I truly give up...
By saphrina
@saphrina (31551)
South Africa
April 8, 2011 10:21am CST
As everyone always say go on and and don't give up,
i say to them now, go fly to the moon.
I have had it with everything and everyone.
I don't want to anymore.
No lies, no nothing.
I really have had it.
I'm done playing these games,
now everyone have to play my game with my rules.
A wise old saying:
Good to forgive, better to forget.
Sorry, i don't forgive or forget.
I won't be treated like a fool anymore.
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31 responses
@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
8 Apr 11
Hi Saphrina
Who treated you as you say? Yes, I might have lied to you sometime but that was never to fool you... I will still admire and respect you as I have been.
To me I believe in one rule only - I do what my heart says because I know it never thinks to hurt anyone, and if anyone gets hurt, it says me to ask for forgivenness.
I will try to follow your new rules.... let us know.
@mythociate (21432)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
11 Apr 11
That's why the book of James calls it 'sin' to know you should do a thing and not take action.
Thankfully, I think saphrina was just considering the option of giving up; giving us the chance to talk her out of it
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
8 Apr 11
hello saphy,
I am afraid now...won't you forgive me?
never mean to fool you my dear
I like it "now everyone have to play my game with my rules"
let's play your game
It's weekend dear (almost) let's have fun and please...smile :)
@macayadann (1235)
• Philippines
11 Apr 11
well choose and select people that can be trusted,study their character for there are those who stick closer than a brother. Not all are the same you may stumble on a best one.
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@macayadann (1235)
• Philippines
11 Apr 11
yes I know just be careful when you give your trust and do not lose hope for you will find one.
@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
8 Apr 11
I'm sorry.
Feel free to PM me or e-mail if you want to unload.
@krajibg (11922)
• Guwahati, India
8 Apr 11
Hi saph,
Something must have gone wrong for which you are thinking of giving up this place. There is no dearth of people to ill treat you.
And I do ot ask you to forget or forgive. As you are matured individual you know better how to deal with the things.
Hope you will shake them off ...
@sjvenden27 (1840)
• United States
8 Apr 11
To forgive a person, doesnt give them the right to do the same action again.. To forgive is to give them another chance to do the right thing.. No one deserves to be walked on or played for a fool..
@sjvenden27 (1840)
• United States
8 Apr 11
Yep... Remember this one Silence is Golden.
Why? Regardless of how you truly feel about a situation when you keep your opinion to yourself they have no idea.. Which gets them wondering... this drives most crazy.. then their true colors start showing... and u didnt have to waste an ounce of effort on their stupidity.... No playing neccersary... they will do that all on there own.. just sit back and watch.. you would be suprised of the out come
@voldrox (7191)
• India
9 Apr 11
Hello my Saphy !
Looks like we are in the same sort of situation here, Saphy. Although, i still have a lot more to see in this world.
[i]Why not walk the path together,
Don't walk away from me,
If you think you have had it, then you are wrong,
I will pull you towards me and put you back on the right track,
Don't falter,
You are worth much more than you can even think of, dear,
You are never going to give up even if you say so,
I will pull you to me again,
I believe we have a lot more waiting for us ahead,
So don't give in, don't stumble,
It's hard time through this jungle as for now,
But soon we will reach the valley of joy,
See the sunrise,
I am sure, that day you will say i am glad to have come this far...
So come, lets walk.. :)[/i]
Umm.. You can, once in while, i said once in a while, take your whip and smack my back with it.
@eurekafemme (5877)
• Philippines
8 Apr 11
Hi, Saphy.
Someone ruffled your feathers, dear? Sure, set the rules. Go ahead. Kick a$$. No one has the right to fool you and you should not allow them to fool you.
So, are we going to pull the trigger now? Shucks! it is going to be a bloody weekend.
Cheer up, dear. Don't let anything gets into your nerves.
@okroger88 (24)
• United States
9 Apr 11
stop feeling like that the earth id already edge.
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@mythociate (21432)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
10 Apr 11
It's good to get over yourself; I think one of the biggest mistakes I made in my life was 'promising to make myself happy.'
When you quit doing that and decide to base your success upon OTHERS' happiness, you learn that the others' will be more-inspired to strive for YOUR happiness as well.
(True, most limit their 'others' to a relatively small group of close family-members; but that's just because true happiness is more-difficult to keep track-of than 'counting your "like"s and "+"s.' That's why famous people usually regard their audiences as 'one person.')
@mythociate (21432)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
11 Apr 11
You only come-up short if you stop to "count." 'Counting' is a waste of time if it makes you stop before you're finished!
@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
10 Apr 11
No you are no fool! I hope you can find happiness, without all the bullsh!t. good Luck.
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
10 Apr 11
hi saphrina oh my dear whatever some idiot has done to you I wish I
was there to give him or her a good swift kick. no dont make me fly
to the moon as my knee hurts too much. No indeed do not let anyone
treat you like a fool but remember you really do have alot of good
friends here. you are making me cry as you have always been one to
face the world and bad people and tell them just where to go. so yes
do not give up. we look to you for a model of courage here. I also dislike
people who play games also. take care and cheer up.
@Opal26 (17679)
• United States
10 Apr 11
Hi saphy! I have been feeling quite the same way, especially lately!
I have decided to take care of my own issues and to get rid of some
of the people in my life (not online)that I am fed up with and
disgusted with! I have had it with back-stabbing beotches and
two faced liars! So, I am also not going to be treated like
a fool or doormat anymore either!
@topffer (42156)
• France
8 Apr 11
Hello saphrina,
We have always played with your rules you know, but I cannot fly to the moon : I am only creeping.
I do not know what is happening to you to sulk like that. I hope that you will reconsider this wise saying during the week end, because it is truly wise.
@vandana7 (100300)
• India
8 Apr 11
She needs to realize we've been bending over our backs to accommodate her foot in the mouth remarks...dont you think topffer?
@saphy... go ahead with that response, at the best it would get ignored as something from blond, at worst..people might realize you are not a "fool"...
@rameshchow (4426)
• India
29 Apr 11
I am learning many things from your here.
Actually i am telling with my friends also that " how i am learning many things from U".
Thinking differently is something special.
We are born to express, we can be live like us only.
hugs to you saphie....
@aeiou78 (3445)
• Malaysia
9 Apr 11
In our life, I should not keep hating or dislike something or someone.
If hating and disliking persist in my mind all the while, I shall feel unhappy and meaningless in my life.
I should make myself out from these hating and disliking someone, then I can start something new, feeling hopeful and joyful in my life.
I never want myself to forget or to forgive.
I never expect everyone to play my game and my rules.
But I do insist to play my own game in my own rules and my own roles to make myself meaning full and happy in my life.
I hope you will be the same too.