Have you been betrayed by your friends?
By njamoroso
@njamoroso (76)
Philippines
April 14, 2011 9:12am CST
You know how much pain you can get to be betrayed specially by people that were close to your heart? I felt like i was being stub in my chest. I really don't understand how come they can do it to me. maybe I was just too good to them that they have the guts to hurt me. I was really disappointed. I've learned my lesson.
4 responses
@NYNY911 (63)
• United States
15 Apr 11
yes- i know exactly how you feel. i was betrayed 3 years ago by my fiancee in china. she told me over and over how much she loved me- after a 2 months- she walked out of my life- gone- no explanation, nothing.every time i think of that i still feel the hurt. luckily i have found a new person in my life to help me forget.
@njamoroso (76)
• Philippines
16 Apr 11
good for you...really God Gave you what is due for for you ..
@kinjalk (192)
• United States
14 Apr 11
My wife and I have had that problem before. It actually seems to happen to us a lot since we are so nice to everyone, people seem to take advantage of that. We realized, the more you expect from people, the more you get hurt. We TRY to not expect anything back from anyone. IF you dont expect anything you wont get hurt when they do things to you, you know what i mean?
@njamoroso (76)
• Philippines
16 Apr 11
exactly... doing good to someone without expecting any in return is not that easy however thats the true essence of being selfless to others..
@nanosizeme (2)
• Philippines
17 Apr 11
I've never been betrayed by a friend and I hope no one will. But I've had my own shot of disappointments and pain from people that used to be very close to my heart. I too have questions on why they've done it but finding the answers won't change the situation. So I just move on and appreciate the people that loves and truly cares for me and enjoy every single moment with them.
@dimzok (127)
• Indonesia
17 Apr 11
until now,my friends never betrayed me,how lucky am i?. but i know that what you feel,coz' i have a friend experience just like you,and his needed much time to apologize his friend,sometimes we can do wrong decision and it hurt someone,coz nobodys perfect,and if i can be person that can apologize someone that was hurt us, i think you are wise person..
