Bestfriend or GF/BF

April 11, 2011 8:18pm CST
If time ask you to choose between the two, who will you choose your bestfriend whom you know for so long or your gf/bf who brings color to your life?
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@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
4 May 11
I don't think you could really choose between the two people. I mean, they go hand-in-hand, or complement each other with you in the center. I don't think it's fair for one to choose over the other because they are of different categories. For one thing, the best friend also has a life of his/her own. He/she cannot be with you always. On the other hand, the boyfriend is a potential life partner, the one you'll go through a lot of things with. However, there will be topics which you cannot talk to your boyfriend about which you can with your bestfriend. Like, if the matter is about someone both of you have known before the boyfriend came to your life, it would be weird for you to ask advice from him without stating the whole story first. Well, for me, you just can't compare the two and neither should you choose between them.
• United States
14 Apr 11
i think i would chose the best friend as u don't know how love can be and u just keep breaking up with bf\gf but your best friend your not going to breakup with him\her as its like he is the rock that u lay on when life drifts you away into the unknown (wow that sounds cheesy right)
• Australia
12 Apr 11
if they both really care for you, I don't think either of them would/should ask you to choose. if one of them did, i would go with the one that did not. you do not want to be with any one who try's to control you weather in a relationship or a friendship.