Are you good keeping secrets?

To be honest, I'm a blabbermouth so I'm not really good at keeping secrets. But I learned that when I write it on a journal where nobody can see but me, it makes me stop blurting the secrets I know.

I am not a good secret keeper and don't like when people tell me them because I can't tell anyone. It depends on the kind of secret. I don't like when people tell you something that is bad in their life and you feel like you need to help but they tell you not to tell anyone, I always find myself stressing over what to do. Just simple secrets, I would say I am not the best secret keeper because I don;t like being the only person that knows and always want to tell someone. I just tell my sisters and I know it won't go any further. Thank goodness for sisters!

When I was little I didn't know how to keep a secret .But in time I learned. Now I can keep a secret Very well. I agree, the best way to keep a secret is to forget about it. Don't let the subject bubble up to the surface.

hi starsailover! you've managed to learn the art of keeping secrets. hehe i'd rate myself as being good at keeping secrets (eversince i could remember) for as long as i don't have to lie. because i definitely suck at having to tell a lie so as much as possible i don't try. keeping secrets is like keeping the trust because that's how much it is worth. even to young kids, some secrets are sacred. for siblings, some secrets formed a pact. for others, some secrets are so vital, they hold a key to either success or ruin. when i was a kid, i was the guardian of my older sisters' secrets. secrets that if our parents had known, they would have been so mad at my sisters and myself included. but as a guardian of secrets, i held myself responsible too for whatever consequence the keeping of a secret will bring. and some secrets can bring stress that you just wanna shove it at the back of your mind and keep it there and try not to think about it. just as the way you keep yours. hehe as far as i know, i've kept all the secrets entrusted to me. fortunately, some secrets are not to be safeguarded forever. and it's quite a relief to be relieved of those secrets when the owners owned them back once more.

Hi Starsailover, When i was in a relationship i would tell almost anything to my girlfriend, except the ones i required to tell no one at any cost though. But i am glad that now i can keep everything to myself. I feel better that way, because i can be of help when some friends wanna share something with me that they don't want others to know and i don't tell that to anyone now. However, i have got a friend here at mylot, whom i can never trust with keeping anything to himself.

I use to be pretty horrible at keeping secret. Maybe it was because I loved to gossip, but now when people tell me secret, it's locked in tight in the back of my head. Usually if someone tells me a secret, I usually forget about it, but if it's like a huge secret, I might leak it to someone who does know that person. I sometimes feel guilty when people tell me their secrets, but also happy that they believe I am trustworthy enough to have secrets told to me.

Hi starsailover, believe or not I could say I'm a person which is good in keeping secrets. Due to this my friends are willing to share their secrets with me. but I had heard certain so-called secrets from others sometimes. Maybe some of them had told the same secret to people that can't keep their promise not to reveal it Happy posting

Very good, there are secrets that goes way back as more than ten years ago and the person even is not my friend. But by that time I said "I promise". I would hate if someone tell my secret, when I hate too much someone doing to me I can't do.

I am good at keeping secrets because I'm still keeping secrets about myself that I plan on taking with me to the end. I think its important to be able to trust someone. I've always been the stop, observe and listen type. Never been the run and tell it all type. So I still have secrets that a few friend told me that I've never told anybody else. Its not my job to one, be dishonest to my friend, two, talk about them behind their backs. Three I do believe in what goes around comes around. So I wouldn't share a secret about a friend then get mad when she shares secrets about me.

Well I would say Im pretty good at keeping secrets because most of them I totally forget about anyway lol. One way to keep your mind off of telling someone's secret is to think "Would I like it if someone did that to me" and another way is just to do something fun to get your mind off of it.

I would like to say YES I am good at keeping secrets, but it depends on what the secret is. If it is something very serious then YES I would keep my mouth completely shut. If its BS Gossip then I would have a hard time keeping my mouth shut. So I guess it all depends on what the secret is.

Hello friend, I too was the kind of the person who never kept any secrets within myself! Not that I wanted to spread things, but I thought that everyone around me are my friends and i need to tell them whatever i knew! I changed this attitude recently when one such a thing which had to be kept as a secret was told to others and it led to a small problem to one of my friend! I still regret for being such an Idiot! I wish i had realized this a little before! Good day!

I always good at keeping secrets. Because I fear of losing confidence. If someone shares an information and asked to keep secret we have to follow it. On believing only he would have disclosed it. We do not breach the trust and lose confidence.

you was would me do not keep secrets mentioned should not think about it you'r right

Im good with keeping secrets, and i dont feel guilty about it, actually i dont think there is something to feel guilty about, there are certain things that is not meant to share with everyone, like if i promise someone to keep a secret i do it off-course to the point where it doesnt effect someone negatively.

I'm pretty good at keeping secrets but I don't like to keep secrets I mean if a friend ask me not to tell somthing I won't, but I think keeping secrets can be bad depending on how serious the secret is, thankfully I don't have many secrets to keep.

Based on the fact that I really don't talk to a lot of people, I think that I am good at keeping secrets. Throughout my life I've been one of the people that my friends turn to when they need to get something out and there has never been a time that I've broken their trust. The reason that I don't talk about the secrets that people have told me is because of the fact that I wouldn't want them to talk about my secrets if I needed someone to share one with.

I won't brag about it, but if it is necessary, and it is an insistent request from my friend, I would definitely keep this secret myself, and not willing to tell anyone else. That is the basic promise you had for your friend, don't you? And I think we must keep it until the end.

For me I don't know if I am the one person you can trust about secret, because if I know that the secret matters need to patch up, I find ways to how it is resolved. But if it is really a secret that it is not complicated , I can kept it.

i never had a problem with keeping peoples secrets... i also thinks that is good to know what peoples hides on its back..