Relationship Advice

I agree with you on that! Considering everyone in the relationship is important to keeping it strong. It can't just be about one person. that is not a relationship. Taking the time to see what is important to you and your partner will only make your relationship better.

I agree with you. A strong relationship is just about give and take. I just had a very bad break up with my boyfriend. We had been together for almost 3 years. Everything used to be so great, so fun until it deteriorated right before my eyes. We actually never had a big problem. It just so happened that he is just not that into me. If only I realized this 3 months since we got together, I do not think we could have lasted three years. It was such a painful experience. I spotted the signs but I just ignored it. I have just invested a lot of emotions and time to the wrong person. Wahhh.. it was such a hassle, stressful and so heart breaking. Guys and girls be careful.

i dont know how to respond ... iam not good if talking about love :)

As the saying goes..it takes two to tango. Sway and dance with the music,follow the steps and feel the rhythm. My grandfather once told me that,in marriage,the first 2 years is the crucial stage since it's the stage of knowing each other. So,in this stage,both should be very sensitive to understand each other's needs,wants,do's and don'ts. And...NEVER contradict each other...you can argue but never let the arguments spoils the day. Everyday each will learn from each other and also learn your differences and again NEVER let that differences become a gap...but the reason to be more closer to each other. Learn to love each weakness and help each other overcome each fears. We can never tell how to keep a relationship lasts...every individual differs from each other...just learn from each other and keep the love alive. have a great day

Yeah I agree! lovers must give their love for each other and must adjust if there is some incompatibility.

you sound very well versed with relationships! anyway, I do agree with you on this antox. There are a lot of things to consider when in a relationship. You also learn on how to think for your partner's well being. I think even though you have a relationship with the right person, it cannot be asured of being trouble free. IT can be trouble free if both of you know how to respect and give way :)

yeah that is true, remember to love like how you love you in the begin because sometimes the we lose it because we think well ok the relationship is going and not remembering that you can lose that person. I am in a relationship for 4 years going on 5 and i can tell you that i love my baby like i loved him in the first year. It does not mean that we did not have or ups and downs. And considering each other and communicating is a big think most relations end because one partner thinks the other does not consider their feelings and the partner does not communicate that with the other and then the relationship end not even trying to work it out

TRUE! :) If both sides trusts each other, distance doesn't matter right? :) HAHA..