he wants me back,what should I do?

What could I say is that don't make any decisions so easily and let him prove himself first if he truly loves you... and if you think he can be trusted again and you still loves him then why not give him a chance...

Hi Zaga_cleuth Refuse him definitely even you still love him. He should question himself and finally realise a broken heart is not so easy to cure. If you agree him he will hurt you again. Refuse him and then observe what he will do. If he really loves you he will not give up so easily.

Hi. zaga_cleuth. I think that you should not reconsider giving him a second chance. If he has hurt you once, he may hurt you twice. Don't be a fool twice around. Let him be. I know that you still love him, but he has to understand, that in order to really love you, he has to do right by you. And fooling you, and then cheating on you, is the worst thing that he could have ever done to you.

hi zaga_cleuth, I had broke up with my boyfriend before I met another guy who makes me fall in love again. He was very good with his words and he seemed very true.He told me that he will do everything for me. He even asked me to allow him to go in the Philippines to show that he is real. I believed in his words. I had a feeling with the man I broke before he came but I tried to forget that man thinking that choosing the present man is better. We agreed on a specified date of his visit here in the Philippines. We talked about the schedule of his arrival and where he will stay and how long. Three day before his arrival, we were still okay. However, on the day before his exact arrival here, he sent me a letter telling me that he thinks our relationship will not work. I replied asking him to make it clear to me and to give me more valid excuses but he did not send me back any message. I felt so down being fooled. I was so hurt about what he did. My family told me that I still have the reason to be thankful because I was able to find out his true color. Even there had been many months since I broke up with my ex-bf, he still continues to communicate with me. Still cannot move on to our break up. I still feel same way. I was alone for many days thinking of my true feelings. Then one day, I just ask God for a sign. He gave it to me and because of that I gave once again myself and my ex-bf a chance to continue our relationship. I do really have a love for him. But if you will ask me about the feelings I have for the one who made me a fool, all I can say is that I pity him. It is his lose and not mine. He cheated me once, no wonder he can cheat me again that is why I will no longer comes back to him if ever he will have the nerve to come back with me after what he did.

Well, just be soften your heart friend. Were all human being that commit mistakes sometimes. Since you still love him why don't you give him a chance. They say that love is sweeter in the second time around...

hi, i do believe on second chance, so there is no wrong to give another chance on what your ex lover offered to you,and see if he will really do what he says,second chance is deserve for everyone,and who knows if it will work for the second time around.

I think that you should just tell him that you can't have him in your life again because he already hurt you too bad. It is important that guys are not allowed to continue to hurt us in order to hold our pride. If he cheated on you, chances are that he will do it again.

hi zaga__cleuth no do not do it, he hurt you and cheated on you so why take any chances. You listen to Giftsandbagscom as her advice makes such perfect sense. You deserve a man who does not have to beg forgiveness but one who loves you unconditionally just as you are and will be true to you all y our lives..they are out there so kick the chating son of a biatch to the closest curb and say good bye farewell adios, now get the hell out of my life.

no, you don't! if he had fooled you once, he'd do it again. that i guarantee.

If he has hurt you once, the chances are that he will hurt you again. For this reason, I would say that the best thing that you can do is to move on with your life. I know that making this decision would be difficult at first because it will hurt. However, in the long run, you will be better off because once the pain has passed, it will be over as opposed to having to go through it all again at some point in the future.

I know it's hard to take control of feelings. And it is hard to make decisions when it comes to affairs of the heart, but I hope that you let your head clear up on this one. Everybody deserves a second chance, but not when it comes to trust (I think). I hope you just move on.

You should not accept him immediately. Remember all the pain he has caused you. You must not forget that yet. If you still love him, then give him a chance by letting him court you again. Make it hard for him so you could see if he really is sincere with his intentions, you will see it through his efforts. Ask also common friends about him, if he really has change or if he is just toying with you. Try to find ways to test him. But if it seems that you don’t love him anymore or if you prefer to move on, then don’t bother giving him a second chance. It will only bring all the hurt back. It will be harder to move on. If I were you though, I’d rather not give him another chance yet. It’s the wisest thing to do for the good of you both. If you two are really meant for each other, then fate will bring you back together. But now is just not the right time. Let a year or two pass. If you would someday meet again, and both of you would still feel the same way with each other, then so be it.

think about it really weel. if you doubt about it than I think you shouldn't try to get back together with him...as you said he might cheat on you again. and there are other guys. but anyway you're the only one who can take a decision. cheers be happy

No I think you shouldn't go back to him. You say you're in love with him but he cheated you. Who knows after you guys get back together you might fall more deeply in love and he might cheat you again, what will you do then?? So i think it's better to back off while you can. But all of this is according to my view. The decisions totally depends on you. Good luck whatever you do.

Personally on a situation like this, I would always let your Heart be your guide. Never jump into something like Love lightly. Usually if they hurt you once they will hurt you again, especially if it is something like infidelity. I hope by now you have chosen to keep him away, and told him you're moving on and wish him a better life with someone else. It will be worth it when you've moved on.

If he's really sincere with his intentions he has to win your trust back first. It will just be a waste of your time if you accept him again without full trust.

Remember, he fooled you once so wake up, if you back in his arm again, he repeatedly hurting you, find someone better than him, pray to God and he will give the best for you. Good luck!

just ignore him. he already hurt you in the past and there is no assurance that he will make it up to you this time. you don't deserve someone like him, girl. don't accept him once again. there are more fishes in the sea. would you still choose a fish that is already moldy?you should be wiser this time.