Trust is necessary to live happy life
By smilywomen
@surekharathi (14146)
India
April 11, 2011 12:54pm CST
Dear Friend
Trust is a key of happiness. I think this is the only way you can live a happy and satisfied life. Do you trust other people? Can other people trust you? And finally, do you trust God?
These all three questions are necessary for your life without these your life will be off-balance. Married life is also depend upon trust if you are doubt on every time on your partner then married life can be spoiled.
Your all relations is also depend upon trust otherwise relations may be breaks. Put your valuable response about this.
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20 responses
@kukueye (1759)
• Malaysia
12 Apr 11
YEs trust is important in any relationship whether with love,parents or working places. Beside that compability is also important.Trust means will not do something that will hurt the other partners and also being honest when it is required and not too direct when not required , i guess honesty does not been being disrespectfully.Like honesty speaking your are getting too fat and not attractive anymore.That is honest but very blunt.
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@surekharathi (14146)
• India
12 Apr 11
Wow! good you are saying true trust is important in any relationship whether with love,parents or working places. I like your response therefore I am rated you my friend
@anil02 (24688)
• India
12 Apr 11
Surekha ji what is happiness? Your wealthy position in happiness, your qualified is happiness, you are beautiful/handsome, it is happiness, you have reliable friends it is happiness, you have good job it is happiness or you have happy married it is happiness. The above are some cause of happiness. You compare all of these you find that married life give you real happiness. Because in married life your sacrifice for your partner and partner for you. You accept your partner with his shortcomings and your partner yours. Why, this the only and only reason is the trust between you. You believe in each other. This relation give you real happiness and relation based on trust
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
12 Apr 11
Yes friend this is true I accept my partner with his shortcomings and my partner also accept me with some shortcomings and this only the reason this is the trust between us. Really if both the parties are trust on each other then they can love happy life.
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@leateagee (3667)
• China
12 Apr 11
TRUST is a very big word in my family. To be trusted is to show trust. My mom trusts me because I built trust on her and assurance that I will be trusted for whatever actions I will do in regards to my life. I cannot say if people can trust me, its up to them because I don't trust all people. In case I'll be married, I wish my partner and I will have a trusting relationship. I agree that trust in a relationship is a key to happiness. Its also realistic that if we found the truth it hurts, it is better to know that we are human who makes mistakes. We are all bound to make mistakes and learn to accept our real us. No one is perfect!
@leateagee (3667)
• China
13 Apr 11
Thanks for the friendship and hopefully will be joining interesting topics in your discussions. =)
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
12 Apr 11
Nice friend your mom trusted on you because she knows you cannot do any such activity from this break their trust. Thanks to your valuable response
@bellis716 (4799)
• United States
13 Apr 11
You posed some good questions, then, you answered them. I agree with you that trust is most important in any relationship, in a person's relationship with God, with his spouse, in a business relationship, and with his fellow man in general. I would that business deals could again be sealed with just a handshake.
@lowland123 (142)
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13 Apr 11
Trust is a good thing .Especially to a business relationship ,trust is the base .
@justit (74)
• China
12 Apr 11
hi surekharathi,
We live depend on trust, i do believe that. It's an important factor for us to live a happy life. Trust others and other people trust you, it likes a balance. A suspicious person will not only lose confident, but also doubt others and then lose them. It exists in marriage, classmates, work partner and other fields.
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
12 Apr 11
Yes this is true a suspicious person will not only lose confident, but also doubt others and then lose them. Nice response friend short but good.
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
14 Apr 11
Ohhhhh thanks to agree with me really believe my friend if where there is no trust then you cannot maintain long life and strong relationship. Without trust you on one love their partner and remember doubt is lost the life only. Thanks for response.
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
11 Apr 11
hi surekharathi yes indee you have the key as without trust marriages break up and fail, and relationships in families becomne bitter
and unhappy. I have always trusted my husband when he was alive
as he proved to be a man of his word now as a widow I have
the same trust in my adult son and he has complete trust.I have always
prided myself as being trustworthy and p eople do trust me explicitly. I trust only people I know I can trust. its foolish to trust those hwom you do not know anything about.
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
12 Apr 11
Yes this is not good if you dont know anyone then you cannot trust on such new persons but at least our family members trust is necessary. Ohhhhhh what was happen to your husband and how many years you living without him.
@wongchoiyee (7413)
• Malaysia
12 Apr 11
I think that is important too when you are working, you have to trust your colleagues and bosses who delegate work to you. And on the other hand they should trust you for the work you will be doing. That is what makes a good working relationship environment in an office.
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
12 Apr 11
Yes absolutely right my friend trust is necessary on your colleagues and bosses who delegate work to you and this is important to making strong relationship with your boss in an office. But not only trust is necessary in office but also it is necessary in your home because with trust you cannot live happy life with your partner. Thanks to put your valuable response.
@eurekafemme (5876)
• Philippines
12 Apr 11
Hello.:)
I do agree that in order to have a happy life one must live a life that is peaceful, not just outwardly but also inwardly. Meaning, we must have that inner peace within us. But, how can we do have inner peace when our spirit and heart is covered with doubts and insecurities?
Trust is very important. It is the only way to have a harmoniously relationship with anyone, without trust, everything seems in question that can create havoc in a relationship. Other than love, it is one of the things that must be present in every relationship.
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
13 Apr 11
Yes you are saying true trust is very important. It is the only way to have a harmoniously relationship with anyone, without trust, everything seems in question that can create havoc in a relationship. Thanks to put your valuable response.
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
17 Apr 11
In my opinion there is no type of relationship that can survive without trust. I also feel people should not be together if they cannot trust one another. I am one who gives all the benefit of the doubt and entrust, it is when they hurt me that I become leary and although I can be amicable I am one to not be able to trust again.
I am too much of a happy person not to be able to care and trust people, it is they later who may prove me wrong and or right. But I do all in my own power to remain as happy as I can.
@katie0 (5203)
• Japan
12 Apr 11
I think it's really important cause trust is like our home but in the feeling departament, if we know there is that someone we have it all, because we might feel lonely in this world many times in our lives, but when we remember but we have that person everything chages, it feels not everything is lost.
@edsss17 (4394)
• Philippines
12 Apr 11
Hi my friend,
I don't really trust easily. Because I am afraid some people might abuse it!
But as days pass by, I have learn to trust people around me and with me.. Nothing can bet how much I trust GOD! He is the one who always been with me in good times and bad! :)
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
13 Apr 11
Nice you are trusting on God because really God is with you in good or bad both the things. You are right my friend you should not easily trust on anybody other than your family members because the World is not good. So be careful.
@martinnshann (340)
• Bahrain
11 Apr 11
TRUST is one of the most important ingredient in every peoples' lives. You can't gain a peaceful and happy relationships without trust. Trust can provide a strong relationship. It should be gained not asked.
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
12 Apr 11
Yes friend this is true can provide a strong relationship. Without trust we cannot live together even they are husband or wife and mother or child because child's trust on mother is also necessary. Thanks to response.
@dab0503 (26)
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12 Apr 11
Not only that trust is a key of happiness, i think it also manifest love. As what the bible says " For God so love the world that he gave his only begotten son.... "
If you put your trust to a person , it also manifest your love say for example your wife. Whatever happens to her life good or bad , you must accept it because of love and trust. To other people you cannot just put your trust if you are not sure of yourself that you love her/him or not.
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
12 Apr 11
Ohhh this is right love is must but love developed when trust is developed. If you are not believing on the person then how can you love them. Thanks to response
@sunny5u (2069)
• India
12 Apr 11
Every relation depends on mainly a single word called TRUST , if you hurt someone then you can rectify by saying sorry but if you break the trust, then one can never believe you in your life, i trust my friends and my friends do that too.
@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
12 Apr 11
You hit the nail right on the head with this topic. We have to be trustworthy to people to have them take the innitiative to be trustworthy right back to us. If you cannot be trusted then you will never be able to trust people either.
@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
12 Apr 11
Without trust u don't have much of anything w/marriage , friends etc.I don't trust people like i use to i'm sorry to say. I hate it when i find out i can't trust people be it family, marriage , friends or what.
@thanks1961 (7035)
• India
12 Apr 11
I think we need not trust all with whom we do day to day activities. Also, I didn't mean that we should not keep trust to all also. All it depend on person to person and whenever we are in a deal with someone, we will get an intuition that how trustworthy the person is.
When we are in relationships, especially h/b & wife, we need trust as we are not living together for a year or two. It is the life time togetherness and the trust has its own importance for a better life. As I said earlier, all depend on person to person and it is life so that we have the right to live independently and have the option to live the way we like.
All are thinking that once we get married, we should keep a set of life patterns and live accordingly. I don't think it is needed and trust and liability and love are have connections and we need to maintain the same with proper proportions. I love and like my wife. It is true and it is a fact also. But if I love someone else and like somebody, I don't think it is a breach of trust. Also, for a better life the earlier way is suggestive, but if someone have some kind of out reach, it all depend on their view and life, we cannot blame them, because we have life only for once and it should not be surrendered to any one for any reasons.
Thank-s
@lowland123 (142)
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13 Apr 11
I think so.If a husband or wife doubt his wife or her husband,their marrage will be spoiled sooner or later.Firstly,marrage is two persons thing,trust is the most important.Secondly,we want to live a happy life forever,we must rely on the trust each other.