2008 (24)
China
April 7, 2011 1:18am CST
I married 5 years ago ,my dear is a lawyer ,we have a lovely daughter ,now 10months old,when we got married without the wedding, I feel it is a waste of time and money and too tired,most of our reletives and friends do not understand us,Although we did not hold the wedding, we still happy,
Please donot pay attention to form ,we must focus on real!!!!
4 responses
@hongqistreet (321)
• China
7 Apr 11
It is hard to say. For me, i dont think wedding party is necessary. I like a simple and warm party just with family. We gather together and have a romantic meal.Then my husband and i would go for wedding trip.
But my parents would not agree with that idea. in my hometown, you need to hold a big party ceremony to celebrate your wedding and invite many friends and relatives.If you dont do this, you would lose your face. The more luxuriour wedding party is , the more reputation you will get,althoug it is quite a way of wasting time and money.
@hongqistreet (321)
• China
8 Apr 11
First, thanks very much for giving me best response.
I have registered but have not hold a wedding party cos we dont have too much time and we dont have enough money. And i know i have to beacuses of as you said reality and relatives' pressure. So from now on , my husband and i have to work hard and save money. we will hold our wedding party in some month later.
@shaoweina_2008 (24)
• China
11 Apr 11
When are you going to hold your wedding party? Intend to travel?
@thatgirl13 (7294)
• South Korea
7 Apr 11
I haven't married but yes would love to someday with the man I love. Anyway I don't know what kind of wedding I want or what I want to do on my wedding yet but I have already selected a wedding song for myself (well atleast for now). Anyway I think holding a huge wedding or doing nothing totally depends on the person. Like I know some people have dreams ever since they were kids of having a fairy tale-ish wedding and etc etc. So yeah it totally depends.
And it's so nice that you and your wife are happy. I hope you guys stay strong in the future coming ahead too. Good luck 
@shaoweina_2008 (24)
• China
8 Apr 11
Thank you for your blessing and understanding ,we wish you a happy life
@ZhaJhem060510 (111)
• Philippines
7 Apr 11
I'm not already married but if i will get into that situation i love my wedding will be the wedding of the decade. It is once in our life time. I know it will cost too much of money thats why right now i am making my money bank for my future. Hope it will be. I know its not practical but i want it. =) LOL!
