Why do you think that a husband would want to get into the shower with his wife?
By cream97
@cream97 (29086)
United States
April 8, 2011 9:16pm CST
I am just looking for reasonable answers here. Forget that it is me, cream97 asking this question. I already have my answer of my own. I just need to hear of your answers. About two months ago, I was taking a shower. And to my surprise, my husband came into the bathroom and he took all of his clothes off, and he stepped into the shower with me. I shall not say what happened next, because I am sure that you adult myLotter's already know the answer to that, already. So, I want to know what is really behind the urge of a man stepping into the shower with his wife? Me and my husband have been married for nine years and this is the first time that he has ever gotten into the shower with me before. I have enjoyed the experience, it has always been one of my fantasies that I have craved for, for so many years. I guess on that day my dreams finally became reality.
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19 responses
@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
9 Apr 11
Good for him, it's about time he got in there. Look at all the fun y'all have been missing. Bet it want be the last time he does it.
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@dpk262006 (58678)
• Delhi, India
10 Apr 11
Hi Cream!
It is interesting to hear your 'secret', which you coolly shared with your friends here. I think taking showers together is a great source of connecting and having some real fun. Falling water adds extra excitiment to the two human bodies. Human body temperature is around 98.4 centigrade and if the water is slightly colder than the human body temperature then it gives a feeling of rejuvenations and makes us feel refreshed. Hope you will not miss any opportunity to have a shower with your dear hubby in future too.
Keep enjoying!
@scarlet_woman (23463)
• United States
16 May 11
if he hadn't done it before,he probably saw it on tv or something,and thought the idea looked interesting.that's usually where they get ideas from.
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@sashakiddo (1102)
• United States
9 Apr 11
Me and my boyfriend always shower together. I guess it has become a habit, and it seems a bit different from your experience. With me it is just normal, and its more a matter of saving water and participating in an innocent activity together.
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@thinkingoutloud (6127)
• Canada
9 Apr 11
Apparently, it has been a fantasy that your husband has been craving too, not just you :)) He finally decided to go ahead and try it and that's great! If you have been holding on to that fantasy for years, I'm curious why you never talked about it with your husband before... did he know that was something you wanted?
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@celticeagle (168126)
• Boise, Idaho
9 Apr 11
I guess I am alittle surprised. I have showered with my husband many times. I was even hurt afew times when he didn't want to. Everyone is different. I can't believe you two have been married for so long and you haven't just jumped in with him or vice versa long before this. I hope it was a good experience and that you do so again often.
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@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
9 Apr 11
i used to love that. I once had a hubby that did that often. but for some reason, i couldnt convince my last one to do it just as for play. anyway, he would say he liked the water to hot for me, etc.
@sender621 (14893)
• United States
9 Apr 11
He may be looking for a little more than just showering. It may be his way of looking to please his wife and being a little creative in his expression. What can bring a couple together more sexually and intimately than a few moments in the shower together?
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@missavri (8)
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9 Apr 11
there aint nothing like old good loving.its like the smaller bedroom with a lot of water!...ladies got the skins of seals.so slippery and S?..S?...S?...
the men have their PENs..s slithery? like snakes....the effect can only be afterwards told by he two....(good number?!)
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@rahulkhanna23 (6)
• India
9 Apr 11
the feelings great.... u wid ur loved 1 in shower....
hands wrapped around and u enjoying d steam and ur partners body
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@Gothicana (458)
• United States
9 Apr 11
Wow I am really wondering,but I hope you exuse that.I still forget that i am in the united states so I am really sorry about my horror english.
Till 2007 i lived in germany then i found my dad here and moved.
But I still have a hard time here.
In germany we used to talk about our fantasy so we can live that out.
I am a very open person and when i moved over here I met my now hubby and i told him about my wishes and fantasy.
And here it seems to be a secret.
Well I better come the your point,I am not a man so I dont know really how they are thinking but I trained my hubby pretty good to speack about his feelings and when we take a bath or a shower together he showes me that i am still attractive to him and it sure gives some other reasons why they are doing that.But he would not go under the shower with you when you would not attraktive for him .I hope you can understand my wired english greetings Goth
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@OpinionatedLady (5965)
• United States
9 Apr 11
I think that in every marriage one or the other will do things to spice up the relationship. Sometimes a little something different can be romantic, or fun! No one wants to have a stale love life. I think perhaps you are lucky to have a husband who is willing to make the effort to keep things fresh. Mine is also like that and I appreciate him all the more when I hear friends complain about their spouses and the lack of imagination in that aspect. So kudos to you and your husband and hears to a few more delightful encounters!
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
9 Apr 11
Quite understandable and fun to say the least!
I would say that it is done simply to enjoy one another and spice up the romance and intimacy between the two, would be his intentions. Absolutely nothing wrong with that, when two loving people who love each other want to spice up and experiment, I say go for it. lol
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@neenie (343)
• United States
9 Apr 11
My boyfriend has done this loads of times and I've done it to him. And we've been together for 8 years, but hey the spark is still there! But I think the answer is obvious, why he would want to step into the shower with you.. you should have told him your fantasies before ;)
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@Mayuko (1268)
• United States
4 Jul 12
I think there is pretty much only 2 reasons a man would get in the shower with his wife. First...well, I think that one is obvious
And the only other thing I can think of is, he's is a hurry to get ready to go somewhere and he can't wait for his wife to get out of the shower