have you ever made a wrong decisions that really affects you?

@thereza (314)
Philippines
April 7, 2011 7:20am CST
I have many wrong decisions that I made before and now suffering the consequences. I learned that we need to study the situation first and check the advantages and disadvantages of it before doing it. Now I am trying to move on and concentrating to make my life better.
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@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
7 Apr 11
I think I as well have made wrong decisions that really affect my life. Unfortunately for some decisions I'm still trying to see how the consequences may play themselves out in the future. So I as well have learned to think more about things and carefully make decisions and choices.
@thereza (314)
• Philippines
8 Apr 11
thinking many times before committing decisions really helps. Its just that we are the one who is moving very fast without thinking and sooner are regretting in the end.
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@jaiho2009 (39140)
• Philippines
7 Apr 11
I think most of us made mistakes in our life and our decisions. What matters is,we know how to admit and accept that mistake and try to make everything right. Or at least,try not to commit the same mistake again. Just take the positive side of it and learn from mistake. Don't make that mistake ruined your entire life. Try your best to make things better.
@jaiho2009 (39140)
• Philippines
10 Apr 11
hello again thereza, thanks for the br mark and hope you had a great weekend
@thereza (314)
• Philippines
11 Apr 11
You are welcome! keep up your good responses it really helps every reader here n mylot. God bless!!
@inertia4 (27978)
• United States
8 Apr 11
Yes I have and I am paying for it right now. I made the stupid decision of getting married. It fell apart and here I am suffering as a result. I would love to go back and change the whole thing and believe me I would never make that same mistake again.
@thereza (314)
• Philippines
11 Apr 11
I think you are not yet ready to have a married life before. You cannot go back anymore in your single life. try to fix it boy I know you can. You will not marry that girl if you didn't like her as her whole. Goodluck!
@QeeGood (1213)
• Sweden
7 Apr 11
I have done several decisions with a bad outcome, which did cause me long term consequences over years. I have learnt the hard way. My latest decision was to believe in a man, who said I could trust him. I could not trust him, he scammed me on money. I thought he was a loving sincere man, but he was only loving to use me for his own pleasure. I put myself in financial debts, which is a consequence lasting over years for me.
@QeeGood (1213)
• Sweden
8 Apr 11
I am working my way of paying off the debts I put myself in when I believed in a man. His manipulated me to pay him in US $ 8000.
@thereza (314)
• Philippines
8 Apr 11
I am sorry about that. I hope you can find your true man. Im sure you will and ask for our Gods help so that you can finished it easily. That scammer will suffer for what He had done!! Do not lose hope! thank you!!!
@murkie (1103)
• Philippines
7 Apr 11
not all decisions are perfect. and all decisions, whether it turned out to be good or bad, is in one way or another, affecting the decision maker. in most cases, making a decision is not too easy. but hey, you have to make one. i have had made a lot of decisions. and not all of them were good. but the trick is to stick to it and stand by that decision that you made. don't go back once you made the decision, but correct it once in a while. and in the end, it will turn out alright.
@thereza (314)
• Philippines
7 Apr 11
I agree on that. But For me I wont stand on my decision if it is wrong I'll just accept it and find a better way to do corrections.
@vannyt (343)
• Philippines
7 Apr 11
I had many mistakes and I just had one recently. It's frustrating and disgusting, I can't even get it out of my mind but I know that the feeling would pass and I would start feeling ok again and move on with my life. I know that better things will come my way and I just have to be optimistic.
@thereza (314)
• Philippines
7 Apr 11
yeah right we really need to be optimistic in everything that is happening to us. I believed that everything happens for a reason. thank you for commenting.
@kinjalk (192)
• United States
7 Apr 11
Everyone makes wrong decisions in their life. No one is perfect. I believe, you have to make mistakes to learn. You have to learn from it and then do it better next time. :-) I have made many mistakes in my life. But I do go by the saying, "No Regrets, Only Lessons Learned"
@thereza (314)
• Philippines
7 Apr 11
That is the most important thing in life we must learn from our mistakes. And do not let failures defeat you.
@tiffnkeat (1673)
• Singapore
7 Apr 11
Wrong decisions really affect us...but...right decisions also affect us too. Doing an advantage-disadvantage analysis is good, but sometimes due to lack of time for analysis, we just go with "feel" and there's where "wrong" decision come. Well, we learn from it and move on....:)