I have a foreign sutor...
By ynahh1
@ynahh1 (454)
April 8, 2011 1:30am CST
To start with,Good day to all my lotters!I just want to share that I have new sutor which is a foreign,he is an american.I actually dont know how to mingle with foriegn specially from western country.That is why whenever he asked me on a date,I always replied "some other time",maybe because am afraid or I really dont know my exact reason.What About you?What will you do if you are in my position?Can you share it to me?
1 response
@speedytypist (571)
• United States
8 Apr 11
Hi ynah,
Cross-Cultural is somewhat very difficult to deal with. The difference in Culture, Language barrier and a lot more need to be considered. In your case, I bet you are Asian if I am not mistaken, I am not sure how long since you've met this man. You are the only one who can really feel if you feel safe and at ease to have date with him. I am from Philippines and my husband is an American. We've been friends for a long time before he proposed to me to became her girlfriend,fiancee then now a wife. It's not bad dating with a foreigner as long as you feel right towards him. In short, you really like or love him and he does the same towards you. In dating somebody, there must be some pre-cautions and reminder that we need to keep before going out. Don't give your full trust to anybody especially if you met in a weeks or a month....God bless....Good luck
@ynahh1 (454)
•
8 Apr 11
Thanks for your message,your certainly right that am an asian,the same with you am a Filipina!Am just quite afraid to date him,Were been friends since last year and we usually chat everyday.I just want to be sure that he has a good intention in our friendship cause am afraid to be trap in the situation that I cant scape.With regards to your husband what is your age gap?Because he is actuall 29 years old and am 21,Im not sure that this age for an ameriacan is serious about relationship.Thanks in advance..
@speedytypist (571)
• United States
8 Apr 11
My Hubby is older than me and but I am in mature age, so no worries at all. You are still young. I guess dating will be fine. I am not sure about your friend's status, re: serious about relationship. Seriousness, may differ from each person. You can tell yourself if he is serious or not. My hubby only came here in the Philippines only for me not like others that come and visit here in the Philippines and meet somebody from here to there. I am not judging them. They have the right to choice which one, they are going to steady with and will possibly get married. You said, you chatted with him almost everyday. I guess, it's not bad to know more about him. God bless...
