What should I do if your spouse cheating...????
By mawardi
@mawardi (158)
Indonesia
April 14, 2011 1:08pm CST
I'm very confused with my partner who recently chought having an affair behin me.
what action should I do will for our relationship back to normal again..????
6 responses
@Robswife2006 (1208)
• United States
14 Apr 11
For one your relationship will never be "normal" again because the trust that you once had is now gone. Second you must confront your spouse about this & third I would most definitely ask for a separation if not outright divorce because once that trust is gone it is very hard to get it back & you can not have a good, loving, strong relationship without trust.
@dredinethis (68)
• Philippines
14 Apr 11
cheaters will always be cheaters not unless they have a spiritual breakthrough. later still be prepared that she/he will still cheat on you..then you need to decide on yourself this early or confront her to be honest with you...you can't live in a lie for a long time you will only live in pain. So it's up to you to choose comfort rather than truth.
@_sketch_ (5742)
• United States
14 Apr 11
If you love someone, you won't treat them badly. Noone deserves to be treated like that. Forgiveness is good, but that person has to change or it's never going to work. It's just not. What action should you do? See if they are willing to change. If they ever do it again, then you know that they aren't. Do what you will, but don't waste your energy.
@happy_sunny (19)
• Saudi Arabia
15 Apr 11
what I think is communicate with her and find out the truth.
when you get the truth,there are two choices:1)you can bear it ,so go on ;
2)you can't bear it ,then go on again ;
but don't make a decision when there is a misunderstandings.you should make it clear then act.
@piya84 (2581)
• India
16 Apr 11
Sometime there are problems in relationship.One partner feel neglected.In such a case you can work on relationship.This can happen only if you both accept mistakes and are willing to wok on it.
If everything was absolutely good and still your partner cheat then she deserve to be dump
@lyamsitiy (104)
• Philippines
19 Apr 11
I think all relationship problems can be settled through a nice and calm talk. So you should talk to your partner and try to settle thins out. Downplaying it may cause more trouble in the future. But be sure that your facts are true and not just rumors because it will make things mush worse if you are just throwing accusations to your partner.
