Seriously, what do you think of this dream that I have had?
By cream97
@cream97 (29086)
United States
April 8, 2011 1:25pm CST
When I go to sleep at night, I don't be thinking about a certain person or thing, I just go to sleep. This morning, I had a dream about my ex boyfriend's baby brother. In this dream me and him were just walking and talking. We did not kiss or make love, it was just a dream of getting to know each other a little bit more. We was boyfriend and girlfriend in this dream. It was like in this dream, I was hoping that he would kiss me. He was telling me that that it is very sad that my husband has never taken any pictures with me while we have been married. He says that he can't understand this. He had his head down and he was shaking his head too while he said this to me. In reality he is a single man, and I am a married woman. But there is just this strange feeling that I have about him. I feel like deep down inside he is very attracted to me. I feel this way because of the friendly conversations that I have had with him. He is really nice and respectable to me, although he can be wild with others. When it comes to me, he is very sweet and kind. This dream is really disturbing my conscience about him and I want to know should I tell him about this dream or not. I would like to tell him, but I don't want to feel out of line because of this dream. I personally believe that this dream meant something. Yes, I have dated his brother in the past, and he is married to a woman now. I just don't know why I feel like he feels attracted to me in reality, like he is in this dream that I have had.
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11 responses
@misplacedbrit (69)
• Canada
15 Apr 11
I personally wouldn't tell him about this dream. Dreams are sometimes just that, and sometimes they are trying to tell us something, but they're never straightforward and easy to understand.
I would say to just observe for a little while and see what happens. Maybe the dream is a sign that you're missing something in your own married life, or this man has some qualities that you find lacking in your husband.
Do also take into account his feelings. How would he feel if you came to him with this dream? What if it causes a misunderstanding and he stops talking to you? How would you explain that to your husband? Would your husband be understanding if you told him about this dream?
There are so many possibilities that could arise from telling this man about your dream. Just be careful and think things through. Good luck.
@bounce58 (17385)
• Canada
12 Apr 11
I think it's just unresolved attraction that was not dealt with when you were still going out with his brother. Not sure though if it his attraction to you, or yours to him.
In any case, I wouldn't put much stock into it, as you are a married woman now. I just don't like a dream to lead you something you wouldn't like in the end.
@dpk262006 (58678)
• Delhi, India
10 Apr 11
Hello cream!
My observation says that it is figment of your imagination and it has nothing much to do with reality. I think it would be better just to enjoy the dream because only you can realise and feel your dream, other(s) may not understand the way you felt. However, final choice of disclosing the dream rests with you.
@celticeagle (168721)
• Boise, Idaho
9 Apr 11
Basically dreams are tryong to tell us something we need to know or they are trying to help us work things out. I wouldn't tell him you had this dream. I would observe for a period of time and see what is going on with him. Perhaps you are more attracted to him that you realize. You say he treats you well. Maybe you don't feel like you are getting as well treated by others and so you relate to him because he does.
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@Professor2010 (20162)
• India
10 Apr 11
Dear cream
That was a dream, some times dream reflct what we think, but since you are married, better to take things lightly and forget, it might cause disturbences in your happy married life..
Thanks for sharing
Enjoy life to fullest. Cheers.
BE HAPPY ALWAYS.
Professor ‘Bhuwan’. .
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@gianfaye (52)
• Philippines
9 Apr 11
You indicated that you didn't have romantic gestures with him on the dream right? You didn't kiss and all those stuff?
I guess maybe you are longing for a friendship, for some more good memories, or you just want to get along again, but without any romantic intentions.
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
8 Apr 11
cream may I gently remind you you have a real live husband so do not let this dream take you very far. s ure maybe he is attracted to you and in the dream as workinggurl said you might wish your real husband had some of this friend's traits. but the fact is in real life hes only a good
friend. Do be fair to your husband as he cannot compete with dream friends
who in dreams are always way nicer than in reality.Dreams usually are much better than reality sadly.Maybe its time to refresh all the good
qualities you see in your husband versus those you do not like.it
might just surprise you.
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@jitendrakbharai (32)
• India
10 Apr 11
Hi,
A dream is just a dream.Forget about it and just get on with life.
jitendra
@Jilly0321 (7)
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8 Apr 11
WOW, this is crazy because I recently had a similar dream. In my dream I was hanging out with a guy I used to be very good friends with. We did almost sleep together years ago but he stopped it for some reason. In my dream we were just about to sleep together when my daughter woke me up. I to am married and I felt the same thing that you feel, I had to have had this dream for a reason. Although I discussed this with one of my good friends and she said something that made sense to me. You could have had this dream just because you maybe feel like your missing something in your marriage. Since he was saying that its sad that your husband doesnt take pictures with you then that could be what your missing and the reason he came to you in your dream is because you two always had good conversations. Hope this helps you.
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@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
8 Apr 11
Just simply guessing because I am not really great with dream interpretation. But somehow I feel that in life he is a really sweet and caring person, one who you completely enjoy sharing friendly and platonic friendship. Perhaps deep down you wish you had some of the caring features he has given to you.
In other words not that you are hoping to be with him per se but that you wished somehow you could received some of his good qualities from someone such as from our husband and not that your husband is bad in anyway but maybe an area you would like to see given to you more.
Absolutely nothing wrong with wishing some areas from our partners to be a bit different.
@dlemza (47)
• South Africa
9 Apr 11
Dreans are difficlt to interpret. There are people who do that better than any of us. Generally dreans are just that, dreams. It might be that you are attracted to the way he speaks to you, and the way he behaves towards you. He shows deep respect for you than others. He might be admiring you a lot. On the other hand, he might be just respecting your ex in his absence, as they are brothers. It will not look right to the peolpe, but you can tell him about it. Hope he will see as you do. Now you tell him and then what? Will start a relationship with him? One wonders what it will do to the three of you. Hope for the best.
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