Been hurt before?
By SugarMarie
@SugarMarie (35)
April 12, 2011 9:50am CST
Yes, this is really one of the saddest days of my life when someone broke my heart. Despite of all the things that I have done to him, the LOVE and all the effort, he just put all those things into waste. He just took me for granted. Maybe, we cannot deny the fact that many women are much better than me. However, that was long time ago. I have already moved on. He is now happy with his life. Of course, I also am living my life happily.
Having that kind of experience makes me feel stronger now. I did not end my life there. I really learned from that experienced and make it as a challenge for me to become successful with my studies.
And now, I already graduated and I also in a relationship now. I am very happy with life now. ^___^
If you were in my situation, how are you going to cope up with the pain of being in love and not being loved in return? instead, you are just taken for granted?
3 responses
@keishairvin (49)
• United States
12 Apr 11
Moving on is the hardest but time heals all wounds. Finding someone else to keep your mind off that person has always helped me in the past.
@SugarMarie (35)
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13 Apr 11
Yes. we don't really have a choice. we really have to move on and start a new life. We will just think that those things happen to you because we deserve someone better than that person. ^^
@feevjune1 (42)
• Philippines
12 Apr 11
That happened to me before. I was so in love with my bf that I forgot to love myself. There are times that we had plans of going to the mall. I was already dressed and then suddenly he called and said we would have to cancel our plan. It happened not only once. And i cried but then again I accepted him for that. But eventually, we broke up. It tore my heart and lost interest of my work. But then I meet an old friend who never stopped courting me even if I said no to him many times already. I gave him a chance. I took a few units in my masters degree. I was so happy that I gave that I gave that guy a chance coz he took care of me and make me very happy. After a few years came back to me and ask if we could give our relationship another chance. But I'm already happy with my present love. Sometimes there are things in life that we take for granted and we never realize their value until such time when they are already gone.
@SugarMarie (35)
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13 Apr 11
yes... most people can't really appreciate the worth of someone or something unless they are gone. That is one thing that we should be careful of.
@brianneleary19 (76)
• United States
12 Apr 11
It was REALLY hard for me when my ex ended things with me. I cared for him so much and I couldn't believe that he ended things with me out of nowhere. The week before everything seemed fine, so it was really random that he wanted to break things off. I couldn't help but remember all the good times we had, but at the same time, I remembered all the things he did that hurt me before we broke up. It made "getting over it" somewhat easier when you think about what your ex-lover did that you didn't appreciate and when you consider the reasons why they broke up with you or you broke up with them in the first place.
I think at that point he still had feelings for me, but I guess I was being too stressful for him, which now, I can understand how I was. There's nothing that can be done about it now, so I had really no choice but to move on. And now I'm in a relationship with someone else and have been for a little over a year now.
It was very hard to cope though. All you can really do is distract yourself.
