I happen to see her pretty face everyday..... !!!
By voldrox
@voldrox (7191)
India
April 14, 2011 7:06am CST
Okay, when ever i open my browser, i do open facebook and then i open this girl's profile in another tab and happen to just stare at her.......
No, she isn't my friend. But i just like to keep seeing her pretty face every once in a while (somewhat like refreshing myself ?) ..
I don't know what is happening to me..? I have seen comments oh her photo, like "thanks for the add" and all and no, my conscience doesn't want me to add her to my friends list because i generally don't add people i don't know and i have no intention of chatting with her (or maybe i wish to, but certainly not a good idea to just add her as a friend like that). Does anybody do this ? 
Or maybe, i have been damaged in my previous relationship and this helps me get rid of old memories ?
I am.. stupid definitely and romantic(?) I don't know..
Can you help me with this..? What am i doing ..
Any suggestions ? And yeah, please, i don't stalk people like this.. It's just that i love to see her face, i don't know why. 
So help me out. You know i love all sorts of responses. 
Or maybe, i have been damaged in my previous relationship and this helps me get rid of old memories ?
I am.. stupid definitely and romantic(?) I don't know..
Can you help me with this..? What am i doing ..
Any suggestions ? And yeah, please, i don't stalk people like this.. It's just that i love to see her face, i don't know why.
So help me out. You know i love all sorts of responses. 4 people like this
17 responses
@voldrox (7191)
• India
14 Apr 11
Hello my sweet Saphy, :)
Oh, don't worry, i am not 'hunting' :D . Maybe i just want her in my head ? Well, it does make me feel better in a way. I am able to keep away from thinking about my ex. And certainly after all that has happened, I don't have the courage (as for now) to get into another relationship. So you need not worry Saphy. I can only say that i have become a little more wiser from my previous experience and i have learned that girls needed to be treated as 'Princess' only after they have, at least, given you the hint (or the smallest clue) that we are their 'Prince' . 
Well, it does make me feel better in a way. I am able to keep away from thinking about my ex. And certainly after all that has happened, I don't have the courage (as for now) to get into another relationship. So you need not worry Saphy. I can only say that i have become a little more wiser from my previous experience and i have learned that girls needed to be treated as 'Princess' only after they have, at least, given you the hint (or the smallest clue) that we are their 'Prince' . 
You won't see me like this ever again, my Saphy, and i don't want to see you hurt too.. :( 
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
14 Apr 11
Hi Voldi
Beauty is such an eye opener and always pleasant to see. Nothing wrong with admiring my friend because you are single and not in a commitment. I would say wait a bit and see if anything about the comments and her replies get yet more interesting.
Nothing wrong with befriending at some point and simply saying hello. For now it would be best to wait a bit, simply because you recently had a break up and you will be vulnerable to perhaps some mischief. She may be a real nice and sincere person but again would be best to wait a bit.
After a while nothing wrong with saying hello, you never know if this maybe at the very least a friend. So as long as you are not interrupting her routine with anonymous comments and so forth I do/would not consider it stalking because she has her pictures for public view.
Beauty is such an eye opener and always pleasant to see. Nothing wrong with admiring my friend because you are single and not in a commitment. I would say wait a bit and see if anything about the comments and her replies get yet more interesting.
Nothing wrong with befriending at some point and simply saying hello. For now it would be best to wait a bit, simply because you recently had a break up and you will be vulnerable to perhaps some mischief. She may be a real nice and sincere person but again would be best to wait a bit.
After a while nothing wrong with saying hello, you never know if this maybe at the very least a friend. So as long as you are not interrupting her routine with anonymous comments and so forth I do/would not consider it stalking because she has her pictures for public view. @voldrox (7191)
• India
14 Apr 11
Blond counselling ? I would follow everything they would say......
Hardworkinggurl, i can't say anything about being mischievous because i don't know if i would be doing something like that, myself. :D But yeah, i am not expecting anything out of it, just wanna talk to her. We can be good friends. :) Plus, i can't say if this thing can move forward too, unless she has some special radars to catch my feelings for her, but yeah i am definitely not going to show signs and i am going to make it harder for her radar to pick up signals about my feelings, hehe.
She is very beautiful and her eyes are very kind.
I would follow everything they would say......
Hardworkinggurl, i can't say anything about being mischievous because i don't know if i would be doing something like that, myself. :D But yeah, i am not expecting anything out of it, just wanna talk to her. We can be good friends. :) Plus, i can't say if this thing can move forward too, unless she has some special radars to catch my feelings for her, but yeah i am definitely not going to show signs and i am going to make it harder for her radar to pick up signals about my feelings, hehe.
She is very beautiful and her eyes are very kind. 
@eshaan (6188)
• India
15 Apr 11
i think its your immaturity...no problem if you like someone's face and also no problem if you like to be friends with her...after all all friends are strangers and you become friends with them after introducing to each other...now it depends that..how u carry this relationship...u have to be clear on the lines of friendship...and not force her for any kind of things that she doesn't like...if u behave nicely like a gentleman..maybe she will also like u and then line is clear for you
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@voldrox (7191)
• India
15 Apr 11
Come on eshaan, i may be a little immature here, but i am young ! hehe.. Well, at least that can be an excuse for me. Yes, i have a nice crush on this pretty looking girl. Yeah i am going to be just like friends with her, i am going to be like a nice friend, and if she is into me then it's nice. I want her to come to me, instead of me going to her. hehe
hehe.. Well, at least that can be an excuse for me. Yes, i have a nice crush on this pretty looking girl. Yeah i am going to be just like friends with her, i am going to be like a nice friend, and if she is into me then it's nice. I want her to come to me, instead of me going to her. hehe @mermaidivy (15394)
• United States
14 Apr 11
So who is she? Like your friend's friend so it shows up in your network or something? It sounded like you are very attracted to her and seeing her pretty facemakes you happy. If she is in your friend's network, why not sending her a message to introduce yourself and addher as a friend?
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@mermaidivy (15394)
• United States
14 Apr 11
haha yea it is nice to look at pretty girls, I understand that
Good luck!
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@voldrox (7191)
• India
14 Apr 11
Hello mermaidivy,
Apparently we share 4 mutual friends in common. Oh, i don't know about sending her a message before adding her, it would be like i am into her. I just don't want her to make her feel this way from the beginning itself. Maybe i could just send her friend request, she seems kind enough to accept friends on facebook. I guess i shall do that after sometime and then look forward to a friendly chat with her.
Yes, she is quite pretty and something about her that makes me feel refreshed mentally when i see her face.
@vandana7 (100535)
• India
14 Apr 11
Voldi mere bachche, you are going through natural reaction..your mind is telling you..so ... why not, you are free now..kinda thing. Everybody goes through it.. No issues. Add her if you feel like. But dont expect this friendship or liking or whatever it can be called to replace the loss... it is called rebound..
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@voldrox (7191)
• India
14 Apr 11
Oh mumma.. It sounded so sweet 'mere bachche'
Yeah, natural reaction, hehe. And the main reason i am happy is because i have lots of love in me still left and i am not going to think about the past, and i can forget that i lost my first love. In fact i am now stripping my ex of the title 'first love' she will no longer be entitled with that label, because things didn't work out between us for some reason and she wasn't my true love, for having such a rude break up with me. My true love is waiting somewhere out there.. Someone who is caring and loving..
Oh don't worry about this girl, i admire. I feel attracted to her, but i am not going to show any signs that i like her. Of course this is in no way going to become the replacement for my loss but yes, it is going to help me divert my thoughts of the past at least. 
Yeah, natural reaction, hehe. And the main reason i am happy is because i have lots of love in me still left and i am not going to think about the past, and i can forget that i lost my first love. In fact i am now stripping my ex of the title 'first love' she will no longer be entitled with that label, because things didn't work out between us for some reason and she wasn't my true love, for having such a rude break up with me. My true love is waiting somewhere out there.. Someone who is caring and loving..
Oh don't worry about this girl, i admire. I feel attracted to her, but i am not going to show any signs that i like her. Of course this is in no way going to become the replacement for my loss but yes, it is going to help me divert my thoughts of the past at least. 
At least that is form my point of view... She may be just a pretty face without a body? Who knows?
@dredinethis (68)
• Philippines
15 Apr 11
it all start in the mind then words then later you can no longer help yourself...just be honest with yourself you know what to do and what's best for you, you don't even have to ask for advises..if you really like her go ahead you might regret it later ;)
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@voldrox (7191)
• India
22 Apr 11
Hello drendinethis,
Sorry for the late reply. Welcome to mylot. 
Oh.. I am still trying to get over my ex, so in a way this girl that i like to look at, helps. At least she is like an inspiration for me, i am not saying i like her because she is pretty but i like to think that someone like her is there waiting for me. It helps a lot to get over the thoughts that i still have about my ex. In a way i do love this girl and fantasize about her. lol.
Oh.. I am still trying to get over my ex, so in a way this girl that i like to look at, helps. At least she is like an inspiration for me, i am not saying i like her because she is pretty but i like to think that someone like her is there waiting for me. It helps a lot to get over the thoughts that i still have about my ex. In a way i do love this girl and fantasize about her. lol.
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
14 Apr 11
hi voldrox I don't know why but reading this reminded me of an old song which I have even forgot the words, but just remember the title. whenever
I see your face. it was a very sweet love song. maybe there is something in her face that just speaks to you.Or maybe its just that you are getting over an ex. I think you are probably wise to just look but
do not go any further with it. You are most likely still hurting from
a previous break up.As an 85 year old lady whose own romantic life
has long gone due to being widowed I have no real good advice save to
follow your hunch. Of after a goodly time you still feel this way just strike up a casual chat with her. after all for all y ou know she might well be married. lol.
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@voldrox (7191)
• India
15 Apr 11
:) Hello Hatley 
Sounds like a very sweet song. Yes, i am feeling much better when i see her pretty face, it makes me forget my ex. It makes me believe that there is some pretty looking and caring girl somewhere out there, waiting for me. This girl is very beautiful and her eyes are so kind, it just makes me feel calm to look at them. She looks romantic and very caring, i wish i get a girl like that someday. My ex completely sucked everything out of me, honestly, i never felt like i deserved to, i seldom felt cared. But it is time to let go of the past and think about some angel waiting for me, someone probably looking as romantic as this girl that i love to look at.
We all love you Hatley !
Sounds like a very sweet song. Yes, i am feeling much better when i see her pretty face, it makes me forget my ex. It makes me believe that there is some pretty looking and caring girl somewhere out there, waiting for me. This girl is very beautiful and her eyes are so kind, it just makes me feel calm to look at them. She looks romantic and very caring, i wish i get a girl like that someday. My ex completely sucked everything out of me, honestly, i never felt like i deserved to, i seldom felt cared. But it is time to let go of the past and think about some angel waiting for me, someone probably looking as romantic as this girl that i love to look at.
We all love you Hatley ! 
@cream97 (29086)
• United States
15 Apr 11
Hi. voldrox. I know that you are not stalking her. It sounds as if you have a crush on her. If you never add her as your friend, then you will never get to really know her as far as talking to her. You are in love and you should either let go of your feelings for her, or either tell her how you feel instead.
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@voldrox (7191)
• India
15 Apr 11
Hi cream, :)
Yes, definitely i have a BIG crush on this girl. Well, i guess i should add her up and talk normally. Perhaps one day she will come to sense that i have something for her. hehe.. I am not going to say that so soon, cream. I believe many would have tried the same thing before me. So i will take my time and go on easy with it, without expecting anything. I guess that is the best thing to do for now. I don't want to be forward about it right now. We could be good friends, and who knows something might happen later, but still i don't want to expect anything on this. 
hehe.. I am not going to say that so soon, cream. I believe many would have tried the same thing before me. So i will take my time and go on easy with it, without expecting anything. I guess that is the best thing to do for now. I don't want to be forward about it right now. We could be good friends, and who knows something might happen later, but still i don't want to expect anything on this. 
@starsailover (7829)
• Mexico
14 Apr 11
Hi voldi: You are in love! you are in love 
Now, seriously. This has also happened to me but with a girl I've met on a forum. We both like Coldplay so we became friends. I open her facebook just to see her face, look for her photos. And I feel sick because we live in different countries. She has her life. I was just another friend. I think she is a wonderful and nice girl and I wish her the best but I stopped doing this because it hurts. After some months I visit her Facebook again but I looked it with another eyes, as a friend. I was obsessed and that's not good my friend. Hope this is not your case because it's terrible how it feels. Thanks for sharing your story.
ALVARO
Now, seriously. This has also happened to me but with a girl I've met on a forum. We both like Coldplay so we became friends. I open her facebook just to see her face, look for her photos. And I feel sick because we live in different countries. She has her life. I was just another friend. I think she is a wonderful and nice girl and I wish her the best but I stopped doing this because it hurts. After some months I visit her Facebook again but I looked it with another eyes, as a friend. I was obsessed and that's not good my friend. Hope this is not your case because it's terrible how it feels. Thanks for sharing your story.
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@voldrox (7191)
• India
14 Apr 11
Hi Starsailover, :)
I am definitely attracted to her, and things can move forward if we begin to talk. But i haven't thought much about befriending her as of now, but lets see what i can do. Well, i don't expect we would get along like that, but we can be good friends too. :) I guess you wanted to meet her, right ? It's unfortunate things had to be that way. Well i don't know, i don't have much to say about this girl but i am obsessed with her now. She is very pretty.
@Cutie18f (9546)
• Philippines
15 Apr 11
Obviously, you'd been bitten by the love bug and you seem to be a happy victim, not doing anything about it but enjoying every moment of it. Well, I see no harm there. Anyway, she's just a photo on the screen. You can stare and stare, you can even kiss your screen, but that's just it. If she inspires you to do your tasks everyday, then I say, go ahead and look at her face everyday.
@voldrox (7191)
• India
15 Apr 11
Hello cutie :)
Oh i am really enjoying this love bug. I want it to sting me more with that fluid which makes me feel this way about her. She looks very caring and romantic. Yeah, she is just a photo on the screen.. And kissing it ?? 
That girl would feel like she is in the seventh heaven when she knows she is being kissed like that. LOL. She definitely is an inspiration to me. I fantasize that the angel waiting for me will look similar to her. Even i am a hopeless romantic. haha
Yeah, she is just a photo on the screen.. And kissing it ?? That girl would feel like she is in the seventh heaven when she knows she is being kissed like that. LOL. She definitely is an inspiration to me. I fantasize that the angel waiting for me will look similar to her. Even i am a hopeless romantic. haha
@for3verfamous (2190)
• Canada
14 Apr 11
I think a lot of people do that on Facebook. Trust me, especially the girls.. I know some of my friends have looked at everyones facebook in the city! There's nothing wrong with finding her interesting.. Couldn't hurt to send her an add I guess, what's the worst that can happen?
There's nothing wrong with finding her interesting.. Couldn't hurt to send her an add I guess, what's the worst that can happen?1 person likes this
@rmnrmn (688)
• India
15 Apr 11
Love at first site?? May be! This Picture might be pretty one but in reality she might not be pretty that you see in the display picture. Maybe she is photo genetic. Pictures do not reveal her true mind and mentality. I suggest ignore it and move on man! Its better search by face to face girl friend than in face book!
@voldrox (7191)
• India
15 Apr 11
Hello rmnrmn,
Well, i can't say it's love at first site, but definitely i am quite attracted to it, it's just a picture to look at, i am not taking that too seriously. Yes, you might be right here, she might be photogenic and might actually be looking much better in the photos, but the reverse also applies to some people. Well, she seems to be the romantic and kind type, and obviously i can't be sure of that unless i talk with her face to face. I can perhaps just watch or add the person. If i start thinking that way, then every girl on facebook would seem uninteresting. 
@grazmaniandevil (379)
•
15 Apr 11
I do that too.. We just appreciate beauty that is impossible to reach by staring at it. We just have to know our limits. I hope you get a chance to add her there's no harm or malice in that as long as you've got pure intentions..and if it's pride holding you back by adding her as a friend might as well lower that pride.. we might not know it may pave your way to a good start :)
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@voldrox (7191)
• India
15 Apr 11
Hello grazmaniandevil,
Welcome to mylot. Limits, yes i have to be in mine and you are talking about pride ? Yes, that is what is keeping me adding her right now. Well, it's nothing, i can add her, and talk normally. I just don't want to show signs that she interests me very much. It could be a good start.
Limits, yes i have to be in mine and you are talking about pride ? Yes, that is what is keeping me adding her right now. Well, it's nothing, i can add her, and talk normally. I just don't want to show signs that she interests me very much. It could be a good start. 
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
14 Apr 11
hello voldrox,
Are you sure it is her real photo? (opps..just asking dear)
Make sure it is her very own photo or else you are admiring a pretty face owned by another person...then,you will surely get hurt again (ohhhh)
Have a great weekend ahead dear friend
@voldrox (7191)
• India
14 Apr 11
Hello Jaiho,
I can assure you it's her real photo, hehe, she is not as gorgeous as an actress but simple and lovely looking woman. I see kindness in her eyes, it feels calming to look into those eyes and her smile just blew me away. She is so pretty. In fact her photo is still open in another tab of my browser.
Great weekend, you too Jaiho.
I see kindness in her eyes, it feels calming to look into those eyes and her smile just blew me away. She is so pretty. In fact her photo is still open in another tab of my browser.
Great weekend, you too Jaiho. 1 person likes this
@eurekafemme (5876)
• Philippines
14 Apr 11
Hello, Voldrox.:-)
Who can resist a pretty face? If I were in your shoes and happens to see a pretty face, too, in a social networking site that I am also a member, why not?
The only explanation I can think of your behavior is that you have a crush on her. Well, there is nothing wrong about it. It is like admiring a person even without having to personal interact with her. It has no difference admiring a superstar, if you know what I mean.
You can make her as an inspiration, and if you will not do anything about it other than staring at her face, you will never come any closer to her. If you really are sincere in knowing her, why don't you add her as a friend? Who knows something beautiful might start from there.
Well, there is nothing wrong about it. It is like admiring a person even without having to personal interact with her. It has no difference admiring a superstar, if you know what I mean.
You can make her as an inspiration, and if you will not do anything about it other than staring at her face, you will never come any closer to her. If you really are sincere in knowing her, why don't you add her as a friend? Who knows something beautiful might start from there.1 person likes this
@voldrox (7191)
• India
14 Apr 11
Hello Eurekafemme, :)
I might actually be having a crush at her. Well, i don't know, i guess i could add her as my friend, we do have 4 mutual friends in common. I just hope they haven't added her like i am about to. It will be funny then. However, i don't know, i guess i just want to be good friends with her and talk, although i can't deny that she seems pretty attractive to me. Yes, she is definitely an inspiration to me though.
I also fantasize her, LOL. Like when i see her picture, i imagine myself playing drums on the stage with my friends and she is there somewhere in the audience, watching our band. I guess i really want to impress her.
Well, i don't know, i guess i could add her as my friend, we do have 4 mutual friends in common. I just hope they haven't added her like i am about to. It will be funny then. However, i don't know, i guess i just want to be good friends with her and talk, although i can't deny that she seems pretty attractive to me. Yes, she is definitely an inspiration to me though.
I also fantasize her, LOL. Like when i see her picture, i imagine myself playing drums on the stage with my friends and she is there somewhere in the audience, watching our band. I guess i really want to impress her. @almairah0730 (62)
• Philippines
14 Apr 11
it is a sort of admiration and it is 100% normal. Maybe, you were just avoiding something. I am a married woman, and I have this profile picture which getting someone's attention. It's not obscene for sure. it just that I look younger my age. And it flatters me most. But to stop them from dreaming... (do I feel conceited?)I honestly tell him that I'm married and everything should end up to friendship than to destroy relationship. You should not expect bigger things from that profile picture. Just make friends with her. My admirer add me and I accepted his invitation..that's why were friends now.
@voldrox (7191)
• India
15 Apr 11
Hello almairah,
Welcome to mylot. I hope you have a pleasant time here.
Definitely, i am not expecting so much out of her. I just want to talk to her. I am not going to go somewhere else with this. Maybe after a few days i would add her up and just chat with her whenever she is free. We could be good friends. Who knows she might be in relationship right now. She is just pretty and kind looking. I really do admire her. Oh things turn out a little different once you get committed to someone.
Definitely, i am not expecting so much out of her. I just want to talk to her. I am not going to go somewhere else with this. Maybe after a few days i would add her up and just chat with her whenever she is free. We could be good friends. Who knows she might be in relationship right now. She is just pretty and kind looking. I really do admire her. Oh things turn out a little different once you get committed to someone.