Marry problem is increasing day by day

Now in our country,both boys and girls are well educated, 'cause law only admit that one family has only one child in city, so girl or boy are same in parent's heart. when marry, boy buys a house(here house is the biggest consumption) and decorates it, girl buys furniture, and if her family is rich, her parents may buy a car for their marriage gift. it seems beautiful, but girls always dream marry to a prince charming with much money, they can spend money as their wish, so boys struggle a lot to make money.

It is not just in India that there are problems w/marriage. I don't think marriages last like they use to, too easy to get out of them here.

Well, i think one's thought and viewpoints will change as he or she get more eduction, has improvement in social status. Sometimes it is a sign of advance of the whole society. Take my country for example. In the old time, there are fewer couples who divorce with each other. And women were asked to obey their husbands, so they didn't think they were unfair or oppose. They just take it as their fate. I don't think this kind of peace in marriage is good. While, in recent decades, so many things changes. People become less serious about their marriages. There are more and more divorces. And some divorced just only few months, sometimes only some days after their marriage. So many kids live with a single parent. Which is harm to their mental and physical development. Is it good for the society? No, well, i think marriage is an important thing in our life, we can't be more serious on this issue.

See my friend..i'm not Indian but i agree with you. i care so much for the education ..in my opinion man and woman in marriage have to be near in their way of think,concepts of life,education and family background. Big difference between them makes big gap in their communication.And we can't forget the point of money ,no need to be that much rich but at least normal.

its true but in many communities in india men are more educated than girls but boys preffer smart and good looking girl to be thier life partner than educated girls and not only about marrage but jobs is the main problem of india but it is going down as a aspect of problem for india and corruption is getting on top

Hmmmm i can understand what you are saying because i have been watching my own parents and all my cousins parents 'searching' for the right person in all places they can! in temples, newspapers, websites etc etc LOL and i also know the different 'must haves' that they look out for and education is the top....but some of cousins had love marriages recently and i feel they are the only happy couple they did go against all customs and married for love but the ones who married after 'matching' every criteria are kind of happy too but no spark! the love marriage ones are so happy its fun being around them :) they spread love and warmth....the arranged marriage ones are more the 'responsible' types who always want to give you advise :)

Dear friend, As an Indian may be Bharathian I feel my self ashamed whenever I come to know these unhealthy things. The mail reasons for family collusions I feel are given below A law in India does not suit culture here Education has become business and students are just materials Family values are not shared much in nuclear families Family members are mostly busy and tried Media and other channels that projects life far away from reality Courts are just Multi National Companies no justice for those who no money to invest Parents attitude at times to their children Values in life like tolerance, patience, love, affection, sharing, helping etc are vanishing Selfishness Practical life and theoretical life (life before and after love) No proper channels nor mediators for solving these family problems I feel India which use a thrown away colonial law and rule is moving to a western culture, this would be only way for the coming generation to go ahead.

Who wants to be with a dummy? Lol just kidding. Education is important but you don't have to have a degree or go to school to be educated. If you can't afford to go to school and get degree you can still educate yourself. You can go to the library and read books on any topic. Common sense goes a long way. There are some people with degrees but they are still dumb as a box of rocks. Having a degree means something but it isn't everything.

hi this is a sticky problem also forget good looking as thats not a good criterion on choosing a good mate. is he or she intelligent, and yes is he or she educated as it is pure hell for an educated woman to meet and marry a man who in uneducated and usually uncouth too. I think parents in India want the same thing as parents anywhere else, happiness and a good marriage for their daughters.I think good looks should not be in this mix at all, as not all good men are handsome but most good men are handsome inside where it counts.business men are seldom uneducated surekharathi, they would not be able to stay in business if they were not educated and intelligent.Not all educated men have problems getting jobs as uneducated ones do too. What parents should want for their daughters are kind, compassionate, intelligent men who will treat their wives with utmost respect. i am not Indian but american and parents do not choose our mates here but parents here like parents in yo ur county want the best for their daughters and education really does help to get anywhere in life.

hello friend, In general,of course parents always wanted their kids to have a good life. So,when it comes to marriage,they always wanted the best for their kids. But then again,here in our country...it's the concern's choice. Thu some youngsters has this "practical mind" yes,it is called "be practical". When they say "practical marriage or be practical" it means,someone marry for convenience,for money reasons and not LOVE. And,it's not common here in our country...but now,some people do that...get married and be practical. They marry rich people no matter if he/she is educated as long as the person is rich and have money. But still...mosts of marriages here are all about Love...not money or education or business. Education,money or business are just optional... Parents can give advice,suggest...and even forced their kids to marry rich/business man...but if their kids won't agree...parents can't do anything. Have a good day always

Most of the parents view is that their daughter should live happily and for that they will do whatever they can do. This is the sum total of all parental thoughts. Mean time, they will consider few things as well like, star (kindali), family, education, wealth, health etc. Some would give equal preference to the above all and then only go for the fixing of the marriage. In my office also there are 2 girls with the sir name of Maheshwari and both got married to higher educated people (CAs and they are in the senior manager posts and drawing approx. 2.5 lakhs in a month). These girls are known to me and when I gone for their wedding also, they found good in rich and cultured. However, we know that the population in India and the life here also. Just only very minority people are able to go for a better and self determined marriage and the rest all are destined with their fate and luck. So, we cannot always link the way you said, and in these days, marriages are nightmare to the parents. All are unwanted expenses. In the next week my niece's wedding is there and they are doing the preparation for the last one year. I know how much pain and troubles each parents having arrange for a better alliance for the marriage and the after effects of the same. Yesterday, we all (my daughter and wife) went out for a small shopping and while we were talking she was telling 'mera shadi register marriage karke de do' (do my marriage only as a registered marriage and I don't want to waste the money. Even the child of 12 years thinking about the wastage of money on weddings and such occasions. All those who have money, they will spend and those who have no money also try to do the way how others do and live debt life for the rest of life. Thank-s

well,if i am a girl,i will choose a man with standerd education.as to the business,not a necessity.well ofcourse,he must have the desire to advance.yes,he should be the one that gives me hapiness.