Well i am too much confused over the defination of love ,well i have reasons
By gurubhai
@gurubhai (79)
India
April 9, 2011 1:55am CST
I mean ,i thought love cannot happen at first sight ,i am married and i have known my girl since last 2 yrs ,so now i can tell that i definately love her ,but at first sight there can be only liking ,no love ,thats not possible ,b'coz to love someone u need to know them from inside out ,and that can never happen at first sight ,and i do not deny the fact that people only find their true love only once ,b'coz in my case i am already in love with another women ,though i love my wife ,but i love my other girl too ,so am confused how my heart works ,on the funnier side check out the pic ,the engagement ring of an engineer.
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@GloomCookieLex (6073)
• United States
9 Apr 11
Love absolutely can happen at first sight. I myself fell in love at first sight so i know for a fact how very real it is.
Why did you even get married if you weren't already in love with the woman who is now your wife? Sounds to me like you rushed into marriage way too fast before you were certain of it and now you just feel obligated to love her.
@r0ck_r0ck (1952)
• India
9 Apr 11
Can you explain how you are so certain that it wasn't a mere liking and a definite love on the 1st sight. Cause really i dont get it, you cant love someone you dont even know. unless your definition for love is something different :o
@maytrina (20)
• Philippines
10 Apr 11
love really is many a splendore things. more of the affection and the intimate pleasures, it really involves a great deal of devotion and commitment. you may wake up one day that you suddenly realize that you dont love your partner any more, but still your together because you've decided to keep each other..and that's the essence of the vows you've spoken on your wedding day..
@r0ck_r0ck (1952)
• India
9 Apr 11
Yah love at first sight is just a metaphor i guess, Its the liking that happens at first and if you are lucky enough, you convert that whole thing to love after some time. Love requires knowing, you can't love someone that you don't know and its not possible to know someone at first sight therefore not possible to fall in love at first sight either.
@starsailover (7829)
• Mexico
9 Apr 11
Hi gurubhai: I think love is a process. You have to build your relationship and you also need to fight for the sake of this relationship. Love is not something we can have for sure. It's possible to love two different persons at the same time but you need to think about this complicated relationships to put in order your ideas and know what of these two persons, your girl or your wife you love the most. If you love someone you'll try not to hurt her and I think one of them would suffer at some moment when she felt betrayed. Love is hard I know.
ALVARO
@blackscrumpy (152)
• Philippines
9 Apr 11
Dude, love does happen at first sight.. at least that's what I think so too..
I met my girlfriend in a rock gig when I was in college. I was on the guitar while she was on the drums. Immidiately after that gig I courted her, and now we've been going steady for 4 years. =)
Well, going back to your case, I think your true love is really your wife. Why is that so? because even if you said you 'love' this second woman, you still love your wife. That says it all, the feeling is still there. Because if you truly 'love' this second woman, you wouldnt care for your wife anymore. but you do.
Although I think 2 years of knowing her is a bit too short. Why not know your wife a lot better, then maybe you will fall in love back to her again, maybe even more?
Whatever path you choose, good luck to you!
