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Two sisters who locked themselves inside their house
By smilywomen
@surekharathi (14146)
India
April 14, 2011 12:55pm CST
Dear friends
You all are read this news the two sisters who locked themselves inside their Noida house for over seven months till they were rescued on the verge of death two days ago. Both sisters (Anuradha and Sonali) are depressed because their brother left them after getting marriage. After mother’s death, she was the one who raised him. She was a second mother for him.
She had given up her job as a chartered accountant in Dehradun to bring up her younger siblings after their mother’s death in 1995.
He got married with the help of his sister. It means Anuradha was the one who planned for wedding him. From this two sisters one (Anuradha) has died and another is on oxygen.
Day after Rescue Brother comes to claim Anuradha’s body, says his requests to reunite were turned down.But this is not fair because and I think Dr. should not give the body to their brother.
How can brother do this with his sisters. His sisters life is lost due to him. I think brother should be punished. Even in the Hospital his sister (Sonali) told the Dr. where is my brother it means how much she loved her brother. Share your views friend regarding this sad news.
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14 responses
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
14 Apr 11
hello friend,
Did the sister's locked themselves or it is the brother who locked them?
If it's the sister who decided to locked themselves...why?
I don't understand...i need more explanation (sorry)
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
14 Apr 11
ohh..this is a sad story then.
okay i got it.
so the brother after marriage left the two sister,and did not help them,is it?
he is so cruel,after his sister helped him his marriage he just left them.
really sad....
@junrapmian (2169)
• Philippines
15 Apr 11
I don't know why do the sisters have to locked themselves inside their house just because their brother got married. Is it something related to their religion or family tradition? Isn't it if someone in the family gets married, he should be responsible for himself and should no longer ask for help from his siblings and parents and vice versa? I guess, the two sisters were just sulking and lonely, they should have leave their brother live his one life and the sisters should have move on and face their own life. Anyway, it is so sad that this has happened to them and I don't know why the brother should be blamed. Sorry, I am not familiar with their family tradition.
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
16 Apr 11
This all question is my mind but in the news not telling about these things how they live till six months without food.
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
14 Apr 11
hi surekharathi I guess your Indian culture must explain this as I am an American and we would not shut ourselves away if our brothers did not
bring their wives to live with us. when we marry we start a new famlu8
inits oun house or rented house or rented apartment. we do not any longer live with our moms and dads. we are adults and happy to start a new family in a new home. so its all in what you are raised with. in your culture I take it that this would be considered sort of a slap in
the face to Anuradha if he did not bring his wife home to her and stay with her? Here it would not be wrong at all so we do have different
cultures and customs. I am really sorry for the two sisters but still feel they took this to the most extreme. why give up your life just because a man is cleaving to his new wife? this seems rather silly to me? he did not die he just got married for goodness sakes.surely the younger generation go out on their own when they marry? how can you run a peaceful family if you are expected to enter the home of your parents and all the relatives? too many women under one roof are bound to cause a lot of emotional disstress for mom , grandma and new brides.
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
15 Apr 11
Yes friend the sisters should not go on depression for a silly brother. If brother is not think about his sister then sister should be live with brave because she has get already job in CA and both sisters are educated why they were going in depression but some times relations is also important for our life.
So they both are wants to live with their brother at least till the marriage but cruel brother not understand their feeling and his responsibility that find a good boy for his sisters but he leave alone his sisters.
@kingparker (9673)
• United States
14 Apr 11
Honestly, I have no idea about this horrible news. I guess that wasn't happen within the United States right? Probably in the foreign land, because the local news didn't actually report it. Well, objectively, I would say, yeah, punish him for good, I just don't know what to say. So many horrible things happen every single day.
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
14 Apr 11
Oh how sad. I see they were so depressed and felt abandoned by the brother. I do not know that there is legal ramification, but one thing for sure there is lack of moral obligation.
Knowing that the sisters where now alone he should have step up to the plate as the bother and looked after them. This is sad indeed to think that people at times do not fend for family.
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
15 Apr 11
Yes friend they were so depressed and felt abandoned by the brother. The brother was cruel why he left their sister they lot loves her brother. Really sad news friend and thanks to response.
@34momma (13882)
• United States
15 Apr 11
I don't understand how this is the brothers fault. they raised him, introduced him to his wife, he got married and moved out. what's the problem. that's whats suppose to happen. You can't fault him for them getting depressed because of that!!! that's just silly and wrong. this is not his fault!!
@anuraa32 (2446)
• India
15 Apr 11
This is a case of mislead aspirations and expectations. The older sister was a Chartered Accountant and I think capable of taking care of herself. If she had taken care of her brother fine... So.... He is her brother... She felt like helping him. This fact does not mean that he is indebted to her for the rest of his life. And even if you see our tradition, it is not the brother but the husband who takes care of his wife. So the brother was taking care of his wife. In a way he was right.
The girls of today are capable of taking care of themselves. They should have come out of it and gone on with their lives.
@andy77e (5156)
• United States
15 Apr 11
No, the sister did not lose her life because of him. She lost her life because she was dumb, and didn't know what the purpose of being a mother is.
The purpose of being a mother, is to raise your child to no longer need you.
A good mother bird, teaches her child bird, to fly away, and go make a life for himself.
The brother did this, as he is supposed to. He grew up, and flew away to his wife. This is what a man is supposed to do.
The sister could not handle this, and that was her problem. The brother didn't cause anything. He was doing what an adult male should do.
Genesis 2:24
"For this reason a man will *leave* his father and mother and be *united to his wife*, and they will become one flesh."
Leave mother and father, and be united to his wife. That is how it is supposed to work.
@desteny114 (886)
• United States
14 Apr 11
That is so sad and this is the first time I hear the story since I have a two year old most of the time I turn on the TV all we watch is cartoons. I can’t imagine what made him leave his sisters for that long without calling them or nothing.
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
16 Apr 11
Friend I was watching this news regularly from 3 days in news paper also and in TV also. This is a real incident not story in I also read this in Yahoo Dainik Jagaran 2 days before.
@voldrox (7191)
• India
14 Apr 11
Why do people do such things to their loved ones ? Why are people so selfish. Sometimes i wish had a sister too.. And here is this guy treating them like this. Does he not understand what his sister would go through if he would just abandon them like that ? This is so unfortunate and saddening. I feel sorry for the sisters..
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
15 Apr 11
Thanks friend but really some person is so cruel his sisters love so much their younger brother but brother never think what happened if I left her and no parents are live so the brother's responsibility to help to his sisters. From this two sisters one is no more and one is in hospital.
@anil02 (24688)
• India
15 Apr 11
I also read this news. It is surprising thing that both are well educated than why they took this step. If their brother was not care them why they boder about that. Although it is responsibility of their brother to look after his sisters. He ignore them. What is the real cause behind god knows. It is signal of breaking our social system. What was happen, happen much bad thing.
@Professor2010 (20162)
• India
17 Apr 11
Excuse me Surekha, most guys of today are 'bibi ka gulam'; and most wives don't want to live with inlaws, these girls were like inlaws for her; they want independent free life with husband only
I am sorry to hear this story, i was out from home on some kind of examination duty for some days..
i pray for recovery of the sister who is alive..
Thanks for sharing
Cheers.
God bless you, have a nice day ahead.
Professor ‘Bhuwan’. .