when is the right time to say "i do" ?

@heart4u (409)
Philippines
April 13, 2011 3:58am CST
when was the right time to get married? i've been in a relationship for five years and my boyfriend lately started to tell me his future plans for us. well at the age of 22 i am still enjoying my life and i think it would be better to get married if we have everything we need and wants well i know if we get married we can have also everything since we were together but i dont know any opinion guys?
3 responses
• India
13 Apr 11
I feel Twenty five is the correct age to get married which one can understand what is life in that age. They can understand everything in that age and be fully matured, hence they can lead a better life
• Philippines
13 Apr 11
I think to describe the time frame as the "ideal marrying age" as the time wherein both of you have everything that you need and want is quite unattainable for most of us. A number of us thinks that we still don't have what we need and especially what we want even if we reach 50. I guess, the right time for me is when you are both emotionally and financially ready. You'll have to realize that being together would mean giving up on certain things. If you are enjoying your singlehood just now, and enjoying the fruits of your labor for the meantime (your 22 and i suppose you are just really getting started with work, getting the hang of it and enjoying the benefits and perks attached to it), i suggest you wait for a couple of years before you settle. By being financially stable doesn't mean you'll have enough money to buy what you want. It actually means that you both have sources of income which will then on support the family that you'll be raising later on. If the criteria in getting married is if you already have everything, then i guess, the number of marrying couples will be extremely lessened.
• United States
13 Apr 11
After living together for no less than 2 years!