is single better than comitted life?
By kajal1992
@kajal1992 (354)
India
April 10, 2011 2:33am CST
this is the question for those who are committed, is being single better than committed life? generally after not satisfying with love life or got hurt from love then people says never fall in love, love is so painful? is this true
9 responses
@GloomCookieLex (6073)
• United States
11 Apr 11
Neither is better or superior to the other. Every person and every situation is completely unique and individual. For some people, being single and wild is the best way to live, they would never want to be committed to one person or one thing. For some people, being in a long-term committed relationship is the greatest gift in life, they are not at all interested in running amok. Neither is "right" and neither is "better". They are only different.
@NIECIE21 (365)
• United States
10 Apr 11
I fully disagree with this. Being in love is one of the most amazing feelings ever. To know that you are with someone who will support you and love you through everything that you will face, is awesome. While it is true that if the other person decides to end the relationship it hurts, but it is better to go through that than to stay in a relationship that is not going anywhere.
@gelayagui98 (1336)
• Australia
12 Apr 11
Committed is varies with marriage, it is not good to just stay single because you will be needing a family, a love ones to love you and stay at your side even when you're already have gray hairs. A family that you can called it your own. Love is counterpart of sacrifices and sufferings so don't afraid to it find someone that shares you you're laughters and sorrows, relationship is more stronger when you passed through all of these.
@Sydalg242811 (380)
• Baguio, Philippines
12 Apr 11
Halu kajal,
when the word COMMITTED stated ,it comes to our mind is MARRIAGE. and there are many ways of marriage,being in love,cultural beliefs, and arranged marriage.but if we are talking about love,LOVE the roots of commitment to marry someone you love. in my own opinion and experience it depends;i'd rather go for commitment,IF,the relationship not will be going into ruined,my partner love me faithfully as i do,2x -5x forgiveness too much and he will promise to change.he will care and love much his children,and he will be responsible,becoz he committed to me and build a family he should dedicate his self as a FAMILY MAN..if NOT,i'd rather go for being single or stay as a single MUM,than going to stay with him, than my life is going to be worst and worst everyday, to protect my children's reputation.than always fighting in front of our children.
if we can't go on to save our marriage,it's better to talk to separate each other first,we have to start again from the beggining,but if doesn't work, we should stay as a friend and stay single parents.
in our society,this kind of situations is very open and acceptable.than have a rowdy and complicated family.
thanks kajal
GOD BLESS
@doidgesidhuonline (55)
• Canada
10 Apr 11
Absolutely not. Being in a committed relationship is incredibly rewarding. Think of being able to be with your best friend each and every day - the one person who knows you best, treats you the best, makes you feel the best about yourself. Love is painful at times, even in a committed relationship, but it's totally worth it.
Furthermore, if a relationship broke down and you were hurt, hopefully you learned from your mistakes and can be even better in the future.
@gabriel_gao (14)
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10 Apr 11
I have to say that I can't agree with you.As a man,love is a wonderful thing that we can enjoy.Although it may be painful,love is still a thing that we need.With a lover,we can face everything together.That's we can enjoy in our whole life I think.
@urbandekay (18278)
•
10 Apr 11
Being married is preferable to being single.
Being single is preferable to being in a committed relationship
that is my opinion
all the best urban
@kheydia (882)
• Philippines
10 Apr 11
Well, being single is having a good life without commitments, without responsibility less challenges, and less problems, it is just an easy life for me not worrying anything except myself..Being married is very stressfull and full of challenges it is not and easy life, but it is the way we can learned and progressed as and individual,it is the way we can become a better person, when you are married you can see life differently. for me it is the way i can acquire genuine happiness in life
@abatencila (970)
• Philippines
10 Apr 11
I guess being committed is far better than being single. When you are committed, you have someone to share your dreams in life, your views, a great companion. It is okay to be single but I wanted to spend my life with someone worth loving for.