it's hard to move on..

hello anjiel, Are you comatose that's why you can't move on just kidding Love is not always a two way relationship sometimes even how much you love a person there is no assurance that they love you back, it's early to say that your heart belongs only to her even the longest relationship doesn't have a happy ending because we cannot predict what will happen next. have a nice day!

Hi anjiel052707, This post made me cry.... I'm actually going through the same thing right now. I really don't know what I'll do. I'm so used to having him around. I always have to remind myself that he's no longer with me. I don't know how to start my life over again. I'm really trying to be strong. I know that eventually I'll move on. How I just wish that it will happen soon. I'm trying to distract myself by working hard, and catching up with my friends. I would really like to move on... but it's sooo damn hard! I wish you both us luck in moving on. I know one day we'll be over this. As for now, just keep on smiling and be strong.

Yes that is the most difficult time in our entire life. Moving on. Why we need to move on every time we get hurt or heart broken. Yes we need this in order to stay happy and lively. We are people that always wanted to care by some body like our love ones. And because we are longing for love we feel we almost die. For example is me. I really love him and give to him all of my life, love and everything. To the point that i know he loves me too. He did all i want and we are really happy as i know we could be. No ending. Until one day i saw him with another girl. All of a sudden i get hurt and almost die. I gave to him everything. And now that he hurt me i feel i could die. It is the beginning of my heartbreak. so hard to recover and feeling i could die. To recover from this i think we need to move to other places and had a vacation. Go shopping and go with friends. And the most is try to replaced a man in your heart. find some man that is much better and deserving.

hello anjiel, Why can't you moved on? Did she take out/robbed your heart and throw it somewhere? Just keep moving on...i am sure you are not immobile that you can't moved on.(hahaha)

moving on is a long-time process, it doesn't end in a day. moving on means letting go, and letting go depends on the degree of pain acquired from loving and trusting. based from your story, i can tell that you still love him since the thoughts of him still keep on lingering on your mind. you cannot move on until you let go of the love that you feel for him. moving on requires forgiving and forgetting. learn to forgive him and then forget everything about him. perhaps, you may engage yourself to worthwhile activities other than always bringing back the past of failed relationship.Cheer up!!!

Meditation helps a lot! And of course, you do not need to be a buddhist to do meditation. Doing meditation help you to stop clinging to impermanant things, like love;-)

Moving on can take a lot of courage. it is breaking away from something that seems comforting but hurting as well. Moving on is taking the next step into the path of your life. It can not always be at a standstill. the choices we need to make to move on in a positive way in our lives can be difficult to follow. time and heart are the best healers when you are ready to move on.

Forgetting someone who turned their backs away from you needs time. You just can't move on especially if you still think about him and the times you were together. I guess, you have to focus your mind to other things. Do something to make yourself busy and in time you will learn to forget and start moving on. Good luck!

Well you can't trust anyone except yourself. Your heart can only be with you. Love grows from trust and faith and if it didn't grow means that you probably didn't trust that person or maybe she didn't trust you that much. It takes time to build trust but it can easily be shattered. So make sure that when you think that you have got the one you would trust her with your life. That's the way that life goes around and comes around! Cheers!

Hi dear... There's not really way to forget someone but using the time. When someone doesn't love us back that person is not our soul mate but someone really important that we must learn something. For me I wasn't loving the guy but couldn't forget for 6 years, I was feeling guilty but I never felt that before. Instead of reminding the times we had together I reminded always about the box I kicked near him when we fought, how he got scarred of that and I would tell my self how horrible I was. It ended up that when I could finally find him to say I was sorry...he was GONE! That's when I understood that guilty can hold you thinking about someone, and maybe everything else: we get hurted for being rejected, so it's not we want this person for love but pride, like 'No one does it to me', or feeling that person is mine, that would be possession, or being imagining how it would be like and it actually be a story we are creating but not real, that would be expectations... There are many reasons why people keep tied with someone in the past, but when time passes and he doesn't love you back be sure he's not the one, there's just a lesson the universe is trying to teach you, once learned...you are free!

Yeah, so hard moving on. But think this way, he/she doesn't deserve your love. Just look into the brighter side, when one door closes, other one opens for a better one. cheer up!:))

It is hard to move especially after getting your heart broken by someone. Everyone heals at different methods and different speeds. Just have some faith and know that one day you'll find the strength to let go and move on. For starters, change the way you think. Stop thinking negatively and start thinking positively. Use up your time wisely start doing things that distract you. I'm sure that he or she isn't thinking about you all the time so why give him that gratitude.

Don't beg. If that's your attitude, the other person may end up going to great lengths to avoid you and the guilt feelings you have caused him to experience. No matter what you think, you can live without that person. You may not feel that you can - but you can! keep telling yourself that.

Take a deep breath and move on. It will surely be painful and hard at the beginning. But one gets over any situation. We get used to loosing our love ones who pass away. Just forgive her / him even if you feel guilty, and wish her/him all the luck. Don't rush moving on until you have accepted the situation fully to be able to perfom to your capacity at all times. Don't let it cet you down. Shake yourself up with prayers and exercises to invigorate your focus. Stay strong.......

when love has gone, there's always the hard part of moving on.. just remember your mind is over you heart and sometimes preoccupying your mind tends to fill up the emptiness in your heart...

Your heart doesn't belong to anybody except yourself. You need to love yourself first in order to give love to others and when you really love yourself, you can move on from bad relationships. Since you understand that an ex wasn't a good match for you, the feelings that you have should mostly involve disappointment. You made a bad choice and you'll move on because you love yourself more and you want to feel good and share that with someone that deserves and appreciates it.

All you can do is pray and ask God to help you...Dont worry you wont be like that forever,sooner or later you will move on.You just have to be patient and wait for the right person for you....