I truly give up...

@saphrina (31551)
South Africa
April 8, 2011 10:21am CST
As everyone always say go on and and don't give up, i say to them now, go fly to the moon. I have had it with everything and everyone. I don't want to anymore. No lies, no nothing. I really have had it. I'm done playing these games, now everyone have to play my game with my rules. A wise old saying: Good to forgive, better to forget. Sorry, i don't forgive or forget. I won't be treated like a fool anymore.
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@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
8 Apr 11
Hi Saphrina Who treated you as you say? Yes, I might have lied to you sometime but that was never to fool you... I will still admire and respect you as I have been. To me I believe in one rule only - I do what my heart says because I know it never thinks to hurt anyone, and if anyone gets hurt, it says me to ask for forgivenness. I will try to follow your new rules.... let us know.
@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
8 Apr 11
I am treated like that for the past year sweetie. Makes no difference to me anymore as i don't really give a sh$t anymore.
@Jotomy (6322)
• India
8 Apr 11
@vandana7 (100300)
• India
9 Apr 11
Saphy do you really believe thesids... when he says it was never to fool you...I get all
@jennyze (7028)
• Indonesia
11 Apr 11
Well, you would give up when you give up. Isn't that another saying? If you still write about it, then it says that you want to give up, and really give up... Cheers...
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@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
11 Apr 11
You just confused the hell out of me, sweetie.
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@jennyze (7028)
• Indonesia
11 Apr 11
.. not really give up....
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@mythociate (21432)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
11 Apr 11
That's why the book of James calls it 'sin' to know you should do a thing and not take action. Thankfully, I think saphrina was just considering the option of giving up; giving us the chance to talk her out of it
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
8 Apr 11
hello saphy, I am afraid now...won't you forgive me? never mean to fool you my dear I like it "now everyone have to play my game with my rules" let's play your game It's weekend dear (almost) let's have fun and please...smile :)
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@Jotomy (6322)
• India
8 Apr 11
Hi jai,
@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
8 Apr 11
Are you sure you want to play my game, sweetie?
@Jotomy (6322)
• India
8 Apr 11
Hi saphrina, don't be annoyed if anyone did anything for you, as you said the old saying is good and follow that as i do. Have a great weekend dear.
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
8 Apr 11
hello Jo
@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
8 Apr 11
Hi sweetie. I'm not annoyed at all. I'm totally p$ssed. Thank you, have a great weekend.
@macayadann (1235)
• Philippines
11 Apr 11
well choose and select people that can be trusted,study their character for there are those who stick closer than a brother. Not all are the same you may stumble on a best one.
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@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
11 Apr 11
Hi sweetie. One can make a difference, but that is not so easy.
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• Philippines
11 Apr 11
yes I know just be careful when you give your trust and do not lose hope for you will find one.
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@ajk111 (2495)
8 Apr 11
I hope you are not being treated like a fool. So lets play by your rules....but first i need to have a copy of the rules. Any chance of a copy?
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@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
8 Apr 11
No rules for this sweetie. I make them as my mood changes.
@topffer (42156)
• France
8 Apr 11
Please make a copy and drop it in my box.
@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
8 Apr 11
More games?
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@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
8 Apr 11
Sorry my MD, no games today.
@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
8 Apr 11
what happened? :-(
@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
8 Apr 11
I'm sorry. Feel free to PM me or e-mail if you want to unload.
@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
9 Apr 11
Thanx Dawny.
@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
8 Apr 11
The supposedly best year of my life, turned into a nightmare, Dawny.
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@krajibg (11922)
• Guwahati, India
8 Apr 11
Hi saph, Something must have gone wrong for which you are thinking of giving up this place. There is no dearth of people to ill treat you. And I do ot ask you to forget or forgive. As you are matured individual you know better how to deal with the things. Hope you will shake them off ...
@krajibg (11922)
• Guwahati, India
9 Apr 11
Than what is killing you down?
@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
8 Apr 11
Hi sweetie. Apparently not mature enough to see that i am played with and made a fool off.
@sjvenden27 (1840)
• United States
8 Apr 11
To forgive a person, doesnt give them the right to do the same action again.. To forgive is to give them another chance to do the right thing.. No one deserves to be walked on or played for a fool..
• United States
8 Apr 11
Yep... Remember this one Silence is Golden. Why? Regardless of how you truly feel about a situation when you keep your opinion to yourself they have no idea.. Which gets them wondering... this drives most crazy.. then their true colors start showing... and u didnt have to waste an ounce of effort on their stupidity.... No playing neccersary... they will do that all on there own.. just sit back and watch.. you would be suprised of the out come
@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
9 Apr 11
Thanx sweetie. Most helpful.
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@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
8 Apr 11
Hi sweetie. I agree, no one deserve that. So, now it's my turn to do the walking and playing.
@voldrox (7191)
• India
9 Apr 11
Hello my Saphy ! Looks like we are in the same sort of situation here, Saphy. Although, i still have a lot more to see in this world. [i]Why not walk the path together, Don't walk away from me, If you think you have had it, then you are wrong, I will pull you towards me and put you back on the right track, Don't falter, You are worth much more than you can even think of, dear, You are never going to give up even if you say so, I will pull you to me again, I believe we have a lot more waiting for us ahead, So don't give in, don't stumble, It's hard time through this jungle as for now, But soon we will reach the valley of joy, See the sunrise, I am sure, that day you will say i am glad to have come this far... So come, lets walk.. :)[/i] Umm.. You can, once in while, i said once in a while, take your whip and smack my back with it.
@voldrox (7191)
• India
10 Apr 11
You are not going to change for anyone, my Saphy. I guess some people just can't see how sweet you are.. Don't let someone bother you so much when you know they don't bother you. I know it's hard but try to stay neutral and try not to think much about it.
@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
9 Apr 11
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@eurekafemme (5877)
• Philippines
8 Apr 11
Hi, Saphy. Someone ruffled your feathers, dear? Sure, set the rules. Go ahead. Kick a$$. No one has the right to fool you and you should not allow them to fool you. So, are we going to pull the trigger now? Shucks! it is going to be a bloody weekend. Cheer up, dear. Don't let anything gets into your nerves.
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@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
8 Apr 11
Hi sweetie. I'll rather send that to hell. Sure nick will have fun with him.
• United States
9 Apr 11
stop feeling like that the earth id already edge.
@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
9 Apr 11
Hi sweetie. Welcome to mylot. I can try to snap my fingers then.
@mythociate (21432)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
10 Apr 11
It's good to get over yourself; I think one of the biggest mistakes I made in my life was 'promising to make myself happy.' When you quit doing that and decide to base your success upon OTHERS' happiness, you learn that the others' will be more-inspired to strive for YOUR happiness as well. (True, most limit their 'others' to a relatively small group of close family-members; but that's just because true happiness is more-difficult to keep track-of than 'counting your "like"s and "+"s.' That's why famous people usually regard their audiences as 'one person.')
@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
11 Apr 11
Hi sweetie. It's when you start making others happy, that this sort of thing happens. No matter what you do, you will always end up short somewhere.
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@mythociate (21432)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
11 Apr 11
You only come-up short if you stop to "count." 'Counting' is a waste of time if it makes you stop before you're finished!
• United States
10 Apr 11
No you are no fool! I hope you can find happiness, without all the bullsh!t. good Luck.
@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
10 Apr 11
Thanx sweetie. Hope to find that eventually.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
10 Apr 11
hi saphrina oh my dear whatever some idiot has done to you I wish I was there to give him or her a good swift kick. no dont make me fly to the moon as my knee hurts too much. No indeed do not let anyone treat you like a fool but remember you really do have alot of good friends here. you are making me cry as you have always been one to face the world and bad people and tell them just where to go. so yes do not give up. we look to you for a model of courage here. I also dislike people who play games also. take care and cheer up.
@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
10 Apr 11
Hello Hatley. I don't want you to be upset, okay. You have to take care of yourself and relax. Hope your leg will get better soon.
@Opal26 (17679)
• United States
10 Apr 11
Hi saphy! I have been feeling quite the same way, especially lately! I have decided to take care of my own issues and to get rid of some of the people in my life (not online)that I am fed up with and disgusted with! I have had it with back-stabbing beotches and two faced liars! So, I am also not going to be treated like a fool or doormat anymore either!
@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
10 Apr 11
Hi sweetie. Lets' start the house cleaning then. Now is just as good as any time.
@topffer (42156)
• France
8 Apr 11
Hello saphrina, We have always played with your rules you know, but I cannot fly to the moon : I am only creeping. I do not know what is happening to you to sulk like that. I hope that you will reconsider this wise saying during the week end, because it is truly wise.
@vandana7 (100300)
• India
8 Apr 11
She needs to realize we've been bending over our backs to accommodate her foot in the mouth remarks...dont you think topffer? @saphy... go ahead with that response, at the best it would get ignored as something from blond, at worst..people might realize you are not a "fool"...
@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
8 Apr 11
Hi sweetie. I can always help you to the moon. As for that saying. I cannot give you the response i want to.
@rameshchow (4426)
• India
29 Apr 11
I am learning many things from your here. Actually i am telling with my friends also that " how i am learning many things from U". Thinking differently is something special. We are born to express, we can be live like us only. hugs to you saphie....
@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
29 Apr 11
I can only give advice remo. You are the only one who can make decisions. But thanx anyway. So nice of you.
@aeiou78 (3445)
• Malaysia
9 Apr 11
In our life, I should not keep hating or dislike something or someone. If hating and disliking persist in my mind all the while, I shall feel unhappy and meaningless in my life. I should make myself out from these hating and disliking someone, then I can start something new, feeling hopeful and joyful in my life. I never want myself to forget or to forgive. I never expect everyone to play my game and my rules. But I do insist to play my own game in my own rules and my own roles to make myself meaning full and happy in my life. I hope you will be the same too.
@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
10 Apr 11
Hi sweetie. I don't think it's the right time for me to try that now. Maybe when i feel better someday i might try it. Thanx.