Do you say I love you to your significant other or loved ones daily?
By Michelle
@infatuatedbby (94914)
United States
April 10, 2011 11:53pm CST
Do you say, "I love you" to your significant other or loved ones daily?
I don't because I think if you say I love you and overuse it, it'd be meaningless. My boyfriend and loved ones know I love them regardless of me telling them. My boyfriend, he doesn't say I love you often but I do know he loves me and when he DOES say it, it just melts my heart and it feels as if we just dated & makes me have butterflies in my tummy. Even though we've been together for over 4 years :P
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16 responses
@infatuatedbby (94914)
• United States
15 Apr 11
Yeah I don't do it either but its nice to reassure sometimes :)
Thanks for sharing!
@chickimmy (44)
• Philippines
11 Apr 11
When I was still in a relationship, I say "I love you" everyday every morning when I wake up.
@mermaidivy (15394)
• United States
11 Apr 11
I don't say that daily or rarely actually, not that I don't love my husband ofcourse but I just don't say it often, he says it to me sometimes but not always either. It is not a culture for us to say it, I don't remember hearing my dad or my mom ever said it to each other.
@infatuatedbby (94914)
• United States
13 Apr 11
I see! My parents don't either, its in our culture too!
@kukueye (1759)
• Malaysia
11 Apr 11
When i was courting the girlfriend initially and while making love for the first few times, yes i will mention the love your thingie, but after sometime like few years later, i did not mention it anymore since it is dry and already mentioned and it will be tasteless and no emotion with that sentences so better not mention it scare it will be mistaken for being fake.I guess maybe the relationship has dried out.Haha.
@almairah0730 (62)
• Philippines
11 Apr 11
Just read your post and it perk my interest. Me and your boyfriend have the same opinion in saying I love you. We tend not to overuse it because for me, if you kept on using the word it became meaningless. I remember my boyfriend. he kept on telling me how much he loves me, and he overused the words..I told him, it's not bad to say I love you but if you don't feel it don't overuse it. Nah, when I want to hear those magic words from him... he refused to let me hear it, and I really regretted it. Because I don't know if he still loves me. I was afraid because our relationship was really tested that time. So, I was really hoping that he would tell me that he still love me, but to no avail.. I didn't hear it. Until, we overcome our problem in our relationship... he told me not to stop him from telling me that he loves me... from then on and until today we both exchange our I love you's. And this brings me assurance that I only own his heart :)
@infatuatedbby (94914)
• United States
14 Apr 11
That's really nice :) It all depends on people. I know that my boyfriend loves me even if he doesn't say it daily. But if he likes to, then go for it :)
Thanks for sharing!
@annierose (21571)
• Philippines
11 Apr 11
hi infatuatedby,
I always say the "I love you" to my significant other whenever I have the chance to say it. We are in a long distance relationship for more than 3 years now. We recently had our break up but not because we no longer love each other but because of some misunderstanding. My boyfriend and I are always busy with work and because of that we cannot talk as much as we want to. That is why every time that I have a chance to talk to him I tell him how much I love him. Now that we are back with each other once again, I feel our love grows stronger. Although, there are still days in which we do not talk at all, but in our heart, we understand we belong with each other.
@infatuatedbby (94914)
• United States
13 Apr 11
Thanks for sharing and I'm glad you and your boyfriend are better now. :)
@sender621 (14893)
• United States
11 Apr 11
I try to always say i love you to the one i love on a dailoy basis. You never know when that moment may come when you won't be able to say it. i don't want any regrets beacause i didn't say something when i should.
@sweet_pea (3322)
• Philippines
11 May 11
Well not on a daily basis, but my husband says that too me more often than I do. Sometimes I surprise him, buy sending him an SMS message with the words "I love you" during working hours. I prefer to say them in actions but sometimes I also say it in words since there are just some words that needs to be said and assures our partner that we value them a lot.
@gelayagui98 (1336)
• Australia
11 Apr 11
Oh, saying I love you is part of our daily activities with my kids, especially my youngest son, before he go out in play with his playmates, he hug me and say I love you, take care.... and when he returned from playing he say it again and added I miss you. Before we sleep at night, I often say I love you kids, good night same thing in the morning.
@martha0430 (211)
• Philippines
11 Apr 11
ooohhh that was sweet of the two of you =} yeah you are right, sometimes if you say it everyday, it feels like you just have to say it not because you want to say it. but me and my husband makes it a point that everytime we say 'iloveyou', it should be with feelings =D and sealed with a kiss :*
@infatuatedbby (94914)
• United States
13 Apr 11
Thanks for sharing :)
Yeah, when we do we make a point too so we don't over use it!
@masang (295)
• Philippines
12 Apr 11
Yes I do say "I love you" daily especially to my kids. That's one way of assuring them that I really take care and love them. I do believe that words are powerful especially if you utter them daily to your loved ones. It can change person's lives if it is done heartily.
@mog7777777 (18)
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12 Apr 11
i always say "i love you" to my fiancee everyday... i do it because i want my fiancee always remember that no matter what happen in the future.. i always love her.. even though she get bored to hear it everyday..
@dab0503 (26)
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12 Apr 11
Yes, i do really say " i love you " to my one and only wife specially every morning before going to work to make her feel great and comfortable each day when i leave home. Upon saying " i love you " a passionate kiss follows as a lucky charm to have a successful day ahead.