Leeteukwifey: I was their emotional support how about you?
By Leeteukwifey
@Leeteukwifey (42)
Philippines
April 11, 2011 1:02am CST
i knew i have my own problems in life but there is always some people who needs a helping hand and a heart that understand i got 4 friends 2 boys and 2 girls... the 2 of them lost their father and the other lost her mother at the young age while the other can't accept his real father. But i focused on the girl who lost his father because her life was totally meaningless her father didn't tell her that the mother that she was with now is not the real one, she cried when her father died because she don't know how to find her real mother only 2 of her relatives knew who's the real one but they intend not to tell her. She was been trying to be patient but her mistress and her step sister made her life even miserable, i just thank God she was a God fearing person that she tries to follow everything they want her to do. It was like a story of cinderella almost! i was already praying that i could help her get out of that house for she is not treated well... She even stopped studying two times only to find out that 10 months is left before she graduates in her two year course... All she wants in her life is to finish studying but there is always been a hindrance for that simple dream to come true... I was her shoulder to cry on same with the others, so i stayed on their side no matter how cruel they were treated...
Have you experienced this? can you handle a friend who is undergoing incompleteness in his/her life? What will you do for them?
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@ruperto (1552)
• Philippines
12 Apr 11
Interesting.
Dhyan Vimal suggests that we are the "determiner" of what we "see in this world." Perhaps if we feel that much have been deprived of us or much wrong has been done to us, we can avoid feeding negative feelings.
I recently say to my self: "There are bad things that may come to our lives. Sometimes we are resentful for some of these." But in the final analysis, "we are all in pain" [quoted from Radio Veritas 846Khz Manila]
It seems, when we see the suffering in the world, we "determine" how we will feel and therefore, we determine how we will react. perhaps the key is to know that we have a choice to feel bad, good or feel neutral about anything that happens to us.
It seems those who have so much of good happening in their lives will be at risk of being "desensed" to further happiness. (why?) When we are in a state of happiness too long, the mind and heart becomes numb and unable to feel happiness further ...
Perhaps we best realize that there is no perfect situation in life, even for those who seem to have it all :)
What do you think ?
