My niece says homework should be banned by school?
By besthope44
@besthope44 (12123)
India
April 8, 2011 12:43pm CST
I was helping my niece on her maths. She is 6 years old and never like her maths. Her maths teacher gives her lots of problems to get solve at home. But she never likes to do her homework. She says she wants to relax at home and homeworks are real burden. I feel homeworks are good to keep in touch with their studies and shape them better. How many of you loves homeworks at school really. Homework is good for growing up, though it may seems hectic. Point me if I am wrong?! How can we make kids feel easy and make them to like doing their homework.
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13 responses
@blacks94 (161)
• Italy
25 Apr 11
Hi besthope,
I don't think anyone will ever actually "love" homework! Personally, I don't dislike it, but sometimes it's really hard to find the strenght to finish it.
However, this year our new math teacher refused to give us homework; at first, we were happy (couldn't believe we had such luck!) but then, at the first class test, grades got very low, even for those who had studied a lot.
That's when I understood the importance of homework. It's not just to prove that you can solve problems: it's to keep trained and to face the different kinds of problems you'll have to solve in a class test.
Also, homework can teach you much on how to organize your day. If you have nothing to do, you'll probably waste your time doing nothing all day, but if you have a very strict timetable, then you'll be much more proficient.
So, even if I can't say that I like it, homework is definitely good for students. I don't think there's a way to make children like doing homework; just congratulate with your niece once she has finished them, and probably someday she'll understand how good it is for her to do her homework.
@besthope44 (12123)
• India
25 Apr 11
Hi Black, You worded it nicely]. True, we may hate homeworks and feel lucky when we were not given any homeworks. But when we dont have it in practise, then we cannot explore our knowledge in any other better ways. True my niece is still kidish and loves to play all time. I can understand her age, so as she grew up she will slowly understand her responsibility and we would guide her as well. You words are so kind and encouraging.
@syoti20 (5292)
• Philippines
24 Apr 11
Indeed having a homework is really lessen day of our weekends. But doing this seriously and answering them on time. Might have a chance to have a good future which she can avoid if she has a good education. But she starting to get lazy and treat homework as burden. What will happen to her future because not all the time parents and relatives are their to help us in our problem. Because they too have own personal problems and issue to solve in day to day basis.
Tell you niece to starting plant good things now. So she can reap them in the future and away from poverty and sufferings.
@besthope44 (12123)
• India
24 Apr 11
Hi Syoti20, I agree with you, She has not developed interest towards her studies. Feeling bit lazy as well. Yes I am trying her to learn good habits right from this age, so she cannot suffer future.
@ShepherdSpy (8544)
• Omagh, Northern Ireland
8 Apr 11
She's a schoolkid..of course she hates homework! If She's having difficulty with the subject at school,or just doesn't like it,things might change as she gets to know more about it..just working with a lot of numbers all the time must seem boring to her if she doesn't yet get how useful an ability with numbers can be for her later on..
@besthope44 (12123)
• India
13 Apr 11
Hi Shepherd, You are right. As she grows she is sure to learn the importance of numbers by herself. And am thinking to make a way of interesting homeworks by play or puzzles, so she get a liking towards maths!
@cream97 (29087)
• United States
21 Apr 11
Hi. besthope44. I think that students that are really young should not have to do too much of homework. At home, they should have homework that will keep the busy, but just not too busy. Homework gives a child the extra practice and skills that are needed to succeed. I just think that sometimes many teachers abuse this action by giving a young child too much of homework.
@besthope44 (12123)
• India
23 Apr 11
Hi cream97, I agree with you. Too much of anything is good for nothing. So If we enforce too much on the young buds, it may result in negative impact. So Homework is necessary provided it should not be a burden for them.
@madp_071983 (228)
• Oman
9 Apr 11
I strongly agree especially so if it defeats its purpose as a homework. Homework, for all we now, is an enhancement activity that the child himself must do when he gets home.
This is also an avenue for parents to follow-up what their children have learned from school during the day. Homeworks must be specific, measurable, attainable, result-oriented, and time bound on the perspective of the learners not the parents.
After all, it is them who will benefit from it. =)
@besthope44 (12123)
• India
13 Apr 11
Hi madp, True, its for the good of the student. And through homeworks, they cultivate the habit of thinking. And as you said, they has to made easy for the students so they dont hate them and pressurizing them. It should be fun and interesting. You worded it very well the importance
@niq993 (50)
• Bulgaria
9 Apr 11
I don't know any kid,who love homeworks. But they are useful,because build good habits in the kids,help them to learn regularly. Her homeworks won't become easier,but I think there is a way to help her - make a schedule with her (time to relax,time to homeworks...) When the duties are more organized.maybe the kid will be more concentrated and will do it faster.
Anyway, homeworks have to be done.
@besthope44 (12123)
• India
13 Apr 11
Hi niq993, You are right! Even when I was a kid, I never like to sit and write the homeworks. But later my grandpa use to give chocolates after i complete my homework. So that way i developed it as habit. I am trying to get my niece find it easy and interesting. I totally agree with you.
@peavey (16936)
• United States
8 Apr 11
A little homework, maybe, but a six year old should have time to relax and not worry about school. I think we push our kids too much and stress them, but they're not learning any more any faster than a few years back when young kids didn't have homework, so something is wrong with the system. Learning should be fun, not a chore that never ends.
@besthope44 (12123)
• India
9 Apr 11
Hi Peavey, Double agreed! Learning system has to be changed, so each and every activity of education has to be accepted by students as enjoyable rather than feeling sick or fearing. My niece has not much homeworks except for maths. She hates it completely as she finds formulas are really confusing. So a interesting way of learning system will help them to read and write on their own.
@Angelwriter (1954)
• United States
8 Apr 11
Homework is like extra practice to really help you learn. Although, I never liked it when I had to do it. Especially math. But, I don't think it's necessary or even possible to get all kids to like homework. It's more important that she gets in the habit of doing it, whether she likes it or not. Human beings don't get the luxury of liking everything they need to do. The only way to get her to like homework is if the teacher starts giving out fun assignments for homework. (And even then, that might backfire, because even fun things can lose their attraction when you're required to do them) But, the teacher's job isn't to make things fun. It's to get kids to learn. There may be times when fun and learning can be combined, but it's not the primary goal. So, your niece will continue to get math homework that she doesn't like. Unless she changes her mind about math later in life. I never did, but she might. But, whether she likes it or not isn't important. It's only important that she does it and learns something from it.
My kindergarten through college self completely sympathizes with her, though.
@besthope44 (12123)
• India
11 Apr 11
Hi Angelwriter, I agree with you. True, kids should start taking up homework by some fun assignments which develop interest and make them think and work. Learning system can modify itself to bring in the kids to learn education and homework. Yes I feel kids as they grow, they understand the good and bad better.
@cher913 (25782)
• Canada
8 Apr 11
if a child doesnt finish their work in school, then it is homework. homework is good because it makes the child go over what the teacher taught in school. i think 2 hours of homework is excesive but a half an hour is fine. they should have something like 10 minutes per grade they are in.
@besthope44 (12123)
• India
9 Apr 11
Hi cher913, Well said. Homework is one which makes the child think and understand by itself. And doing it alone, he gets better ability to think. I totally agree with you. Yeah Timings is important. So by this way children dont go fed up with heavy homeworks and they will take them as a part of learning.
@besthope44 (12123)
• India
11 Apr 11
Hi dodo, Nice that you agree homework is important for kids to learn. Right, If education is imparted as a fun and interesting, then they will surely get the interest to work on their own without anyone's guidance.
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
8 Apr 11
Back when i am studying, i didn't see homework as a burden.
I thought it's still a part of school and studies.
But nowadays due to different gadget that keeps children busy for games,kids find school homeworks as burden and tiring.
My youngest son always complaining when he has few subject that needs extra assignment during weekends.
He hates it and always cram to finish so he can play with friends online.(so bad)
At least he did assignment first and all i have to do is checked if he did it right.
happy weekend
@besthope44 (12123)
• India
11 Apr 11
Hi Jaiho, Well worded. True today kids have so many to do and hence they find homeworks just a waste of time. My niece loves playing computers, so she find it hard to holding some pencil or pen. And when she was much younger, I give her chocolates once she completes her work. Nice that you manage the little one. I feel as they grow up they will understand themselves rather than we pressuring them.
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
8 Apr 11
I don't think that homework should be banned from schools. Homework is necessary to the learning and comprehension and understanding of the material in the classroom. Sometimes I think that the homework load could be lightened so it is not so stressful to the student.
@besthope44 (12123)
• India
9 Apr 11
Hi Sender, Thats the point. Homework is necessary, which kids should be stressed. Because homeworks makes the ability to think and recollect their lessons at school. Even I was stressed at schools with plenty of homeworks, but as I grow I realized my thinking ability shaped by working out at home. My niece is not stressed up, but still she wants to enjoy all the time. Hope as she grows, she will get in the track.
@acrossnation (773)
• Malaysia
8 Apr 11
Okay...my kids had the same problem when they were young, bringing home homework.
If you find it excessive, do ask the teacher why, sometimes the teacher made them to do homework because the kid did not finish it at school. Some teachers are........they are still human after all.
I would like to suggest to you to help and do the homework for her, just for a certain period of time until she likes math or whatever subject she hates. I know the handwriting might look different but we can work wonders aren't we. Your niece seems to be left behind in maths thats why she hates it or the teacher have a problem.
@besthope44 (12123)
• India
11 Apr 11
Hi acrossnation, You conveyed a valid point. Thats true. Teachers cannot be blamed, they do the max to get the kids learn and shine. Yes, even I feel only we can make them understand,as they are sure to understand when they grow up knowing the responsibilities by themselves. I would go by your words to help her at this stage.