Do you wanna find a foreigner as your girlfriend or boyfriend ?
@JasonZeng0215 (34)
China
April 7, 2011 8:37pm CST
I'm a chinese.23 years old. Now I am working in a company and my family want me to bring a girlfeiend back. But I want to find a foreigner as my wife, Is it OK? what should I do?
6 responses
@bellis716 (4799)
• United States
9 Apr 11
Why do you want a foreigner for a wife. If you have fallen in love with a woman of a different nationality, that is one thing, but to search out a woman to marry because she is a foreigner is wrong. There are many difficulties in such a mixed marriage. Please reconsider. If you must marry a foreigner, please consider one who has lived in China and understands your customs.
@JasonZeng0215 (34)
• China
10 Apr 11
I don't know the reason why I want a foreigner for a wife. But it's really my thoughts. Maybe it's have something connection with my first love. I feel terrible,and maybe I always want to run away
@bellis716 (4799)
• United States
10 Apr 11
Are you trying to divorce yourself from who
It seems that you are unhappy with your current life. You think that by marrying a person of a different nationality it will change you into someone you will like better. It won't happen. It will only make both of you miserable. You can make friends with some foreigners. Make friends with other Chinese, too. Get involved with a church and do some volunteer work. You never know when you might meet the person you want to be your life's partner.
@mermaidivy (15395)
• United States
8 Apr 11
I think you shouldn't se the race as one of your looking for girlfriend criteria. You should look for somebody who has good peraonlity and who you actually have feeling for instead.
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
8 Apr 11
Nope and Never ... Literally finding a girl friend isn't like finding a girl who is interested in one night stands!What i meant is you cant plan to find one GF ... you bump into her accidently out of blue.Hope you find that special one soon mate.Great day.
@cloud31 (5809)
•
8 Apr 11
Its not about the race, its about your feeling.If you want to have a foreigner wife then go for it.But you have to know that marrying a foreigner you have a lot of things to consider,the culture,up bringing and so the behavior.It depends which race you will find to be your wife.Considering the fact that you have different culture and you have to adjust and manage to cope up with each other culture.
Anyway good luck and may you find the one you are looking for.
Have a nice day!
@JasonZeng0215 (34)
• China
8 Apr 11
Thank you, I know what you said, and I will take it into consideration
@stylewaves (1060)
• India
8 Apr 11
Sorry i am not that much experienced in that . But wish you a Happy married life
@angelsavie (61)
• Philippines
8 Apr 11
On my personal opinion, I don't like to have a foreigner boyfriend. Maybe because I'm afraid. I have some friends, and have seen on our local news that Filipinas are abused and treated unfairly by their foreigner partners. And we might always disagree because of our cultures. But still, it really depends on both parties. If you think you can handle it, then go for it. But don't settle for someone because you are just pressured to have a girlfriend. Be with someone you really love and will stay with you no matter what your differences are.
