Should I get another dog.

New Zealand
April 7, 2011 1:44pm CST
Getting another dog is being heavily debated in out house hold at the moment.Our loved German Shepherd died 2 years ago and it broke my heart.Now my husband is looking at puppies and I have mixed feelings about getting one.First winter is coming and it is not fun when it rains everyday with a dog.Then I plan to go back to work a some stage and its not fair on a dog even though we have a big fenced section surrounded by paddocks.Cattle thats another issue. and we rent what happens if we have to move.It can make looking for a new house more limited.Not sure what to do because we love dogs and I think it would do us good to have one.They have a way of making you smile.What would you do if you were in the same situation?????
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• Canada
7 Apr 11
See if you can foster a dog. It's a great idea, and it helps rescues out. I have one in my area that provides everything you need to be a foster parent, and you don't have to worry about full time responsibility of the dog. When an adoptive home has been found, your dog will go there. You can repeat the cycle again if you want to continue fostering. I'm looking into it myself as a possibility.
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• New Zealand
7 Apr 11
Thanks for the response.We are looking to rehome an unwanted dog.Our last dog was from a similar background and he was so loving and loyal.He had started life on the wrong foot but we have never had a better dog.
• Canada
7 Apr 11
My dog came from the same type of situation. He was 8 years old when I got him. Not a day goes by when I wish I'd had him from when he was a puppy, I'm sure he was so vibrant. But now he's a fat lump that doesn't want to do anything because he's older. It's going to hit me hard when he goes, but not as hard as when my cat goes.
@savypat (20216)
• United States
7 Apr 11
So many dogs need homes, the love that you can give a dog will do nothing but add to your lives, even if you can only have it for a short time and then pass it on to another home where dog love is needed. We are getting to the age that we have to consider the fact that any dog we get may out live us, so we are careful to make sure that someone else in the family can take over if that happens. We are living without a house cat due to that fact, but i think we will try to give a home to an older cat this Summer. love of pets needs to be shared not kept to your selves.
• New Zealand
7 Apr 11
Hi Thanks savypat.We have been looking at dogs that desperately need a home.That is how I always get my pets.It is because I know how wonderful it is having a dog and how they dont judge you but just love you.It is a very special thing owning a dog.We got so much joy from our last one.My husband has a soft heart when it comes to animals I know how much he wants one.I would find it very difficult to have to rehome one.Once part of the family always part of the family.
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@JoyfulOne (6232)
• United States
7 Apr 11
If I was in the same situation, I'd probably get another dog, and it would probably be a rescued dog too. Lots of dogs stay home while their owners work, and that's not necessarily a bad thing. When my dog was home (while I was at work) I'd provide her with a good chew bone, and her favorite toys, as well as an old blanket with my scent on it. She learned quick what time I'd be back and she always waiting by the door when I came home. If she were truly lonesome, I'm sure she'd be whining or barking, and the neighbors said that she never barked or anything, unless somebody pulled into the drive or came to the door. If you have to move, there are still plenty of alternatives, and a 'wait and see' might be the ticket. I wouldn't be without my Kelly, she brings me joy and smiles, and she's always glad to see me when I get home. Think about some poor dog who's lonely because there is no one to love them...and by providing one a loving home, well, at least one dog in the world is really happy:-)
• New Zealand
8 Apr 11
Yes thankyou for the response.Its true at least if we go ahead we will be giving a dog a good life that is something thats a big plus.Thankyou for pointing that out.
@youless (112507)
• Guangzhou, China
8 Apr 11
If a new dog can bring you happiness, then it is good to have one. Looking after a pet is never an easy task. And when they are gone, we feel so bad because we already regard them as a member of our family. Since your husband is already looking for a new puppy, so probably it is a good time for you to have a new one. I love China
• New Zealand
8 Apr 11
Thanks youless I believe you may be right.I think maybe it is a good time to get one.My husband is very keen.
@allknowing (136601)
• India
8 Apr 11
After caring for several dogs when we had maids to run the house when we were not at home we decided not to have any more as at the moment we do not have the kind of help one needs that care for dogs. But a little pup just walked into our gate - a stray. We always had pedigree but we were encouraging others to go in for strays. Now this pup did all what it could to get our love and here she is now 4 years old but let me warn you our social life is at a standstill. We don't regret it though as she more than provides the joy which is incomparable. I suggest you go for it and time will take care of everything
@allknowing (136601)
• India
8 Apr 11
Preiti our pet - She came in our life when we did not want any pets but no regrets.
Preiti our pet as seen here in the picture
• New Zealand
8 Apr 11
Thanks allknowing your words are wise.I find it interesting your comment on your special little stray.Its true you rehome an unloved and unwanted dog and they will love you and be loyal till the end.
@ptower76 (1616)
• United States
7 Apr 11
I had a dog that was part of my family for over 12 years. When she passed away it broke all of our hearts. That was 6 years ago and so far none of us want to experience that again. On the other hand, dogs are so therapeutic and fun and I know you would not regret getting another dog. What ever you decide, your concern assures me that you genuinely love dogs. Good luck on your choice.
@ptower76 (1616)
• United States
7 Apr 11
I wish you lived in New York City, I know of a couple of Dogs that need rescuing. But good luck on your new family member since it seems like you made your decision. lol
• Philippines
8 Apr 11
since you already had a dog, i think you can handle having one again. maybe you'll have to adjust again because it's been two years since you had a dog. but that will be very minimal. we also have a dog, a pitbull. and it really help a lot specially being the guard of the house. even my kids play with it. and sometimes its our way of having a family bonding when we all play with him.