Have anyone of u had problems with ur in-laws(particularly brother in-law)

Hi Henazea... I actually got it worse. My brother-in-law (my sister's husband) has depression. He exhibits escapism in his work, treats my sister like she is a maid, talks too much about God when i dont see him practicing what he preaches, talks when his mouth is full such that bits of rice keeps of showering from his mouth, teaches my nephews (his sons) advanced mathematics even though they are just in first grade in a hope that they will become geeks like him, uses our cars without my parents' permission, doesnt park his car properly such that our family driver will park it for him (as if he shares is giving allowance to our driver), plays computer games all night long with the volume up, watches TV in his PC all night long with the volume up, does not report for work because he has less sleep, hmmm.. and oh... lives in our house and does not give a share to pay for the electricity, water, or even food for that matter... Could it be that your brother-in-law was just trying to be close to you? I would appreciate it if he does just that. As for my brother-in-law, he is just soo... i sooooo dislike him...

Let me ask you a question, is your brother-in-law lives in your house? If no, I guess you don't have a problem. For now, you should be enjoying your married life and not to mind these people. It will not let you live another day if you would always think of him. I also had an experience of an aunt-in-law not liking me and she is our neighbor. I just live the way I wanted to live with my family. What matters is you and your husband understands each other. Now, if your brother-in-law is living in your house you should be talking to him.

My marriage broke up due to the influence of my ex-husband's family (mostly sisters), my ex sided with them......and that's it!