Spying on your partner
By fefe76
@fefe76 (9)
April 9, 2011 8:56am CST
Technology has developed and we have got smartphones. Now you can track every move,sms and voice call of your partner, children or employee. But spying on partner could be a lack of security in a relationship. And could even break it. Why can we not end the relationship if we are not happy? The worse thing is to come to a point of cheating. Better end it? or stay and suffer, keep spying and don't have peace of mind!!!
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8 responses
@Oldsix691418 (3872)
• China
10 Apr 11
If you wnat to spy on your partner,you must bring your relationship to the end.You'd better break up instead of spying.
@sender621 (14893)
• United States
9 Apr 11
It might ease your own conscience to spy on your partner. It would definitely violate any bonds of trust you may have with that person. It would have to be a crucial step and absoloutely necessary before i would spy on my partner and feel good about doing it.
@sashakiddo (1102)
• United States
9 Apr 11
Sometimes it seems there are two kinds of people in the world: those who trust, and those who don't.
I am the type who doesn't trust others. It seems to me that when someone says, "you have to trust me" it means they really have other ideas of the future in mind. I wonder if trusting a partner is about giving that person the permission to experiment so that they can find out what they really like in life. I wonder if it is a sign that the person wants other things.
The only times I have "trusted" a partner is when I didn't really care to commit in the first place. I was fine with them experimenting with others because I didn't really think about the future. I was capable of living without them, so I gave them freedom.
@fenirose (46)
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9 Apr 11
the first thing in a relationship in to trust each other if that exist in a relationship there is no need to spy on each other. but there is a proverb which says "confidence does not exclude control". so i think it is opt to anyone to do it or not depending on the kind of relationship you are in.
@ssebrinatw (175)
• United States
10 Apr 11
I completely agree. I feel if you have to spy it's because either you are paranoid, insecure, or maybe you are having guilt over something you did. I say if you suspect something, plain flat out ask them. If they say no, leave it at that and give the benefit of the doubt. If it gets too bad, and you really really think they are doing something on, you need to move on even if they aren't because there is no trust left in that relationship and it won't get any better in that case.
@melvelasco (356)
• Philippines
9 Apr 11
I am not planning to spying on my partner, you're right spying our partner it means we're not happy with a relationship... If this could happen in a relationship a little problem could be more worse.
@hazeljoymilloria (44)
• Philippines
9 Apr 11
Yah! that's really true.. technology has gone way too far already and it can already do the things that is almost impossible. Well, spying on your partner only shows that you have no trust on him/her. And Trust is the most important ingredient for a relationship to grow and last long. If trust is gone then Love will also disappear. Worst is the relationship will be broken and end up tragically.
