Do you feel having a family meal benefits the whole family?
By Dominique25
@Dominique25 (9464)
United States
April 14, 2011 2:17pm CST
We are all so very busy with everything that needs to be done. Do you think that having at least one family meal together a day is beneficial? I think for us everyone would tend to go in their own direction with so much that needs to be done. Now we strive to have at least one meal together as a family. We try to have dinner together but with varying work schedules it can be difficult. we usually always have lunch together.
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15 responses
@svetli1234 (162)
• Bulgaria
14 Apr 11
There are things that keep a family together and food is an important one. Its not just the food but at the table you get to see everybody in one place and listen to how they are doing. In my family everybody goes doing his work the whole day but around 9pm we all hurry home for dinner :) To tell the truth if it wasnt for those dinners I wouldnt be that close with my family. Its the same with my friends. Everyday around lunch we have a place where we meet and grab something to eat :) not everyday everyone comes but most make it and really have a good time :)
keep the family meals going, they shoore benefit the whole family
@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
3 Oct 11
I agree having meals together as a family draws the family closer together. Everyone is able to share what has happened during their day. They really to benefit the family and makes it stronger.
@svetli1234 (162)
• Bulgaria
13 Oct 11
The bad thing is everyone is busy and always running to work and things and for my family its getting harder to have meals together but we still do it :D
There is nothing like a good family meal to make my day!!! :D
@cream97 (29087)
• United States
27 Apr 11
Hi. Dominique25. I think that eating together as a family is wonderful. It makes the bonding and family ties more closer. I love eating with my family. My husband always talks to me and we share many special moments together as a couple. When our children are sitting to the table with us, it makes the moment even more special and precious. Having at least one family meal together once a week is very great to make happen.
@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
4 Oct 11
I'm glad that you and your husband are able to spend valueable time together this way. Doing these things together not only strengthens you and your husbands relationship but your relationship with your children as well. It really is a win win situation.
@carolscash (9492)
• United States
16 Apr 11
Yes, it is something that I have always felt was important. When my oldest daughter became a teenager and started working it was sometimes hard to do and there were a few times that we didn't have dinner together, but I have always made sure that for the most part we did. It brings a family closer in many ways.
@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
4 Oct 11
I'm glad that no matter what has come up that you have worked hard to make sure that your family has meals together. It does help to bring the family closer together. We learn more about one another and what each other is going through and dealing with.
@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
4 Oct 11
There are a lot of things that go on in our lives, so many things that need to be done. It is very important that we make time for our family. One easy way that we do this is by eating and sharing a meal together.
@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
4 Oct 11
I too feel that sharing one meal together as a family is a good thing to do. It's necessary that we make this time. There's always other mundane tasks that we can buy time away from so we can be with our family.
@Suzieqmom (2755)
• United States
16 Apr 11
I think families should take advantage of whatever time they have together, and should make mealtime a priority if possible. Kids grow up and move away so fast, that it is important to spend as much family time with them as possible when they are young. It is a good time to communicate with them and find out what is going on in their lives, and also, to monitor what they are eating and ensure that at least some of their meals are healthy ones! I don't think this should be a rigid requirement, because that only breeds resentment, but if having meals together is a priority or a goal, then everyone in the family will view it a positive time devoted to the family.
@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
4 Oct 11
I do agree with you that time really does go by fast. Children grow up so fast and they are then out to start their own families. Before this happens I feel it's important that we really get to know our children and let them know that we care. As our family grows stronger together it helps them to be stable and prepared to start their own family.
@ann815 (54)
• Philippines
15 Apr 11
one of my fondest memory growing up were the meals we've had as a family. Weekends are my favorite part of the week, because those were the days we spend extra hours around the dining table. there my parents will tell us stories about their childhood, how they met, updates on work and social activities. Breakfasts would extend to lunches. :) We also have dinner as a family on weekdays too.
Now that my dad has passed on and i have my own children, we still practice the same tradition. I believe it's a good practice because my siblings and i grew up really close and we have become a very close knit family.
Personally, i see the value of the family meals. It's a way of keeping tabs of each other lives too.
@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
4 Oct 11
I'm sure that you are very thankful for the values that your parents instilled in you. Doing those things didn't cost much but it true your family together. It's amazing how many people search all over to find happiness and yet it's right in front of us. Spending quality time at the dinner table with our family brings great happiness. I'm glad that you are continueing this tradition with your family.
@melvelasco (356)
• Philippines
15 Apr 11
being together in family meal really helps a lot for staying more close of the family, for us we make it sure that at least every day once we should be together for meal as much as possible, though we know that our head of the family is working and busy...
@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
4 Oct 11
I too feel it's important to share at least one meal together as a family. I think it also makes the days goes better. We are a lot of the time surrounded by uncaring people perhaps in our work. It's nice to be able to have a loving atmosphere to come home to for a meal.
@Shellyann36 (11384)
• United States
14 Apr 11
I think that it is important for a family to eat meals together. With the activities of children/teenagers and the work schedules of adults this is hard to do. With our busy schedule we are lucky to have a meal together once a week. I try to have Sunday supper with everyone. Normally my fiance does not work on the weekends and neither does my middle son. My oldest son does work at times but normally he goes in early and is off by 2. This seems to work out for us the best.
@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
3 Oct 11
I'm glad that having sunday supper together works well for your family. I agree that it is very hard to get everyone together when we have varying schedules. I'm happy that your family has been able to schedule time for this.
@desteny114 (886)
• United States
14 Apr 11
Yes we should always try our very best to have a family meal so we could be what we are a family with all the members together at one time. If we have kids its is really important for them to see all the members of the family having a nice breakfast , lunch, diners or even maybe a little snack time but all together to talk about what is going on in all our lives. We all need to be in our families’ life and not just in front of the TV or computer or everyone in OUR room eating alone.
@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
3 Oct 11
I agree with you that it isn't good for family members to all go their separate ways in their separate rooms to eat. And it deffinitely isn't good for us to all be in front of the tv or computer all the time. It takes effort and consideration for our family. But when we do these things in benefits the whole family.
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
15 Apr 11
Having a family meal together is often more than just food on the table. it is a quaity time to be spent as a family. comng together over the family meal keeps the lines of communication open.
@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
4 Oct 11
I too see the need and importance of keeping the lines of communication open in the family. It really does help the family and keeps it going strong. With all the things going on around us and the stresses we face, being together as family really helps.
@isloooboy (1733)
• United Arab Emirates
15 Apr 11
Well your topic is very important and I must say this is need of the day for all of us. Right now we 4 brothers and one sister live together. My 3 elder brothers and sister already married and their wives and children's are also live with us and our head of the family, "Our beloving mom" also.
We all get together on the night dinner on any cost without any prior reason because this is order from our mom. What is logic behind this? She says, "When you all get together at one place than its natural you will talk to each other. So there will be no chance for any misunderstanding or mistake between you all. I want unity, love and peace in my family. So you all must keep in your mind's no matter what you are doing or wherever you are you must reach at home for Dinner and never try to miss it without any proper reason.
So I am part of this Happy dinner since I was a child and I am really really proud to dinner with my beloving family once a day. So I want to my friends and colleagues of mylot try to arrange one meal at home on regular basis for the happiness of your family.
Cheers :D
@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
4 Oct 11
That is so wonderful that you have such a big wonderful family all living together. Your mother is truly a wise person. She knows what will benefit her family. It is really great to have and appreciate this in your mother and that all of her children and grandchildren appreciate and respect this as well. It is worth it for the whole family together for at least one meal. Everyone benefits.
@niq993 (50)
• Bulgaria
14 Apr 11
Me and my family have dinner together every night. This is the only time when everybody is at home, and we can see and talk each other. I think the dinner symbolizes the unity of one family and it is very important (of course it could be and a lunch).But you are right, everybody is busy and has his own staff, but after all ,the family members have to spend some time together.
@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
3 Oct 11
I agree that dinner time for us to is a good time to have meals together. It can be so refreshing to sit down and spend quality time together enjoying our meals. I think it is good that families still try and spend this time together.
@fenirose (46)
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15 Apr 11
i think that is a really great thing because it bring the family together and more love it is true that our different work hours make it difficult but if we have the opportunity to come together i think it is a good idea. dinner will be the great one because everyone can talk about his day.
@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
4 Oct 11
It really does bring the family together. It is amazing how when we spend time with our family, talking about the days activities together how we open up to one another. That will continue to draw us closer as a family unit.
@killerbullet (174)
• United States
14 Apr 11
having a meal as a family is very important as it gets you even closer to each other
in my family we have almost every meal together i dont know how we do it but it gets done and its really great to chat with your family about your day and whats on your mind and stuff like that so always try to have at least one meal as a whole unit
i prefer lunch to be like that
@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
3 Oct 11
I'm glad that you and your family are able to have family meals together. It really is so valueable. It's not always easy to do but when we set these things as a priority it is worth it.